Everyone who participates in the hobby should decide on their boundaries. There's no right and wrong, just a personal decision about levels of risk and comfort. I've seen providers who insist on CHJ, I've seen providers who offered BBFS, and everything in between. (Neither of these are of interest to me, so please don't jump to conclusions.)
Guys asking for BBFS isn't surprising, or evil. In my opinion, it's just either a very high tolerance for risk, or a horny guy ignoring long-term consequences. Really not much different than choosing to smoke or ride a motorcycle without a helmet. You want the pleasure now, damn the consequences. Convince yourself that you'll be one of the lucky ones.
BBBJ, statistically, is far less risky than BBFS. For me, and for the majority of hobbyists, it's within the realm of acceptable risk. It's also far superior to CBJ from a sensation standpoint; I've come to the conclusion that CBJ isn't something I'm willing to pay for. I'd sooner just get FBSM with a HJ ending (although a surprising number of FBSM providers don't have a problem with BBBJ if you're clean, respectful, discreet, and recently showered.)
MrsCarter, I applaud you for knowing your comfort level with risk and sticking to it.
- blowpop
- 12-09-2013, 10:34 AM
- 1WhiteKnight
- 12-09-2013, 11:55 AM
The challenge here isn't the cover, IMO! The challenge is in the marketing, in the presentation, of the over all package, and mostly in the delivery! Humphrey Bogart said it Best: "It's the things dreams are made of!" Again I applaud U on sticking with your convictions, nothings 100% safe, however a cover is better than none. There are a number of us even on Eccie that express their appreciation for safety, and there are those that will accept it, if the the lady fits their personal criteria.
For me, the pop feels just as good with, or without! I prefer the little things that lead up to the pop!
The attention, the beauty, mostly the attitude, the presentation, the lack of feeling, that I'm the next Joe Smoe, the feeling like the VP enjoys doing what they do, and takes pride in what they do! Being open, and sensitive to suggestions. This is all about enjoying the person your with, and being satisfied with what we both come away with, from our time together.
The providers of this world, offer men what the rest of the world doesn't, the things that only men dream about!
That's Worth Alot!
Again! The challenge here isn't the cover, IMO! The challenge is in the marketing, in the presentation, of the over all package, and mostly in the delivery! Humphrey Bogart said it Best: "It's the things dreams are made of!"
Be aggressive, don't take No, for an answer! Then Go Create Moans of Joy, tis the season! Eh?
For me, the pop feels just as good with, or without! I prefer the little things that lead up to the pop!
The attention, the beauty, mostly the attitude, the presentation, the lack of feeling, that I'm the next Joe Smoe, the feeling like the VP enjoys doing what they do, and takes pride in what they do! Being open, and sensitive to suggestions. This is all about enjoying the person your with, and being satisfied with what we both come away with, from our time together.
The providers of this world, offer men what the rest of the world doesn't, the things that only men dream about!
That's Worth Alot!
Again! The challenge here isn't the cover, IMO! The challenge is in the marketing, in the presentation, of the over all package, and mostly in the delivery! Humphrey Bogart said it Best: "It's the things dreams are made of!"
Be aggressive, don't take No, for an answer! Then Go Create Moans of Joy, tis the season! Eh?
- oilfieldscum
- 12-09-2013, 12:16 PM
Most guys here prefer bbbj and won't touch bbfs. You should do whatever you ate comfortable with but realize no bbbj will mean less biz. And don't freak out - it is just part of the biz. Originally Posted by tbone77494
If you get offended if a customer asks for a BBBJ, you're going to have a lot of misery. Most guys want BBBJ and a much smaller percentage want BBFS. A customer should be able to ask for what he wants, but that does not mean you have to do it. You should stick to what makes you comfortable. But the requests will keep coming so you need to realize that is just part of this business.You guys sure about that?...ijs
To answer your other question, I prefer male condoms over female condoms. Originally Posted by BFCjosh