How has hobbying affected your RW social skills?

I'm confused. How many levels of women are there? Originally Posted by drax1
Get out there and find out. ;-)
Zanzie....you take the bait and swallow the hook faster than the perch hiding in the shade of the pier.
Zanzie....you take the bait and swallow the hook faster than the perch hiding in the shade of the pier. Originally Posted by GlobeSpotter
Or so it seems. ;-)
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  • drax1
  • 02-26-2015, 07:27 PM
Get out there and find out. ;-) Originally Posted by Zanzibar789
Hmm? Somebody has a Superiority Complex!
Hmm? Somebody has a Superiority Complex! Originally Posted by drax1
Get back on topic please. Thanks.

Not true btw. Lol
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Mr. Z , the hobby has in a way spoiled me when it comes to RW relationships. I have become more pragmatic and less ideal with my expectations. I would prefer someone who can deliver as opposed to someone that thinks they can or they might or will someday. I prefer straight "yes" and "no" answers , as opposed to "I think so" or "maybe" or "perhaps". I prefer a "doer" or someone with a "Fuck Yeah! Let's do it" type of persona , then someone who is a procrastinator or thinks things excessively. In other words, the hobby has made me less likely to accept bullshit from civilian chicks. If I don't like what I see, I move on, NEXT! It's that simple. Life is too beautiful and simple these days, for us to complicate it with one overcomplicated control freak civilian out there. There are billions of women for us to see, so much fun, so much excitement, and wonderful experiences.

For better or for worse?

This is not an infomercial but was just thinking about how this P4P business can make us Fellas lazy on the RW dating scene. Being social and able to communicate properly is very important in avoiding being a social misfit.

Does relying exclusively on the hobby rob you of those normal RW social skills? if you don't know how to talk to a woman you'll just say fuck it I will just pay for some conversation or throw money at it. If you're going this exclusivity route I would say just make sure you're also practicing your conversation skills with your provider because you will need them in other settings as well.

One thing I'm definitely working on since I added hobbying to my modus operandi is being fair in my views. I will admit sometimes I find myself looking at RW women through a soft focus escort lens. If I'm walking in the mall sometimes I'm thinking to myself I bet that bitch is an escort, I wonder how much? I'm pricing RW women now based on appearance.

Sad Originally Posted by Zanzibar789
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If they're basic housewives really bringing nothing to the table then you might have a point.
....... Originally Posted by Zanzibar789
IMO, this statement shows zanzie's level of maturity and what he thinks of women in general....and the various "levels" of woman.

I guess Zanzie has more respect for the hard bodies at the gym and that slut he fucked that is married to the rich pro athlete.
Mr. Z , the hobby has in a way spoiled me when it comes to RW relationships. I have become more pragmatic and less ideal with my expectations. I would prefer someone who can deliver as opposed to someone that thinks they can or they might or will someday. I prefer straight "yes" and "no" answers , as opposed to "I think so" or "maybe" or "perhaps". I prefer a "doer" or someone with a "Fuck Yeah! Let's do it" type of persona , then someone who is a procrastinator or thinks things excessively. In other words, the hobby has made me less likely to accept bullshit from civilian chicks. If I don't like what I see, I move on, NEXT! It's that simple. Life is too beautiful and simple these days, for us to complicate it with one overcomplicated control freak civilian out there. There are billions of women for us to see, so much fun, so much excitement, and wonderful experiences. Originally Posted by TheAntichrist666

That's a good one. Lol I do think though that I've always been impatient. I will admit a part of my personality sort of likes the real RW games to an extent. Something oddly desirable in it for me. I like sitting back watching it unfold like odd entertainment. However fucking has to be the end game or I wont like it so much.
IMO, this statement shows zanzie's level of maturity and what he thinks of women in general....and the various "levels" of woman.

I guess Zanzie has more respect for the hard bodies at the gym and that slut he fucked that is married to the rich pro athlete. Originally Posted by GlobeSpotter
Hey guy you'll get over it. Afterall Its just one mans opinion. You emo way too much. Chill out.

I do find your critique of what I think about women to be pretty dam hilarious. Hahaha
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  • drax1
  • 02-26-2015, 08:17 PM
Get back on topic please. Thanks.

Not true btw. Lol Originally Posted by Zanzibar789
Ha ha, we all step in it sometime. No harm no foul.
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I do find your critique of what I think about women to be pretty dam hilarious. Hahaha Originally Posted by Zanzibar789
Not so much.....

Russ all I ask is that you acknowledge both sides of the view. Women who work and women that don't. Cool? Lol ok
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Women who raise kids don't work?
They dont bring home a salary but I guess a penny saved is a penny earned. There are women out there that work and take care of kids. So the ones that choose to stay home are basic house wives. Nothing wrong with calling a spade a spade. Personally given all the women on here who work and still take care of their kids I think women that opt to be housewives are doing themselves a disservice. Once the divorce happens they'll have no useful skills except for being a maid or working in a kitchen. I imagine those women get higher divorce settlements as well so it benefits you to encourage her to work. Personally I wouldnt want a stay at home wife. Its the 21st century Russ not 1950.
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IMO, this statement shows zanzie's level of maturity and what he thinks of women in general....and the various "levels" of woman.

I guess Zanzie has more respect for the hard bodies at the gym and that slut he fucked that is married to the rich pro athlete. Originally Posted by GlobeSpotter
^^^^^ As GS said....