Wtf is up with these text conversations that end in abrupt silence?

1) The majority of ladies posting in co-ed have reputations for good TCB. Mostly this is due to years of experience and having decent heads on their shoulders. (not to mention reputations for giving decent head ). If THEY ghost you, it's probably for a good reason.

However,

2) The girls Omnivor is referring to are relatively young. They are not as experienced in the nuances of a business. A good percentage of these young girls do not have their shit together in any way shape or form. If THEY are ghosting you, it often is because they cannot concentrate on anything that didn't happen 5 minutes ago. A text message from yesterday is absolutely forgotten. Two days ago is ancient history. Many do not have the business sense to keep track of multiple guys contacting her.

"I forgot because I saw this dress in a window and then I had lunch. Another guy texted me, I did 3 sessions and by then I didn't even remember setting up an appointment with you. Going over old text messages is so boring. So later at night, I posted on snapchat until I fell asleep."

Many of these young girls become independent without the mental capacity or maturity to perform the mundane business side of their job. Originally Posted by Cap'n Crunch

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Which is why Asian Ann and I need to set up a class: Hooking 201 (because 101 is, well, just being able to fuck). 'You know how to suck a dick, now let's learn about good TCB.'

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Which is why Asian Ann and I need to set up a class: Hooking 201 (because 101 is, well, just being able to fuck). 'You know how to suck a dick, now let's learn about good TCB.' Originally Posted by Claire She Blows

A SERIOUSLY good idea!

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Which is why Asian Ann and I need to set up a class: Hooking 201 (because 101 is, well, just being able to fuck). 'You know how to suck a dick, now let's learn about good TCB.' Originally Posted by Claire She Blows

No matt'r how smart ennybuddy is, tryin' ta teach hoogars 'r hardlaigs onna hoogarboard is gonna be laik herdin' cats hopped up on Red Bull!

A SERIOUSLY good idea! Originally Posted by Cap'n Crunch

Right?!

Possibilities:
1) you're coming off as needy and they're ghosting you
2) you're trying to have a conversation, rather than booking, and they have shit to do
3) their appointment just walked in, and their TCB sucks so they don't get back to you after their client leaves
4) they're on mommy duty
5) you've tried to haggle and they've now ghosted you
6) you're texting after she went to bed
7) she's at her RW job
8) RW friend, bf, family member walked in/called, etc

Really, the list is endless. If you really want to see that specific provider, try again. After that, move the fuck on, because either a) she has shitty TCB and who knows if she'll show up/be ready on time, or b) she's too busy with her current clients and doesn't have time to fit you in anyway (and doesn't have the courtesy to say she's too busy. Originally Posted by Claire She Blows

I don't normally agree with anything you say but in the spirit of klovve, you NAILED it with this post.

Also, sorry OP if you're not getting the attention you feel is courteous. It's gonna happen sometimes man. You gotta keep the upperhand by not giving a shit.

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Which is why Asian Ann and I need to set up a class: Hooking 201 (because 101 is, well, just being able to fuck). 'You know how to suck a dick, now let's learn about good TCB.' Originally Posted by Claire She Blows

This is pretty funny to me because of how ridiculously low the bar is for being a hooker. And girls can't even do that. It's really the bottom of the barrel in this business.

1) Let's just stipulate that if you contact a lady for anything other than business then if she doesn't respond then it is no big deal.

2) Let's further stipulate that if you contact her for business and she doesn't respond to the initial text then that also is not an offense. That's life and you are not out anything.

3) The crux of the matter that the OP brought up. Let's say I contact the provider (I like hoogar but I'm not Douchehurst so I can't use it) via text. For the purposes of example I will be identified as Me and the provider will be identified as IllSwallowYourCawkWhole (ISYW):

5:00 pm - Me: Are you available tonight, 1hr, gfe, in call?

5:30 pm - ISYW: What time?
There's a 30 min delay but I don't mind. Also I didn't specify a time. My bad.

5:31 pm - Me: Is 9 pm good for you?

Crickets. Nothing. I'm sitting in front of my Hobby laptop. You assholes didn't think that I would allow you on my good computers did you? In any event, I have a browser up with 17 tabs opened. 3 of those tabs are eccie related. The rest is porn. I then see that it's 8 pm and I've waisted a bunch of time waiting for a text that will never come. I'm wondering why did the communication stop? This has happened to me so many times that I'm beginning to think that this is standard operating procedure. It is frustrating especially if it's someone you've seen before.

