Well, that sucks...

And here is a perfect example of why one should never give out personal info:


https://eccie.net/showpost.php?p=106...7&postcount=34

...names have been chgd slightly to not out these ridiculous hypocritical morons. Want to know who they are and who to avoid ....pm me ladies and... gentlemen if u would like. Originally Posted by damn.scarlet

If a well reviewed provider gets upset with you, no telling who she will share your personal info with.

And here is a perfect example of why one should never give out personal info:


https://eccie.net/showpost.php?p=106...7&postcount=34



If a well reviewed provider gets upset with you, no telling who she will share your personal info with. Originally Posted by Fsn57

IF a well reviewed provider gets upset with you, then you are probably someone who should stick with the ones who are not well reviewed. How does that go.
Birds of a feather flock together???

Not all of us hobby “regularly,” for many different reasons. Many ladies I’ve come across ask for “recent” references. Well what exactly is “recent?’ If a guy goes 6 months or so without seeing a lady, does that make all of the reputable ladies he’s seen before, not acceptable as a reference? I get that people come and go in this hobby and that there is such a thing as being gone “too long,” but there has to be some middle ground?

As for me, being one of those who will wake up and arbitrarily go on hiatus for a few months at a time, I’ve simply decided that if my several reviews of providers with established reputations and my “okays” from p411 aren’t enough to get me in a ladies door, then that’s just a little more money in my pocket and potentially a little less in hers and we both will just have to be okay with that.