NBA POLICY

Daphne, It's cool to see someone have the courage it takes to put this out there. Much respect!

I wonder if this means providers should run specials for AA men for black history month... Originally Posted by Slim.

Actually Reese Foster actually used to do a BHM promotion...

Meh..once NBA,always NBA in my book
I can understand girls who follow it due to Racism,Bad experiences and Ideology,but to do so cause some other provider told you,without any due diligence?
I will leave it up to these other brothers to celebrate and do cartwheels

I'm good

Meh..once NBA,always NBA in my book
I can understand girls who follow it due to Racism,Bad experiences and Ideology,but to do so cause some other provider told you,without any due diligence?
I will leave it up to these other brothers to celebrate and do cartwheels

I'm good Originally Posted by NubianPrince

What would Dr. King say? It's a poor human being who can't celebrate the growth, development, and/or self awareness of another no matter what race, creed, ethnicity, gender, age, sexuality and all those other protected classes. Bad form man, tasteless, and inconsiderate.

I don't think most level headed hobbyist care about the RACE these days as much as the statistics http://www.cdc.gov/hiv/risk/racialethnic/aa/facts/ Originally Posted by jay75060

Let me apologize upfront for turning something positive into a negative.

jay75060-Let me Highlight 2 contributing FACTS/FACTORS to what you are trying to insinuate with this link for those who do not have time to read the entire article. 1. Men Who Have Sex With Men. 2. Poverty Levels

1. I'm willing to bet there are more Caucasian dick-in-the booty ass (gay) hobbyist, then there are AAs, Asians, or Latins on this board.
2. How many poverty stricken men of any color do you think hobby? I have yet to see a homeless guy on the side of the street with a sign, that says "Will work for hobby funds".

Need I say more?

I will leave it up to these other brothers to celebrate and do cartwheels

I'm good Originally Posted by NubianPrince

lmao touche and salute!!! That was funny

And dear, regardless of why you had a NBA, it's very good you came forward with such a change. We overcome racism one step at a time. And where ever we can.

What would Dr. King say? It's a poor human being who can't celebrate the growth, development, and/or self awareness of another no matter what race, creed, ethnicity, gender, age, sexuality and all those other protected classes. Bad form man, tasteless, and inconsiderate. Originally Posted by dongeykong

Stop it,dude..bringing Dr King into this is tasteless..its not that deep or serious.
It doesnt take a grown ass woman 2 long years to ask herself "oh wait a minute why am i NBA?? maybe i need to think for myself,do some research and soul-searching"
Plenty of providers put it in their ads just cause they see other girls do it,simple as that.
They don't put much thought into it,they dont care who they may offend,its just another innocuous tidbit to include in their ads.The nonchalant way they go bout doing it is what pisses me off.

You guys still blow up their phones when they are NBA begging for sessions anyway..i can only imagine what her pm box looking like at this moment lol
I'm just not that guy,not going to get excited over a white provider finally deciding to take Black clients $$
She was NBA without even knowing why she was NBA lol and i'm supposed to pop champagne and do the jig now that she is not?

I wish the girl nothing but success and i truly hope she doesnt lose clients because of this[we all know how ignorant folk can be around these parts]

Book her,go see her and have a good time
I will just keep spending my money elsewhere

I don't think most level headed hobbyist care about the RACE these days as much as the statistics http://www.cdc.gov/hiv/risk/racialethnic/aa/facts/ Originally Posted by jay75060

wow thanks for link

LOL donkeykong. When I first started, a girlfriend of mine had told me to have an NBA policy and so I did...and I missed out on meeting some really great people. And so now I just have a "No thug" policy, which does not include color. Because ratchness fuckery can be in any race. Originally Posted by Slim.

Daphne,

I admire you for your public announcement.

Slim, wherever the hell 'ratchness fuckery' came from, I think I instinctively know what it is and agree it transcends race, ethnicity, et al.
If you don't mind, I'll probably use it this week to describe some of the knuckle heads I work with.

David, please provide your research that backs up your claim that MOST have this policy for the reasons you state. Should be interesting reading Originally Posted by OldButStillGoing

Sorry OBSG- I think I agree with David here- I will bet the house that anytime you see a Black woman with NBA policy- it's for the reason what David mentioned.

David not say most black providers. He said most providers. I think there are some who have the notion but no personal experience to go on. Just as the op. What I question is the idea most have this as the reason. I have seen nothing but guys guessing why. There are lots of reasons why this may be. I can even make some educated guesses based on what providers have told me over the years. But I have seen no research that sheds light on what are the most common reasons. David has a long history of making inclusive statements when he seldom speaks for anyone but himself. Thus the request to see the research to support his very broad statement

Damnation I wish I could find it, but I saw a BP ad by a black girl with a 'no AA' disclaimer, yet one of her pics showed a black guy taking one of her photos.
I will agree with you that, in and of itself, this proves nothing.
Hell, the guy was probably just her husband or brother, or maybe a professional photographer.

I was doing research for an academic paper I am soon publishing.

Most providers with NBA policies have them because of a perceived notion that all black men are pimps, thugs or are rough with the girls. Originally Posted by davidfree986

David, please provide your research that backs up your claim that MOST have this policy for the reasons you state. Should be interesting reading Originally Posted by OldButStillGoing

There's no need to provide research for a point he is not making.

He said it was a PERCEIVED notion the ladies have. He didn't say it was TRUE that they are all pimps, thugs, rough, etc.

And it is undoubtedly true that providers with NBA policies THINK it is true.

Damnation I wish I could find it, but I saw a BP ad by a black girl with a 'no AA' disclaimer, yet one of her pics showed a black guy taking one of her photos.
I will agree with you that, in and of itself, this proves nothing.
Hell, the guy was probably just her husband or brother, or maybe a professional photographer.

I was doing research for an academic paper I am soon publishing. Originally Posted by txman123

Txman in that situation- this is just my opinion - she is more than likely pimped and most pimps- don't want their girls around black guys because they feel the black guy might "steal" their girl or run game on their girl.