References for NBA policy Providers??

A palindrome, really? Originally Posted by LeftySmith

Who'd a thunk it, actually learning something from a SHMB!?

LMAO

[quote=Enonona;463522]Vanilla, Chocolate, or Salty, race shouldn't matter. The only men providers shoud avoid are those quote]


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Quote: mietk

If a provider has an NBA policy would they accept references from a black provider?

If the answer is YES, isn't that ironic as hell? The reference from a black girl is OK, but the money from a black guy isn't??
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No, I see no irony in that at all. I really don’t even think that NBA policies with providers for the most part is racial. Although some would like to argue that point.

I think some escorts have an NBA policy due to a number of factors 1) attraction / sexual preference 2) previous experiences / safety concerns 3) higher risks

Just because a lady is an escort does not mean she has to be open to everybody. Nor does it make her a bad person or racist.

All the providers I know will accept ref's from AA providers. Just because your skin is dark, does not mean you are dirty or unworthy. That is just stupid.

There is an older white man that has been emailing ladies asking if they service AA men... and when the ladies say yes... well, let's just say he is NOT kind in any way to these lovely ladies.

If a provider states no AA allowed, they get flamed. If a provider states that AA IS allowed, they get flamed... so the point is really mute at best. Because either way they will be harped upon.

My opinion? Not that it will really matter much, but women in general will be outcast as quick as the AA men.

It's not fair, it's not right, but that is how it is.

No offense to anyone is meant.

It's moot, the point is moot!

Sorry, I'm not the spelling nazi but that one is just a pet peeve.

I think some escorts have an NBA policy due to a number of factors 1) attraction / sexual preference 2) previous experiences / safety concerns 3) higher risks

Just because a lady is an escort does not mean she has to be open to everybody. Nor does it make her a bad person or racist. Originally Posted by Guilty Pleasures

Attraction? People, please! Stop using this LIE as an excuse. This 'attraction' line is just PURE BULLSHIT, OK. It is bullshit because you ladies are NOT attracted to every white that walks in, or every Asian, or every Latino, so on and so forth. Hell, you're probably NOT attracted to 90% of them, and can't wait for him to get his icky body off of you.

Previous experience/safety concerns? History reflects who's the most OPPRESSIVE group out there. There's not one demographic that the white man has NOT put his negative influence on. White man takes what he wants from EVERYBODY, then CHANGES THE RULES after the fact, after he has taken all there is to take. In this hobby, they're COUNTING ON providers who have this great trust in them, and these vendettas against BM. This is all spearheaded by white guys. Just like that caller you mentioned, checking to see who saw AA men. He's controlling who you see. Wouldn't it be easy to tell him what he WANTS to hear, yet still see who you wanted to see? That is, unless you like being submissive to someone who only cares about himself.

When all other races besides BM stop raping, robbing, short changing, being rough, NS'ing, demeaning/condescending, etc, then I'll believe this BS line. Until the day comes when BM are the ONLY group doing this, this remains more inaccurate, racist BS. Let's look through all the ALERTS and tally up which group has done the most wrong. Betcha the BM is a huge minority in that category as well.

Higher risks? I assume you mean STDs. Well, maybe those concerned about catching something should stop BBFS'ing. From what I've read over the last few weeks, it seems to be running quite rampant within the hobby. I'm not doing it...because I don't want my dick to fall off, not to mention finding out about some pregnancy that I might be responsible for.

Just because a lady is an escort does not mean she has to be open to everybody. Nor does it make her a bad person or racist. Originally Posted by Guilty Pleasures

Hmmm. When it's only one demographic that she won't see, what does that make her? This is the ONLY 'BUSINESS' where this shit would work, because this 'business' is the only one that condones blatant racism. I said BLATANT racism, because subdued racism will continue to exist throughout society. It will continue to exist until one of two things happen: we're attacked by alien beings from another planet OR we become one unified race sometime in the distant future. The first one is extremely unlikely to happen, and the second one would take dozens of generations of race mixing to become in effect.

Look, people. I'm not this militant, 'angry brotha' walking around here auditioning for the Black Panther Party (I'll do all that after I quit the hobby ). I'm just tired of being affected by things that are based on BULLSHIT. Things like pimps, LACK OF SCREENING, general, blatant racism (not just by the providers, but the GUYS that influence their decision to be racist). The inaccurate, traditional stereotypical mindsets that flow rampantly throughout this hobby and life in general needs to be eliminated. It won't be eliminated if we never talk about it. Continuing to sweep it under the rug means ACCEPTANCE of something that shouldn't be tolerated.

I've said it before, there aren't enough BM in the hobby to have that big of an affect. If that wasn't the case, there would be almost no drama around here. But drama thrives on this board. Maybe it's because of the 'brothas', no?

If I didn't say this stuff, it would go unsaid. And if it went unsaid, it would be unjust.

My new NBA policy is......

No Blondes Allowed.

My past experiences is that blondes are non gfe clock watchers. They have stinky attitudes that goes along with their bad hygiene. Probably just better to play it safe and stick mingle with brunettes and redheads.

My new NBA policy is......

No Blondes Allowed.

My past experiences is that blondes are non gfe clock watchers. They have stinky attitudes that goes along with their bad hygiene. Probably just better to play it safe and stick mingle with brunettes and redheads. Originally Posted by ibechill

Does that include Born Again Blondes? If the carpet doesn't match the drapes, where would that put her?

Does that include Born Again Blondes? If the carpet doesn't match the drapes, where would that put her? Originally Posted by CivilBarrister

Nah they don't count. Only the true blondes. Ladies should advertise their true hair color is. Gonna be kinda hard to adhere to this No Blondes Allowed policy. Maybe some of the NBA gals can give me some input...

Ever see a blonde with a ghetto fabulous ass, she is probably a brunette so she is good to go. Example below, Kim Kardashian.

Just see who wants to see you and if not leave it at that.

I would, but their pimps and overseers tell them not to.

Just see who wants to see you and if not leave it at that. Originally Posted by SOULMANIKE

If this is their business card... you may want to move on...

If this is their business card... you may want to move on... Originally Posted by ThatManFromTexas

He who dies with the most Cards, win?

TMFT.....you leading the race in this category?

Is she a brunette or a redhead?

Not picking a fight, but is there a study that black men are more prone to rape or abuse white providers? Or is this more of a bad stereotype that is thrown out there when a provider is raped, robbed or attacked? And doesn't proper screening and conversation with the hobbyist lower the risk of a bad situation for any race of men?

I think this topic will never end just because racism will not cease to exist in this country for a good while. Those tired of this topic should not read it when it pops up instead of just wishing it would die. But those fanning the flames and picking fights (political or otherwise) do not add anything at all to the conversation.

To me, talking about this could knock down barriers about why this keeps happening. Of course, it might not because this hobby is about $$$$$, and the NBA policy is used to maximize a profit instead of a preference or a prejudice to blacks, IMO.