Let's talk about screening

Ok, time to get it back on topic...even though it does seem to be a part of the screening topic...

ENG and KM, it's obvious there is "history" with you two. Each of you are entitled to your opinions, and are entitled to defend yourselves. But can we please try to put these aside for the sake of this thread.

I am not perfect and have made my share of mistakes. But in this case I could care less about the war, but I respectfully request a change of the battlefield.

I think you both have great insights and positive points to make and are intelligent enough to do so without the distractions. I really want to address a serious issue.

Thanks and I hope you both have an awesome week.

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How To Get Verified With Escorts


When attempting to set up a date with an escort, you will likely be subject to her screen process.

The purpose of the screening process is for her to make sure you are not a cop or serial killer. Some go further and want to know that you are a cool guy.

Now a reference is an escort that you’ve seen in the past and can verify you.

Most escorts want at least 2 references they can call and verify you before they will allow you to set an appointment. But if you are a newbie to the hobby, this can be a problem.

So here are my suggestions to get verified:



Verification Sites:

The number one way to get verified is through verification services. There are two large verification sites in the United States:

P411 (www.preferred411.com/)
Date-Check (www.date-check.com/)


When you apply to get verified, they will initially want 2 escorts that can verify you, just like most escort’s verification process. But both also offer a second way to get verified, and that’s through employment information.

If you are uncomfortable giving your employment information (I understand), you have two more strategies that you can employ.



Newbie Friendly Providers:

There are a good number of providers out there that are newbie friendly. They are typically good at reading voice tone and have very good intuition when you initially talk to them over the phone. They also have other methods, like asking somewhat probing questions, so be prepared.

Quad C Method:

The other method is what I call the Quad C’s, which stands for “Calm, Cool, Confident, and Collected”.

When calling your chosen escort, treat her as if you were calling a good friend. When you call a good friend, think how you are. You’re very relaxed, you’re calm, and you are informal. You use language such as:



“Hey, what’s up?”

“I’m going up to the bar, wanna come with?”

“Want to watch the baseball game?”



You want to use the same informal language and the same attitude when calling an escort.

In my advanced series, I discuss how 7% of communication is the words we use and 93% is non verbal communication, 55% is body language and 38% is voice tone. Well, when you are on the phone, 93% is voice tone and 7% is the words we use.

Women in general are MUCH better at tuning into non verbal communication then men are. And most men don’t even understand non verbal communication. But it exists in a very prominent way.

So bottom line, use the same voice tone as you would with a good friend.

This will have a calming effect and you are sub communicating that you are at least an alright dude. Having a Quad C persona will give her confidence that you are a good person to date in the escort sense.

So be Quad C. And this (EDITED) will be a start to get you past her screening process.

You were stalking her and making accusations from something only YOU seem to be seeing, but isnt there.
I have seen with my own eyes.

Dude, youre unstable as a bitch or just cross-eyed and have dysgraphia Originally Posted by Kynsley Morgan

Ladies, if u believe KM’s statement, please cancel our appt/screen but please let me know.... it is definitely part of screening assuming I used juju or her pimp KM as reference. << this is the LIVE screening lesson ...

MLR and RL,,, sorry but I couldn’t resist not posting... I am done posting my opinion and trying to stay on topic,,,I was expecting more posts but didn’t take long for KM to go wacky.... I will wait and see how many I will get cancelled and no more stirring up here,,, take care and enjoy

More thoughts.

During the screening process, I personally like a phone call with a lady I have not seen before, even if she knows "I'm ok". To me there is more to a visit than just sex, I like to visit and get to know a lady. But if we don't click on the phone we may not click in person. If either of you don't mesh, just say so. It doesn't make either of you bad people. Just because there won't be an actual session doesn't mean y'all cannot have an on ECCIE friendship.

Contact the lady at least a day in advance. If she is asking another lady about you, it may take time for them to communicate and they may have follow up questions.

And at the end of the day NEVER ignore the little voice in your head, your gut, your instincts, whatever you call it. If something doesn't feel right, apologize, be nice and walk away. ECCIE has been compromised by LEO before.

when I learned of this website, I read posts in local and national for about a month before ever contacting a provider. Although majority of time I just looked at provider pics and made a mental list of who I wanted to see.

First provider I contacted was newbie friendly and we pm’d and emailed each other a few times before having an actual phone conversation. Once we were both comfortable we set up a date.

From here she was ok with me using her as a reference and was contacted by other providers I wanted to see and eventually just snowballed. No actual snowballing took place lol.

For new guys, I’d suggest finding a newbie friendly provider. Most have been in the business for awhile.

Privacy is important. Especially since some of us are running for Governor or Senator or something like that.

So providing a bunch of information so an unknown person can screen and reject me is good for me how?


I prefer to PM and set up a time for voice contact at a later day/time, even several days in the future. There is ample time to investigate my history on the forum and maybe ask a follow up PM and choose to respond with a time for an appropriate conversation.
If you don't want to talk to me then I remain an unknown person.

I've always had a more relaxed approach to screening although I totally support those who require a more in depth screening process. I rely heavily on a gentleman's posts, providers he has seen(I'm always fine with giving referrals and appreciate when providers return the favor as well). Although I know that isn't always kosher with everyone. Anyway, I also rely on good ole female intuition. If I get an inkling of a funny feeling from a client, I'm done, it has saved me a ton of problems. Anyway, I've had sites, including this one, that required my ID for age verification, I've had no issues supplying that. This is a very delicate business, for all involved, we have to protect ourselves, I wouldn't expect any less from anyone else in this line of business.