Boys there is no reason in asking why because this is the way it has always been and this is the way that it will always be. I was raised to treat women with respect and to treat them like queens. Growing up I always treated women with the upmost respect. I never had trouble "getting" women. But, and I am speaking from personal experience, there is no benefits for the guy in being the nice guy. Women will enevitably lose interest in the nice guy - this is exactly what would happen to me. The end result would be women losing interest or cheating on you once they cross paths with a bad boy. As the nice guy you are just let there to scratch your head.......................... .............
The thing is that women LOVE to be treated like shit
AND it is really easy to treat women like shit, infact it comes natuarally but it just goes against our (the nice guys) DNA because we were told our whole lives to treat women with respect.
Thanks to my man Tom Leykis I learned that it's okay to not be the nice guy. I would encourage you to get acquainted with him:
http://www.leykis101.com/.
Here are some words of advice from the man otherwise known as Leykis 101. When you first read through it, sounds crazy but has been good advice for me:
1. Spend no more than 40 dollars on a date.
* You worked hard for it and you should keep it. Spending more won't get you laid anyway. Optimally you should set up an after dinner date for cocktails.
2. Never date single mothers.
* You already know her stance on abortion, she won’t have one. Don’t risk paying vaginamoney. Plus her kids will always be #1 in her life and you will always be in the back burner. Why would you want to be in second place to some spoiled brat. They already made a mistake once, twice or more. Note: Child support if for 18 years boys!
3. 3 dates and no poon....?....you are outta there.
* If you haven't got laid by the 3rd date you are travling down the "friends" road and she is just sponging off you. (Leykis' 3 date rule is for guys who ONLY want sex - they don't WANT a relationship. If you're looking for a relationship, then that rule doesn't apply).
4. Leave if a chick if she answers her cell phone during a date.
* Most likely she has set up the bogus emergency call to get out of the date early because she's not going to bang or, she just talked to the bad boy that will bang her after you just bought the meal. If she answers the phone and you get that vibe, excuse yourself to the restroom and leave her there.
5. No coffee dates, no lunch dates.
* These are non-humping dates. You want alcohol involved.
6. There should be as little time as possible from drinking to banging. Don't detour to Denny's for breakfast or anything like that. She'll sober up and she won't want to bang.
7. Thursday-Saturday is offlimits for a girl unless its definite poon. This time is spent hanging out with your friends and having a good time.
8. Never answer your phone during the weekend.
* You want women to believe you are too busy out doing stuff.
9. Do not have a serious relationship until you have realized your personal dreams.
* Women are dream killers and will suck the life out of what you always wanted to do.