Have you ever encountered someone you know IRL in the hobby world?

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  • BLM69
  • 10-09-2015, 04:45 PM
I seen a well known provider in the train on my way to a mavs game, I was with the so and was hoping she would stay quiet, I had seen her about a year before about 3-4 times.

I also seen a bp provider at a college graduation as we were taking pics, she even came out in some of them. I never met her, I don't forget faces or maybe it was the giant tits.
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Yes I have seen one or two. Nothing happened. Was not a big deal. All good.
The best answer to the original question should be: Why does it matter? Who cares? Why is it your business? Do you not have anything else to do? Are you that bored? Why are you so nosey? If you are, are you not embarrassed for people/providers on here to know that you are a possible stalker? Ugh. Originally Posted by samantha thom
oh no! What will people in the eccie community think about me? I might cry a little on the inside. Doesn't really matter to me either way. Don't really care what you think about me, don't really have any interest in seeing you from what I deem to be a pretty snooty attitude towards things on here in general.
I see a locally well known provider at the grocery store often.... I would love to schedule an appointment with her but will not specifically because we live in the same area, shop in the same stores and may know people in common. The hobby is just that...... keep life and hobby separate.

On another note I did find that a waitress that I know at a SC is a scheduler for several of the ladies.... I called to schedule and she recognized my voice so I just made chit chat and ended the call quickly.... she probably knows..... but we have our own agenda as she gave me a hj the last time I saw her at work... lol
The best answer to the original question should be: Why does it matter? Who cares? Why is it your business? Do you not have anything else to do? Are you that bored? Why are you so nosey? If you are, are you not embarrassed for people/providers on here to know that you are a possible stalker? Ugh. Originally Posted by samantha thom
Really??? You don't think its possible that someone's just curious about how often it might happen? At no point did the OP say he had seen someone, or that he needed advice about what to do about it He didn't even say he was interested in the provider. And you can't see a possible problem or awkward situation that might come up? Its not that we're being nosey, It does happen.

Take my situation a while back. Seeing Lady A in the RW (socially and intimately). Also actively trying to make an appointment with Provider X. Then while hanging with Lady A she shows me some RL info (pics) that show Provider X (a relative). Given that I'm seeing her socially there is a strong chance that I will meet Provider X at some point if I keep seeing Lady A. I'm not stalking, being nosey, whatever. Didn't seek out the situation. But had to deal with it BEFORE it happened. Worse still would have been if I HAD seen Provider X WITHOUT knowing the connection and then met her with Lady A.

Lots of other possible permutations that might need to be dealt with that I had never though of before that. And yes, I'd like to hear abut other cases and how they dealt with their situations. IJS.
Respect the lady and give her the space she deserves. I would never say hello in public or acknowledge her. I had one instance where a provider I have seen was on a date with a person that was in our suite at a cowboys game. She never acted like she knew me and I did the same.
I used to know this girl from the town I lived in at the time. We talked, hung out a few times, and even talked about trying to date a little but never went any further. A few years go by and we don't see each other or talk and then I stumble across an ad for her on BP. It took a few months of working up some nerve but i finally gave her a call and made an appointment with her. I had waited years to get this girl into bed and if that was how it had to be done then so be it. So i show up and she don't recognize me. I guess cause of the dim lights. We spent 2 hours together doing every dirty thing you can think of. Then after I left I told her it was me in a text. She told me to come back anytime and it was at no cost to me cause she enjoyed it so much, but she quickly found a guy she wanted to be with and settled down leaving the business. To this day, it's still probably the hottest 2 hours I've ever spent with anyone.
Once, I had worked with a model for a personal project; and YEARS later I spot her ad here. It was a "small world but not really" sort of moment.
Really??? You don't think its possible that someone's just curious about how often it might happen? At no point did the OP say he had seen someone, or that he needed advice about what to do about it He didn't even say he was interested in the provider. And you can't see a possible problem or awkward situation that might come up? Its not that we're being nosey, It does happen.

Take my situation a while back. Seeing Lady A in the RW (socially and intimately). Also actively trying to make an appointment with Provider X. Then while hanging with Lady A she shows me some RL info (pics) that show Provider X (a relative). Given that I'm seeing her socially there is a strong chance that I will meet Provider X at some point if I keep seeing Lady A. I'm not stalking, being nosey, whatever. Didn't seek out the situation. But had to deal with it BEFORE it happened. Worse still would have been if I HAD seen Provider X WITHOUT knowing the connection and then met her with Lady A.

Lots of other possible permutations that might need to be dealt with that I had never though of before that. And yes, I'd like to hear abut other cases and how they dealt with their situations. IJS. Originally Posted by GoAheadMkMyDay
Well…that's different. You just happened to find out by accident that Provider X is a relative of Lady A that you were seeing in RW.
The OP was saying he knows women in RW and searched for them on here to see if they are providers. Why? I don't know….he's being nosey…and you are not. :-)
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This past weekend I saw one of the providers I had an appointment with a few months ago at olive garden.. I was with my girlfriend and we recognized each other. Of course I didn't say anything but later she sent me a text message asking if I was interested in scheduling another appointment with her. So yeah its a small world.
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There is a provider on here that i think is someone i know irl . She looks 95% alike with no face pics.. The worst part is shes on my TDL but it would be very awkward if it was her.
So I guess asking a provider to pick up the sixer of Black Lager and blow me while we wait in the check-out line is a non-starter? Shit. What next? Bring our own rubbers? Start tipping?