Stood up by Tori Capelli.....twice

I think there are times WE all flake for the same reasons! There are client/provider relationships that can really click. The chemistry and friendship is real.....it's rare, but happens. For the most part, we are paid to provide off the chart IOP...some are better than others from what I hear. It's all a game. Some of you may not can afford to play emotionally nor financially. Rather than be butt hurt over her doing better and moving on, try being happy you were able to spend some time with her.

Btw, THN you have a big kiss coming from me. I love it when you call folks out! Originally Posted by Kendall4U

Awwww Hell Kendall, I want one of those kisses! Maybe a kiss with both you and THN on each side. 😘

It's funny because I just had this talk with a client. He wanted me to open up more emotionally and mentally, basically talk more about my personal life and I had to let him know that we are not friends and never will be and I'll be damned if I share my real world problems or hooker problems with a client of mine. But I am flattered that I was able to create the illusion that we were closer than that...even if I had to shut it down quick. But yeah, THN..you hit it. Perfectly.

It's a fine line, to be sure. Sometimes what a client is really seeking isn't something that can be bought. Friendship. Real companionship.

I have spent some time with a couple of providers talking about RW stuff outside of a bedroom setting. Only two, actually. But I always make sure I pay their rate even for non "fun" time. It helps establish a precedent that ensures we both know what the "real" foundation of our relationship is based on.

If a provider contacts me and invites me out to lunch or dinner, that signals a different sort of relationship.

It's tricky to balance all of this semi-consequence free sex and the real human desire for genuine interactions. Honestly, clients should be just as guarded with their feelings as providers. Don't be so open and you will be less likely to be hurt by their actions.

This is very enlightening, apparently there are 2 types of hobbyists. The poor saps that actually pay for "companionship" LMFAO, and the ones (how eva damita put it) who pay for the use of holes, wonderful, glorious, extensive use of holes! To the OP, you should just get married and leave the hobbying to us holeseekers!

For the benefit of those who aren't aware of my comedic intent: I kid, I kid!!!

What????

You mean these women don't really love me?????

And here I was about to start engagement ring shopping to pop the question.

Yes that must be it. She is being kept in the dark by an evil assistant. Originally Posted by thathottnurse

Luckily, I have no life or goals so I can continue to WK for Miss Universe all day if need be. I'm here for you Tori! Remember me in your hooker-will!: Originally Posted by thathottnurse

Laughing my ASS off THN!!
That's some funny shit right there!

Luckily, I have no life or goals so I can continue to WK for Miss Universe all day if need be. I'm here for you Tori! Remember me in your hooker-will! I know you're reading this! Let's be friends, girl!!! I feel a connection! Originally Posted by thathottnurse

THN

In spite of the train wreck that ensued, the OP did a decent job of stating the facts without speculation or whining. Nice job as opposed to the usual lame-assed whining associated with NCNS. Originally Posted by phildo

Thanks phildo. When I made the post I anticipated getting attacked by some white knights, but the thread got kind of weird.

To clarify, it never occurred to me that Tori thought of me as a friend or as anything other than a client. I also never thought that she owed me anything other than the time and services my money bought, and the courtesy that everyone should expect from others, and particularly from businesses.

I have always viewed what goes on here as a purely business arrangement. And just like with any other business, if you are a provider and treat your customers poorly you should expect to receive bad reviews. Eccie is really no different than websites like TripAdvisor, Yelp and Angie's List. Ideally, the negative reviews and comments posted on those sites will cause the business to improve their service or attitude or whatever they are doing wrong. And ideally that is what should happen when it happens on Eccie.

I have no ill will towards Tori. She decided she doesn't want my business anymore, which is her absolute right. The free market system is a wonderful thing. After the second no show I moved on from her with a great provider who filed in on very short notice. My hope is that Tori corrects whatever problem she is having, treats her clients and potential clients with respect, and continues to thrive as an escort. The world would be a much happier place if everyone could experience sex with someone like Tori.

Awwww Hell Kendall, I want one of those kisses! Maybe a kiss with both you and THN on each side. 😘 Originally Posted by verygood69

We do like to make sammiches

Sounds like she and her assistant have a way of getting rid of guys that Tori no longer wants to see without hurting their feelings. It's better to have a guy pissed at you for flaking than pissed at you for cutting him loose.

Smart girl.

Those of you calling her assistant "Sarah BITCH" and "Sarah RUDE" should understand that you may end up on other HDH's DNS lists just because...

You think bookers only work for one HDH at a time (now or in the future)?


Like Mojojo said, get over it, be an adult and move on. Some of you sound worse that a 4yr old trying to get their way - with grammer and spelling skills to match. Take the money you're not spending on Tori and enroll in an ENG 101 class......please. Originally Posted by thathottnurse

I didn't think of that. I made contact and prescreened. But I kept seeing all this bellyaching about Tori cancelling or NS, so I never attempted to set something up. I might need to rethink that. ;-)

Kudos to THN and K4U for their honesty here and helping many hobbiest to remember to keep all this in perspective. I hope all the WK's out there get a chance to read this thread.

<<<<<< Holeseeker

Hole seekers make the best clients. They know what this hobby is about and it isn't finding a friend/girlfriend. When a lady spots a friend/girlfriend seeker, she puts up her guard and finds ways to minimize the fall out. OR strings them a long. For a period of time.

Who is the hobbyist who has the great sig line? Is it DED? All should read his sig line. Very true not matter how special her IOP makes you think otherwise.

I don't think gents who are looking for "more" from a lady will ever believe it is IOP. I think those gents want something more than just an orifice LOL They want to believe the IOP is real. So it is real, to them.

The bright side is you are + $1000 plus generious tip better off in the ole wallet. She costs a bit more than the others but as it is said hold her up side down and it is all the same.

Hole seekers make the best clients. They know what this hobby is about and it isn't finding a friend/girlfriend.

I don't think gents who are looking for "more" from a lady will ever believe it is IOP. I think those gents want something more than just an orifice LOL They want to believe the IOP is real. So it is real, to them. Originally Posted by EmilyEzzell

I think the blame can be traced back to whoever invented the term GFE. We are no longer hookers and Johns engaged in prostitution. We are providers and hobbiest seeking the GFE in the escort business. (As my old friend Will once said, "a rose by any other name....")

So should it surprise you or any other ladies out there that men suddenly want, not just a hole, but a hole that acts like it’s happy to be a hole?

IOP forever!! It's what we pay for.