Mr. Z , the hobby has in a way spoiled me when it comes to RW relationships. I have become more pragmatic and less ideal with my expectations. I would prefer someone who can deliver as opposed to someone that thinks they can or they might or will someday. I prefer straight "yes" and "no" answers , as opposed to "I think so" or "maybe" or "perhaps". I prefer a "doer" or someone with a "Fuck Yeah! Let's do it" type of persona , then someone who is a procrastinator or thinks things excessively. In other words, the hobby has made me less likely to accept bullshit from civilian chicks. If I don't like what I see, I move on, NEXT! It's that simple. Life is too beautiful and simple these days, for us to complicate it with one overcomplicated control freak civilian out there. There are billions of women for us to see, so much fun, so much excitement, and wonderful experiences.
For better or for worse?
This is not an infomercial but was just thinking about how this P4P business can make us Fellas lazy on the RW dating scene. Being social and able to communicate properly is very important in avoiding being a social misfit.
Does relying exclusively on the hobby rob you of those normal RW social skills? if you don't know how to talk to a woman you'll just say fuck it I will just pay for some conversation or throw money at it. If you're going this exclusivity route I would say just make sure you're also practicing your conversation skills with your provider because you will need them in other settings as well.
One thing I'm definitely working on since I added hobbying to my modus operandi is being fair in my views. I will admit sometimes I find myself looking at RW women through a soft focus escort lens. If I'm walking in the mall sometimes I'm thinking to myself I bet that bitch is an escort, I wonder how much? I'm pricing RW women now based on appearance.
Sad
Originally Posted by Zanzibar789