Goodbye/ Retiring / Im never coming back?

Yeah!!! Good one kit, a one-on-one retirement party.

I think some of the ladies announce their retirement as both an ad and a way to say goodbye without having to send a separate PM to everyone. The problem, is many ladies--and guys--who announce their retirement end up coming back. So the announcements have no credibility.

I can't even remember the last time I played but if I read that a lady is retiring it means I definitely would not be interested in seeing her. I mean, why would I want to see someone I could never see again? I prefer a familiar "friend". Just more comfortable.

Now if the announcement came from someone I had seen before and loved, it might have spurred me into making an appointment when I was active.

My retirement is plain and simple. For some ladies including myself, we entered the hobby because our college degrees could not get us our desired job/career and some of us sought a desperate way to pay off our student loans. Yup, that was me a few years ago. In recent weeks, I landed a job that would exceed my earnings as VLB. I no longer have to whore myself out and sleep with strangers and lose respect and dignity to earn a dollar. I can now look at myself in the mirror since I finally found a profession in the civilian world that I am proud of.

And for all of you "men" who think it is cute to poke fun of the ladies retiring, don't undermine the ladies who went to college and used the hobby to advance themselves until they found their desired career after years of searching for it in this recession. Trust me, being a provider was not something I wanted "to be" as a little girl and after waking up this past month, I realized I never want to go back to it. There are a lot of messed up people on these boards. And...even some ladies will be doing this until they are grandmas....I couldn't. That is the ultimate wake-up call.

Unlike some ladies, I have posted my legit retirement in both the weekend line-up and provider ads (never once initiated an ad in Co-ed documenting my retirement) since I built a successful brand since 2009 with nothing other than stellar reviews. The only other ladies I can think of who have worked tirelessly in building a similar brand/reviews are CG4U and Sonya. For me, documenting my retirement in the appropriate forums such as the weekend line-up and provider ads was to reach out to all the gentlemen who have seen me and reviewed me over the years to inform them they can get my information before I leave the building as I do not want to lose touch with some of my friends. Most of my clients hardly post on these boards, so a reminder is necessary. I don't see anything wrong in that. I hardly post in co-ed and have posted my retirement in the appropriate advertising forums. When you have built a brand and have close to 200 reviews, it is important to let the people who built you know where you are going. That is what a good businessman/woman does.

I have no intention of ever going back to the hobby. I am honestly tired of it and I can not respect myself while remaining in it. I am glad most of my friends know the real reason why I am leaving and it is most definitely a financial one. No disrespect to anyone, but with my reputation, I do not need to lie about retirement...in fact, I look forward to it.

I am very grateful and thankful that the hobby got me from point A to point B and that is what my intent was for entering it. Now, I found a career and am grateful for it and am thankful for all the clients who saw me to get me from point A to point B. They deserve to know of my retirement so that they can keep in touch after I leave. Yes, I am blunt, but I am glad I have awakened and realized what I have done all of these years to earn a dollar. Sad.

Good for you vlb!!
I respect thecfact that you *havent* plagued the coed area
Wishing you all the best!!

Good for you vlb!!
I respect thecfact that you *havent* plagued the coed area
Wishing you all the best!!

Good for you vlb!!
I respect thecfact that you *havent* plagued the coed area
Wishing you all the best!! Originally Posted by MsPrittiKitti

Thank you, Nena! I made sure that I never plagued the co-ed area. All of my posts in the past 6-7 months have been in the ad forums. Also, I made a promise to myself in 2009 that the very second I found a job which exceeded or had the potential to exceed my earnings as VLB (((((you have to remember we are still in a recession))))), I would leave the hobby permanently. I have to go where the money is at. Plain and simple.

Sometime you know the cards life will deal ya and sometimes you don't! Like me, for example, here I was thinking I wouldn't be able to come home to SA and guess what?! Im back motherfuckers! haha

Hopefully you enjoy the new job as much as the benefits!!!
(You sound as if you may be in the .000000009% that actually retire.
I mean this in a "good way" when i say, i hope you dont return!!! )
Good luck in your next chapter!!!

Viplatinabarbie, I wish you all the best after the hobby. You take care yourself too. Life is great keep on smiling y'all! Hugs...

I no longer have to whore myself out and sleep with strangers and lose respect and dignity to earn a dollar. Originally Posted by VIP Latina Barbie

You most certainly have a great brand and reputation and although we've never met, I would have never associated the words "whore" or "undignified" with You. Not trying to sugar coat what we do in this hobby but in my mind, there are certainly distinctions that can be made... Like that between a crack Ho turning tricks for her man or for her next fix and a courtesan. I prefer the latter - companionship with a mutual respect for each other and some mutually enjoyable sensual activities. I, and many others here and out there, would consider you in that category as well.

<insert shameless plug here >

... And Sonya and cgfu too!

I know there are others who I don't know so please don't feel excluded from the list.

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Welcome back pepper!!!
You didnt retire...you were on "sick leave"

Welcome back pepper!!!
You didnt retire...you were on "sick leave" Originally Posted by MsPrittiKitti

Thanks! Haha I luv that! I missed SA! Happy to be home

This probably won't earn me any friendships, but I think someone needs to say it, and I say it in the nicest way possible, with a giant friendly non sarcastic smile on my face.... I ask that you read all of the way through...

I no longer have to whore myself out and sleep with strangers and lose respect and dignity to earn a dollar. Originally Posted by VIP Latina Barbie

That really came across pretty rude... I'm really surprised that no other providers have said anything about that. I'm not a provider and that offended me.

And for all of you "men" who think it is cute to poke fun of the ladies retiring, don't undermine the ladies who went to college and used the hobby to advance themselves until they found their desired career after years of searching for it in this recession. Originally Posted by VIP Latina Barbie

I don't think anyone is making fun of anyone retiring... From what I've read, they are, myself included, poking fun at those who retire every other month and feel the need to post about it in the COED thread.

I don't think that you fit that description....

I no longer have to whore myself out and sleep with strangers and lose respect and dignity to earn a dollar. Originally Posted by VIP Latina Barbie

Again, I am a little blown away that you would put it like that... You basically just called all of the providers undignified whores. SMH...

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Again, I don't mean to be rude, because I've never met you, and probably will not get the chance to now lol.... I do congratulate you reaching your goals and am very happy for you. It's always exciting to other flourish and accomplish the goals that they've set for themselves. Best of luck in all of your endeavors.

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For the record, ladies, I don't think you are whores or undignified, no matter what your reason for being in the business is.

...I no longer have to whore myself out and sleep with strangers and lose respect and dignity to earn a dollar. I can now look at myself in the mirror since I finally found a profession in the civilian world that I am proud of... Originally Posted by VIP Latina Barbie

Sorry you felt that way, I could have never of guessed it by reading your ads and posts, I always thought you enjoyed what you were doing.

I wish you well in your retirement of from this Hobby.

...Im back motherfuckers! haha Originally Posted by Pepper_Springfield

I'm glad to see the Pepperisms are back...