All of this wanting to pay less for less..

Alyssa....It someone tries to run the hustle on a man when they get together or even on here if it comes across this way many individuals will not see that person....What needs to be considered by yourself is that you are not the only woman on here, there are many many beautiful woman of different races, ethnic backgrounds along with shapes and sizes which and individual can see...

Each one can be very passionate with the fellow that they are seeing and that individual will create business for them....Yourself you seem to be shooting yourself in the foot over and over again... Originally Posted by TexasCowboy

I'm so confused? What do you mean by I am shooting myself in the foot? I have had a blast since I have been in Dallas. Majority of the time that I been an escort I have had a blast. This thread has nothing to do with me and all to do with trying to figure out the mentality of why some men choose to haggle rates for services.
I have always done a, "this is my rate. These are my services. You can enjoy between 0-100% of them while we are together. That's up to you."
I have NEVER tried to run ANY "hustle" on any man. So I am not sure why you would even say that. I have never met you so wherever this came from, I am dumbfounded.
I have never denied a man any service.
The only time I ever would is if he wasn't clean and I would give him part of his donation back.
So, whatever you are talking about... I have no idea.
I just looked at my feet and they are both fine.

Originally Posted by Thatdude

Hah! Oh man, there must be more than one.. This isn't the guy that I always saw!

This was said as a caution so that it does not happen....When a man exchanges funds he expects certain activities with a woman. When this does not happen then the fellow will not be coming back and negative comments will be made...

What one needs to remember is that there are many other woman that will treat a man as a man.

My apologizes it you interrupted this message wrong or if it came across as this...

It looks like the market is prevailing. Some ladies charge a tiered rate, others are one price for everything. It's their business how they run it.

If a guy wants a BBBJ from a pretty lady (and you are ALL beautiful), why would he book with a one-price lady at $300 when it is readily available for about half that? I fully understand the "I gotta see HER" syndrome. Hey, go for it. It's all a freedom of choice.

Alyssa, what set this off? Have guys been hounding you for a reduced rate/service session? (Yes, I know, the service may not be considered reduced from the provider's viewpoint). I'm sure a lot of ladies have to deal with this. It is nothing new. We are mostly a bunch of cheap bastards deep down.

There are a lot of good perspectives given here. Alyssa asked a serious question and is getting some thoughtful answers.

OG - I just asked about it after I saw a few ISOs lately.. I have replied to a few and some of the replies have been asking if I will accept less for less services.
I'm totally cool with any lady running her business how she wants to run it.
I never tell anyone what to do.. I was just wondering when this started.
I'm sure it's always been around, it just seemed like more so lately.
That's all.
I always appreciate feedback that is thought out.
I have no intentions to structure any tiered scale, but I appreciate the feedback on why men ask for it.
I actually got a laugh out of the pamphlet that was posted from the brothel.. I had no idea it worked that way.
I wouldn't be able to remember exactly what the guy paid for and in the heat of the moment wouldn't want to have to stop to try to remember either.

The fact is there are TONS of "menu shoppers" who only gauge their experience by the acts they perform. For many hobbyists that's all they ever need or want from the hobby. They are easy to spot, and easy to service based on that need. Funny part is that they have NO idea why anyone would pay for anything other than their Denny's menu of services that makes them feel satisfied.

Some hobbyists hobby for more than a list of activities. Fantasies aren't build of acronyms. And if yours are, I pity you.

[QUOTE=Hercules;1055383553]30-mins with a lady who looks nothing like her pics, gives lousy service and is meaner then a snake is better then a full hour or two of hell.

I'm a 2-hour min. guy. Do my homework and ask around. However there have been times when I prayed the session would end in 15 minutes.

I.e. Some guys might want a test-drive before doing a full lease.[/QUOTE]

That part I completely understand. I guess I would consider myself an all you can eat buffet..LOL..One price fits all.
So I highly recommend you show up with an appetite..

When I first joined the board in 2012, I did offer BNG's for a short amount of time. Truthfully, it made me sexually frustrated and I kind of felt cheated out of my experience in a way. I know, I'm selfish, I want mine too! It just was not for me.

Although, that is exactly how I met one of my ATF's. He requested to see me for BNG. Well, BNG turned into 30 mins, then to the Hr.
I guess I passed the test drive..Lol. Now these days we do not see eachother for anything less than 2 hrs. 1 hr couldn't even fit in all the activities and Red Bulls at my breasturant.

So I kind of see the Pro's and Con's of why guys request a bit of a break when it comes to either wanting an appetizer or the full entrée.
Though I also understand why some females, including myself, may not prefer to partake in price-cuts and shorted menus.

To each there own Happy Sunday

Can we just move on to fucking and quit worrying about who wants to pay what for what? If a hobbyist asks for a cheaper rate for less activities.. It's ok. Just as it's ok for you to say no to them. Move on. I'm not sure why we have to have everyone's feelings on this topic. You're going to run your business the way you see fit regardless of what other people say here. Sheesh...turn the channel from Oprah to Dr. Phil.

Can we just move on to fucking and quit worrying about who wants to pay what for what? If a hobbyist asks for a cheaper rate for less activities.. It's ok. Just as it's ok for you to say no to them. Move on. I'm not sure why we have to have everyone's feelings on this topic. You're going to run your business the way you see fit regardless of what other people say here. Sheesh...turn the channel from Oprah to Dr. Phil. Originally Posted by ketchmm

Yes, I apologize. Let's go back to talking about NBA, or getting scammed by a backpage girl... So sorry for some adult feedback on an escort board, what on earth was I thinking??

By the way, mr true love conquers all.. This is a discussion board. There are plenty of other discussions that may be up your alley. Instead of wasting your precious life being so pound the keyboard on one that doesn't, why not softly touch the keyboard on a thread that seems relevant to you?
Here's the problem, I cater to men for my business. Yes? So I like to have the opinions of men. Be it what I want to hear or what I don't want to hear. It helps me to reevaluate things at times. I am surely not the same escort that I was when I stumbled in to this madness. I need to grow and the only way to grow is to learn.

Anyway, I think let's make a deal is on. So, can we watch that instead?

"I don't do Greek and if you can get out 50 ejaculations, be my guest!" I just fell in Love!

Yes, I apologize. Let's go back to talking about NBA, or getting scammed by a backpage girl... So sorry for some adult feedback on an escort board, what on earth was I thinking?? Originally Posted by Alyssa Marie

Great reply.

Alyssa...what a great show! I'll bring the popcorn! You make good points and ultimately it's your business to run. Just stating my opinion that some men will ask for cheaper rates for less activities. Some providers will say yes and some will say no. Whatever the middle ground is, is up to the two adults. It's a part of the business. Not trying to attack you!

I consider this a form of haggling. It's not something I partake in or support, but I recognize it's as common as dirt.

I think the reason you don't see too many complaints from other women is that even those who don't like the a la carte approach to hobbying know it's a big part of the game. I suspect they either give in to it, or somehow block out the noise.

Oh, and I subscribe to Duke's comment on treating the hobby as "a list of acronyms". Right on, brother!

I don't have a problem with ladies upcharging for certain items, such as Greek, MSOG, or whatever else, as long as it is upfront on their profile or ads and there are no surprises. The problem I do have are the ladies who advertise different rates for PSE vs GFE. I have literally backed away from contacting ladies because I would not know what to pay and I'm not a haggler. The line to me on this is blurry; is talking dirty PSE? What about CIM? Too confusing, and too many ladies whose menus don't confuse me.