Why use backpage???

It's also odd when some obviously nondescript horrible-looking hook comes on, announces she's available or considering becoming available, and inevitably three or four poor fools start jumping up and down, pissing themselves like 3 month old puppies and begging to go first. What the hell.

But I don't see a hooker because I'm horny, I see them to make me horny. Originally Posted by jokacz

TRUTH, for those like us who have complicated sexuality. I'm no simpleton and neither is jimmy junior.

Why would you want to see a provider right after jerking off? OF course guys who demand multiple shots per session are WTF to me.

But everyone is different. 15 to 20 days a months I would have very little interested in seeing a provider. For me maybe for 4 days after seeing a provider I usually have no interest at all. If I was offered a free session it wouldn't be worth the drive to me. And I have been offered really really good prices by regulars and I just tell them I don't have the time. Originally Posted by brianjackson

I'm the exact same except for the part where you say you wouldn't drive out to girl offering it to you for free. Lost me there.

The last time I tried to see a provider from this site I was asked for way to much personal info. I understand light screening. But to have my name, my address, my photo, my work phone number and a few other things I said hell no. She didn't want to share that info with me so why should I share that with others? You say it is for your protection and you are more then welcome to do it. Just don't take offense when someone doesn't want to do it. Heaven forbid someone got busted and low and behold this provider has everything that's needed to destroy my world still saved on their phone or computer. Can't be proven it was fully deleted. Then you have the providers that like to talk about other hobbyists. Wtf is this shit? I don't want to hear about the other guys you fucked today or this week. Giggling at how bad they were. I know I'm no porn star but if you're giggling about the guy you just fucked before me its going to make me wonder if you're doing the same after I leave. Verified providers on here have done it and they know who they are.

Ellew youre fire turns me on... Let me know when youre in buff

So now we have people essentially slut shaming other men. There are sex addicts and there are those with high sex drives. Nothing wrong with a man who wants play on the regular. This doesn't mean he has a problem.

Dang, you mean ya'll not horny all the time? what the...

I get why some like it on the fly and some like it planned. I like it planned but can accommodate both because I get it.(on days/times Im working at home)

I'll put this out there, I have before but saying it again..you are a last minute guy, pre-intro yourself to me so I know who you are and we've gone through the process...'The Checking'. Im ganna ask about you, no way around it, who the heck is coming to my door to be alone with me?


Some of you have gals asking for pictures for reference/info checking?

Eh, thats not my thing, I have guys offer and I tell them no I dont need it. I ask if they are new.. and then I suggest they never send it to a gal that is unknown, Ever. Im personally... a trust none with a face picture. I lose at least an appointment a week for not sharing one. My 10 reviews are not enough with my body pictures, thats their issue. My pictures are recent, accurate, and they can look me up, Im very verifiable in a few minutes of looking.

It's also odd when some obviously nondescript horrible-looking hook comes on, announces she's available or considering becoming available, and inevitably three or four poor fools start jumping up and down, pissing themselves like 3 month old puppies and begging to go first. What the hell. Originally Posted by Next Best Thing

Oh yes... LOL

Ellew youre fire turns me on... Let me know when youre in buff Originally Posted by Hobbyman86

Dont worry I'll put out my Buffalo call for you.

The last time I tried to see a provider from this site I was asked for way to much personal info. I understand light screening. But to have my name, my address, my photo, my work phone number and a few other things I said hell no. Originally Posted by Smithdoe

I've seen a bunch of VP gals and have never been asked for that much info. I wouldn't give up that much info either. A couple ref's or light screening has always sufficed. I'll still take VP's over most of the nonsense on BP. The hobby isn't perfect but from my experience there's more negatives with BP gals.

It's also odd when some obviously nondescript horrible-looking hook comes on, announces she's available or considering becoming available, and inevitably three or four poor fools start jumping up and down, pissing themselves like 3 month old puppies and begging to go first. What the hell. Originally Posted by Next Best Thing

The phenomenon regarding cheap young spinners is quite entertaining as well. Some of the stuff you read about there is quite comical.

Dang, you mean ya'll not horny all the time? what the... Originally Posted by ElleW

Looking at your avatar takes care of that

TRUTH, for those like us who have complicated sexuality. I'm no simpleton and neither is jimmy junior.




I'm the exact same except for the part where you say you wouldn't drive out to girl offering it to you for free. Lost me there. Originally Posted by wotbaby

I actually did kind of turn down a freebie a couple of months ago. I saw my regular one night and the the next day she called me and told me she was really short of funds and needed things at the store including a prescription. I actually picked her up and took her to the store and got what she needed. When we got back to her place she told me she would give me a freebie right then to make up for it. Again I just saw her the night before and was in no mood for that at all. Told her maybe she can make it up another time or its ok if we are even. If I am not in the mood then I am not in the mood.

Looking at your avatar takes care of that Originally Posted by cowboy8055

The only time I ask for personal info is if someone has no references or reviews. Screening needs to takes place somehow. Many are uncomfortable doing employment verification and with no reference and no employment verification I won't see them. I don't want to ask about your personal business, I prefer to see people with reviews and references. Review, regerence, handle, hobby name, hobby number is preferred.

I'd hate to give any provider here a link between myself and my board persona even, since I'm trying to be as NINJA as possible with this stuff and, well, esp lately, my post log has been growing rather fat and that means I'd have a lot more that can potentially hurt me if someone made the connection... I guess I"m slipping, dudes.

Anyway, where I've needed references before and have had none, I'd let the girl use her best judgment and intuition about me based on my writing as I communicate with them via email in order to introduce myself, give a description of myself, and so on. It's worked twice and we've all had smashing good times.

But I have no problem in principle with any girl wanting some security for herself -- except for the girls who want a copy of my driver's ID or something. GTFO!

I met a girl off backpage a few months ago and now she works for me in my business. She works a full time job has no bad habits and turned out to be an amazing person. If I were 20 years younger and single I would date her. I know you find this hard to believe but not all backpage girls have problems. Many work full time and supplement there income. If you go through life looking for the best in people you will see the best in people. I have also been burned on backpage. But meet the next one with a open mind a expect the best

The only time I ask for personal info is if someone has no references or reviews. Screening needs to takes place somehow. Many are uncomfortable doing employment verification and with no reference and no employment verification I won't see them. I don't want to ask about your personal business, I prefer to see people with reviews and references. Review, regerence, handle, hobby name, hobby number is preferred. Originally Posted by bustybabygirl

+1

I'm not demanding when it comes to employment verification. I give them the option and tell them look I completely understand if you're not comfortable with it and choose not to, no hard feelings here I just won't be able to meet at this time or until a reference does become available.

I don't like having to ask for it. I'd much rather prefer references, easy peasy. And hell, in a perfect world I'd rather not have to ask for references either. But it is what it is and I value my safety.