For the men-what do you want to experience from the session?
Do you want the ladies to both just focus on you? Do want to just sit back and watch the girls play alone? Or all 3 of you randomly playing with each other at the same time?
Originally Posted by kayxxxooo27
Disclaimer: I'm engaged and I no longer hobby, so this is based on what I've done before and what I would have done the next time if I were still participating in p4p.
First, I've done one doubles session. I booked it for all day (approximately 5 hours). We spent time prior to the session drinking some coffee and went out for a late lunch afterward. I had a really good time and I can't imagine doing a doubles session in an hour or even two hours. (I also can't imagine doing any session for less than 2 hours, so take that for what it's worth.) The point is, I think a doubles session ought to take more time than a regular session.
Second, the doubles session I did was focussed on me. I figured out that format keeps me way too busy, so were I to do it again, I would go for option 3, random play.
Third, for the random play format to really work the way I would want, the women involved would have to be physically attracted to each other and I think it would have to be an overnight session. That would allow everyone to go out to dinner, relax and become comfortable with each other prior to any bcd activities.
I'm sue my expectations for an experience are a bit over the top, but unless I'd get a fairly good approximation to what I'd experience in the ``real world'' with two bisexual women, I'd rather use the money to schedule longer singles sessions.