I think having regulars is something quite a few of us take for granted, I ADORE my regulars. It does make things easier yes, but sometimes when I am in my base city I don't want to take any new gentlemen on. Whether it be me being busy with classes and RL stuff, some kind of stalker issue and only wanting to stick to regulars, if LE is active in the same city/state and recently had a sting, or if I just want to step back a bit.. I will only see my regulars and it helps us out alot. LE and all the violence in my base city is why I am not seeing anyone new in Tallahassee and have been just touring as much as I can.
I like to form that bond with the gentlemen I meet but of course only to the extent to what he wants to talk about! I never probe into someones personal life unless they mention it first. Chemistry is a big factor as well. For providers, having regulars should be the ultimate goal... it means you must be doing something right, and if for whatever reason you don't want to see new people or just want to see a familiar face it is very refreshing and rewarding. Take care of the guys you see and most will return!!! I don't mind my regulars seeing other girls, that is just silly!!