Sugar Daddy/ Sugar Baby Dating

I really enjoy sugar arrangements, they are a great way to date in this business and maintain my independence.

I'm definitely for SD/sb relationships. They definitely require a different level of time and personal investment than a hobbyist/provider exchange and can be a great experience when done right. Unfortunately, in topical discussions and inquiries on the subject these days I've found there are folks that want to dip their toe in the water but want to approach it like having a regular UTR type gal. A purely p4p exchange is not what sb/sd relationships are based on. Folks only interested and/or able to have a few hours of bcd time should probably stick to hobbying, IMO.

^^^ I agree 100%

It takes more commitment but it is worth it and there are a lot fewer problems with this type of arrangement.

I'm definitely for SD/sb relationships. They definitely require a different level of time and personal investment than a hobbyist/provider exchange and can be a great experience when done right. Unfortunately, in topical discussions and inquiries on the subject these days I've found there are folks that want to dip their toe in the water but want to approach it like having a regular UTR type gal. A purely p4p exchange is not what sb/sd relationships are based on. Folks only interested and/or able to have a few hours of bcd time should probably stick to hobbying, IMO. Originally Posted by Utanks

Well said.

After reading this I believe that me and my ex where really in a SB/SD relationship.
That explains a lot.

Wondering how many SD'S you SB'S have at one time.

It takes more commitment but it is worth it and there are a lot fewer problems with this type of arrangement. Originally Posted by SkylerScarlett

I would bet the having problems part is the same either way!
If a person has problems hobbying, I think, there going to have problems in SD/SB. Don't you think?

Wondering how many SD'S you SB'S have at one time. Originally Posted by i'va biggen

Then you didn't do your homework

I don't understand how people think SD/SB relationships just happen. They take a lot of work. I've been one (though I didn't know that what it was at the time) and honestly that's the reason providing is so "easy" for me. There's the first meeting, the weird dance around what everyone really wants, the slow buildup of trust on both sides, the increasingly large gifts....it all takes time to get to where you have credit cards you never see the bill for. It might be different on SD sites but I don't have experience with those.

Being in love for a hour or two is MUCH easier than being in love for a weekend or week and knowing he has to leave you for his "real" life. In the end, it's the same time and emotional commitment as having a SO but with clearly defined boundaries. If you think of your SD as just some guy you give the GFE to once a week for an allowance then to quote Gotyour6 you are just "a hooker on retainer".

I would like to have a SB. Someone I could see a few times a month as long as we mesh. In the hobby you never really get to break the ice. With a SB you really get into a groove with each other and can fuck each others brains out.

Then you didn't do your homework Originally Posted by Gotyour6

I was told on a SD sire that women were not obligated to have just one. What did you think?

I was told on a SD sire that women were not obligated to have just one. What did you think? Originally Posted by i'va biggen

IMO it depends on the girl and her needs, but honestly I feel that one should be enough. Ppl get greedy and typically that's when bad things happen. Even though yall may have an understanding the SD will probably want you to himself, if he ever found out the outcome may not be what's expected. This strictly depends on the individuals understanding of the current arrangement.

I enjoy being a sugar baby and found both experiences I have had with sugar daddies to be interesting and financially rewarding. But because I desired a real relationship at the time I ended both arrangements (they weren't at the same time). Arrangements that are clearly defined and mutually beneficial are ideal for me. As long as lines aren't crossed.

is there any good sites for SD looking for SB with them finding out that I am a escort I tried arrangement finders but it hasn't worked out like I want it to be. thx for reading