Trust me.. you will be next

I'm single,so it doesn't apply. Lady you should of taken care of your bussiness in the bedroom.

Sorry VALARIE God is a myth to me

Job- dont see what would benefit from showing his boss unless he was doing it on the clock, in which case im guessing since she saw it on his personal computer, he wasnt? I am also betting that his boss is also a fellow hobbiest, lol !

Preaching- I am sure hell is not ready for us providers.. besides, most of us give our fellow hobbiest one hell of a religious experience! (LOL)

Personally- i think you just need one hell of a good fawking! I know that many people tend to get a wee bit grouchy when they have not had a good fawking in a while... or perhaps you can book with me and ill teach you the art of DT? Might help you on ur next marriage or could pay for your attorney fees?

Job- dont see what would benefit from showing his boss unless he was doing it on the clock, in which case im guessing since she saw it on his personal computer, he wasnt? I am also betting that his boss is also a fellow hobbiest, lol !

Preaching- I am sure hell is not ready for us providers.. besides, most of us give our fellow hobbiest one hell of a religious experience! (LOL)

Personally- i think you just need one hell of a good fawking! I know that many people tend to get a wee bit grouchy when they have not had a good fawking in a while... or perhaps you can book with me and ill teach you the art of DT? Might help you on ur next marriage or could pay for your attorney fees? Originally Posted by LusciousLacy

LMAO Good one!!!!

Whoever, if you want to quote the Bible, then remember that Mary M. was what she was and was forgiven.
Originally Posted by ck1942

This is the second time today I have seen reference to this popular misconception on this board. As strictly and only a point of biblical scholarship, Mary Magdalene was NOT in any way portrayed as a prostitute in the New Testament. In fact, there are a number of biblical scholars who posit that she was actually Jesus' wife (see, e.g., The DaVinci Code . . . not that it was written by a biblical scholar).

I am not a religious person, but the bible is one of the cornerstones of Western literature and is, therefore, worth knowing.

I'm glad we cleared that up!

Val,

There is a saying in this hobby, "they stray to stay".. if you don't get that, I guess you never will. He wasn't betraying you, he just wasn't getting the type of intimacy that obviously he felt he had to get elsewhere. He loved you enough to stay with you, I guess if he didn't love you he could have just divorced you. Or better yet, he could have found a civilian woman and had an affair with her, then divorce you for her!

You can spare me the religious rhetoric, quotes and crap. I am an aetheist.

There is a saying in this hobby, "they stray to stay".. if you don't get that, I guess you never will. He wasn't betraying you, he just wasn't getting the type of intimacy that obviously he felt he had to get elsewhere. He loved you enough to stay with you, I guess if he didn't love you he could have just divorced you. Or better yet, he could have found a civilian woman and had an affair with her, then divorce you for her! Originally Posted by Guilty Pleasures

Thank you! Even though I've been in the hobby since 1999, I've never seen this or heard this before, and I've been very active both BCD and on several hobby boards. Reading it two or three times, it makes all the sense in the world and exactly describes my situation. You've put in one paragraph the words I've been searching for, for several years.

Now that I've been totally enlightened................... ..Whether the OP is just a troll or her post (until all the Bible stuff started) is on the up and up, I'm surprised a post of this nature hasn't shown up before, either here or ASPD.

so the lesson is, delete your computer history

nice

Valerie. Its people like you that make men like me hobby. I am just saying.

If you look for 'it' you will find 'it'..........whatever that 'it' may be........I was married to a man for 25 years..... till the day he died. I lived in a nice house got a new car every 2-3 years. Me and my 2 girls never wanted for anything. We were 'all good' in the bedroom and he was extremely good-lookin...Did he cheat? I never once saw anything to make me 'look' for 'it'.......However I'm not dumb enough to believe 'it' NEVER happened. I always told him that as long as I did'nt know about it and he kept it away from MY front door and things at MY house did'nt suffer/change...well you get the idea.
What I don't know might not hurt me...but if I find out, it might get you killed........(Dwight Yoakam)

This is not an alert, but lets have a little fun with it.

Valerie. Its people like you that make men like me hobby. I am just saying. Originally Posted by junglemonkey

VALARIE....fixed that for ya ......Don't want anyone confusing that nutjob with me!...I'm atheist anyways...

VALARIE and Valerie. This thread makes me want to have you both!!!!!!!

My GF cheated on me... Can I post an alert?????... I mean I was there to watch.. Does that count as cheating?? Uhm now I am confused?? All jokes aside though..... Sorry you got a divorce but like the ladies said already... He never "loved" someone like you but needed more. Maybe you should look into swinging or paying for that attorney ( I mean you already have a few guys interested in you). Then you would both be happy. I dont think seeing a provider makes him scum. He just had needs and you just couldnt fill the shoes. Case closed. As far as getting him fired.. that was lame. Why would you do that? Just because a man has a sexual need. BTW are you telling me that you never ever looked at another man and though " O My"... Come this is 2011 not 1801... GET over it Get laid and live happy. You know they say sex can help someones moods!!!!!!!!!