Spitting - Hot n' Naughty or Degrading?

Play nice, unless you both agree to play differently. Originally Posted by M_Star

That's the key right there. I didn't read this as any agreement and therefore unacceptable.

Naughty, Naughty, Naughty.

I think this would be something that a rapist might want to do to his victim. There could be women that get into it. I would assume she has a need to feel degraded. I had a friend that had everything going for him. He liked to be cheated on and humiliated sexually. I never really understood why, other than maybe he just needed balance from being in power. I could see a woman that has been always treated with perfect respect, being caught of guard and enjoying letting (only at the right time), the right guy pull something off like this.

As for trying this blindly with any woman, you would be an idiot. I have to wonder what kind of guy would feel the need to do this with a woman. Would this repay him for all of his previous failures in his life?

I AGREE AND DISAGREE... I HATE WHEN A GUY SPITS ON MY GIRL ITS GROSS. Originally Posted by Amillia_Winter

Amilia,
This is obviously with the provider's consent and vice versa. Personally I dont like to be spitted on my junior and would also not do the same to a provider even if consented.

So you're in the midst of a super stringy slobbery bbbj ...eyes watering and makeup smearing from all of the DT ... Originally Posted by ItalianaPrincess

Lita - You had me after these few words!

What? This thread has a subject being discussed? Oops. Sorry... Spit you say? Whatever the hell she wants.

Spitting at anyone for any reason is a straight red card in my book. Never done it and never will. But if all
involved agree I'm not going to judge them.

Spitting at anyone for any reason is a straight record in my book. Never don't and never will. But idle involved agree I'm not going to judge them.

That's definitely a fetish/S&M/humiliation thing. I had a girlfriend once who was into choking and water sports and really degrading language. I was a young officer and gentleman then and hadn't let my inner freak out, yet so I was kinda weirded out by it. I figured she had a screw loose (she did, but that's another story) but I don't know what's worse: wanting to be humiliated and asking your partner to do it, or thinking you want to be treated like that but not having the guts or trust in your partner to share that with him/her.

I didn't really think spitting was my cup of tea either until I saw the adult film star Sasha Grey. I don't really like porn...too phony for me, and I'm not really into S&M either, but I saw Sasha on Entourage and thought she was just beautiful so I Googled her. A few clicks later I was watching her shag some homely skinny dude with ear stretchers and pimples in a cheap apartment with bad lighting, and it was some of the hottest sex I'd ever seen. Complete with lots of choking, spitting, spanking, face slapping, gagging and mouth spitting. It was obvious there wasn't any acting going on. Good stuff. Before they got down to it they were filmed talking about each other's boundaries, etc.

I think if I were to explore that with a provider (or anyone for that matter) it would be someone who is experienced in it, and who certainly isn't going to be surprised when I bring up the subject.

Ladies,
So you're in the midst of a super stringy slobbery bbbj ...eyes watering and makeup smearing from all of the DT ...he tells you to look up at him and saw "Ahhhhh" ...he SPITS IN YOUR MOUTH and then back to bbbj.

QUESTION:

HOT N' NAUGHTY

OR

DEGRADING?

Providers _WHAT ARE YOU THOUGHTS?
Hobbiests_ What are YOUR thoughts?








Italiana Princess Originally Posted by ItalianaPrincess

There was a time when I thought spitting was gross. Now I love it...crave it. I especially loves when she spits into my mouth...or I reach down under her mouth as the drool is dripping from her mouth...scoop it up...tell her to look at me as I shove her drool...mixed with my pre-cum...into my mouth...seems to turn most women...I know it does me!!
As with all my "so called" limits...they are ever evolving and changing.

If a provider requested it I would try. Given my aimimg skills goggles and a shower cap might be in order. Kinda like the only time I tried COF...I missed.

I would never ask for it as it does nothing for me, but who am I to call something degrading? If a lady gets off on this then good for her, but I would never want to do it.

Now, if a lady wants to spit on my dingaling during a sloppy BJ then I'm all for that...I love sloppy BJ's!

The answer is YES - its hot & naughty AND its degrading. Originally Posted by M_Star

I was wondering when someone would chime in with that third choice.

Woody

Was having a hot PSE type session with a provider and as she was on top with titties on my mouth, she pulled away and when I looked up at her she had a string of spit headin for my face. Nasty instinct took over and I opened my mouth, she immediately went into overdrive and things got wilder. Never had that happen before but it seemed like the thing to do and paid dividends. That was one of the hottest sessions I have ever had. Seems like the more sex I have with different women the wider my horizons expand. I am sure I have boundries, I just haven't found em yet.

That is differently a total turn off for me and if it was not discussed beforehand he would be lucky she didn't "Bobbitt" him. Perhaps I should not be so judgmental for not too long ago I found any spitting off putting until last Spring a very famous provider was finishing me off with a PSE BBBJ/HJ (she doesn't CIM) and did the spitting....OMG it was SUPER HOT

This thread makes it seem like this is the most vanilla group of people on earth...luckily, I know better.

DATO...hell yeah, Spit in my mouth...hell no !!

Of all the things that potentially go in your mouth during a session, spit is probably the second cleanest...after urine. Just FYI.