A friend in the same boat a few years back, his wife told him he needed professional help, so he traded her fur coat to a stripper for ... professional help. Boo-yah!
I'm 44 and in my second marriage for a little over 5 years now. Years 1 - 3 was averaging 5 to 6 times a week. The last couple of years I'm lucky if I get it 3 times a month... and that's ONLY when I initiate it. I think if it were up to her it would be 5 to 6 times a year.
much like Elgato ......Wife lost all sexual interests after Menopause ...so it has been about 11-12 years since we have had sex with each other ...before that it had dwindled to about every 2-3 weeks ...she has no interest in it and I love "IT"....that is why I hobby .......I do wish I could afford to hobby more often .....
You know it's funny, I'm almost 49, going through menopause, but my sex drive is off the charts! Maybe it's because I don't have an SO anymore and when I did, we still had sex at least twice a week! Bless the poor soul who tries to date me! LOL!
Well over 40, hell a bit over 50 ( I don't mind tellin') hitched 34,.. twice a month. Not that we lost interest, someone's too tight to fill hormone prescription. But I think about it all the time, don't get to get away and hobby like I'd like. Mostly because it's a distance thing.