What would remedy the situation, and this has happened to me, is that the provider contacts me at say 10:30 pm and without giving details says something like "It's been a crazy night, things got out of hand at home maybe we can reschedule". That shows me that she is conscious of the fact that she left me hanging, that she is considerate of my time and that she is a professional. The inverse of this is no contact from the provider. That says to me that I'm disposable and I don't merit her attention. I know, I can move on, but when I'm going through this wringer it is very frustrating.

The funny thing is, I've had good Tcb and coms with the younger ones, even some with bad reps for it. It's been some of the more experienced ones that I have been spruced by. Im sure im doing something to cause it though and ill try to figure out how to be more hooker friendly and everything. Im getting over it now, and just going to try and move on to the next one without taking it personally

1) Let's just stipulate that if you contact a lady for anything other than business then if she doesn't respond then it is no big deal.

2) Let's further stipulate that if you contact her for business and she doesn't respond to the initial text then that also is not an offense. That's life and you are not out anything.

3) The crux of the matter that the OP brought up. Let's say I contact the provider (I like hoogar but I'm not Douchehurst so I can't use it) via text. For the purposes of example I will be identified as Me and the provider will be identified as IllSwallowYourCawkWhole (ISYW):

5:00 pm - Me: Are you available tonight, 1hr, gfe, in call?

5:30 pm - ISYW: What time?
There's a 30 min delay but I don't mind. Also I didn't specify a time. My bad.

5:31 pm - Me: Is 9 pm good for you?

Crickets. Nothing. I'm sitting in front of my Hobby laptop. You assholes didn't think that I would allow you on my good computers did you? In any event, I have a browser up with 17 tabs opened. 3 of those tabs are eccie related. The rest is porn. I then see that it's 8 pm and I've waisted a bunch of time waiting for a text that will never come. I'm wondering why did the communication stop? This has happened to me so many times that I'm beginning to think that this is standard operating procedure. It is frustrating especially if it's someone you've seen before.

What would remedy the situation, and this has happened to me, is that the provider contacts me at say 10:30 pm and without giving details says something like "It's been a crazy night, things got out of hand at home maybe we can reschedule". That shows me that she is conscious of the fact that she left me hanging, that she is considerate of my time and that she is a professional. The inverse of this is no contact from the provider. That says to me that I'm disposable and I don't merit her attention. I know, I can move on, but when I'm going through this wringer it is very frustrating. Originally Posted by chupataco

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This basically sums it up. Being told no or to reschedule is far FAR better than straight up being left to hang. When I have my sights set on someone to see, I really don't want to see others so I end up wasting a good portion of my time waiting and in hopes a reply comes. I guess I should have more options lined up, but honestly speaking its pretty bad in Austin right now quality wise.

I just sleep all the fucking time ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

just be consistent, baby.

Can't slack in the TCB dept.

But don't expect every whore on the board to have their MBA. Do a little research and maybe it'll help you avoid this type of shit.

It's been some of the more experienced ones that I have been spruced by. Originally Posted by Omnivor

I'm assuming you meant spurned as as opposed to spruced. You're a pretty buff guy so I don't think you need anymore sprucing up.

My experience has been the inverse. The young ones do this stuff to me mostly, although I've had this happen to me by some of the more experienced ones. For the most part I do what you suggest, I move on. Although that is hard. The thirst is strong with this one.

Can't slack in the TCB dept.

But don't expect every whore on the board to have their MBA. Do a little research and maybe it'll help you avoid this type of shit. Originally Posted by lizshue81

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I this is less devastating if it is a first time contact. You can move on from that. The problem comes in when it's someone you've seen before. Luckily for me, as of late my ATF's have been very good with the TCB.

Money right now talks, texting walks.

Why is it that I can be corresponding with one of you girls on text, and all of a sudden silence?

It is like you don't give a shit about anybody or your own business.
Sometimes the conversation may pick back up a day or two later, with some lame excuse, sometimes the silence is permanent. I just don't fucking get it. Originally Posted by Omnivor

I just figured she rear ended somebody ....