It Bears Repeating (or What NOT To Ask During Your Initial Contact)

Read your post, hon. Maybe you should take a moment and listen to those girls and you wouldn't have to hobby, and maybe you'd even learn something. Nah...probably not, because you know better, right? After all, you are a man. Nothing wrong with that, but most women don't have to pay for intimacy either. Hmmm.......think about it, maybe you'll get it, and maybe you'll just continue to bash. LOL Originally Posted by MaxiMilyen

It's not that you don't have anything important to say, just get to the point.

Wait, are we supposed to take a moment to take hooker advice to heart? You must be confused why most of us hobby... Although some guys are fugly or lack the necessary social skills to get it on their own, most of us are honestly just deviant horndogs — We enjoy the hunt, the adventure and the variety — and we have the disposable income that you're seeking. What is your reason to provide?

Speaking of variety, there are plenty of options with beautiful women at the right price with no drama or hoops to jump through. You have every right to voice your honest opinion in this forum, just be prepared for honest responses. The rejection feature ("delete" for you) works both ways — we can just go onto the next...

Wow .. some of these posts need to be in the running for longest-winded blablabla babble bullshit in ECCIE history.

Wow .. some of these posts need to be in the running for longest-winded blablabla babble bullshit in ECCIE history. Originally Posted by sweet.treat69

No doubt sweet.treat, no doubt, but be careful, Maxi may label you as one of the assholes running off very good providers!...

...Which brings me Maxi to - what very good providers have we Gents run off Eccie, Maxi?

Question #2 - How do you know they are very good providers? Have you paid to fuck them or deal with their TCB?

It's not that you don't have anything important to say, just get to the point.

Wait, are we supposed to take a moment to take hooker advice to heart? You must be confused why most of us hobby... Although some guys are fugly or lack the necessary social skills to get it on their own, most of us are honestly just deviant horndogs — We enjoy the hunt, the adventure and the variety — and we have the disposable income that you're seeking. What is your reason to provide?

Speaking of variety, there are plenty of options with beautiful women at the right price with no drama or hoops to jump through. You have every right to voice your honest opinion in this forum, just be prepared for honest responses. The rejection feature ("delete" for you) works both ways — we can just go onto the next... Originally Posted by crazysauce

I try to explain and no, of course not, I'm an experienced educated woman who loves her job and even actual Men. How stupid would ya be to do that? LOL

I know pretty much what men want.

My clients are great, lucky most have been and are nice looking, but looks not important to me. Just be nice when contacting, do homework beforehand. NO need to club us over the head any more to win, we sell it with parameters already set.

No understanding before hobby, why women cut men off from sex, but now I do. I have no intention of taking that route, but not gonna have sex with a kid in a man's body and who has no respect for women, HUGE turn OFF!

Trained to be provider.

As can we and often do.

Guys, keep it simple.

If you want to see someone......read about them. Follow their rules. If you dont like their rules, to bad for you and go see someone else.

Caitie Mae's policy (and most other providers' policies or rules) are easy to follow. Caitie Mae's policy may be different from other providers' policies. So what. They are still easy to figure out. Any gentleman can follow them.

BTW, it's common knowledge not to discuss dollars and any illegal activities in any initial set of texts, letters, PMs, video chats, emails, phone calls or whatever with anyone you are thinking about meeting one-on-one for the first time. Sigh, when did so many gentleman forget basic social etiquette?

Caitie Mae IS an exceptional person and provider. She understands what "safe" is to her. She has a simple screening system with an easy set of rules to follow. Read her website, showcase and reviews (Seriously, don't just look at the pictures). Follow her easy instructions.

If you want to meet other providers repeat the same simple steps for them......otherwise risk not meeting them also. Simple as that. Easy as pie. Piece of cake.

Listen to Santa when he says,"Ho, Ho, Ho!" Why do you think he is so happy? Did you know that it is because he is checking his list and cheerfully commenting on a few ladies who are going to get the best presents?
And, why are those wonderful ladies going to get the best presents? That's right. Because Santa followed their rules, got screened and had an amazing time.

Caitie's policy is probably one of the most transparent and well written policies on this site. I was able to communicate with her effortlessly after I took the time to read and understand. Although we haven't met as of yet due to conflicting schedules, I have had no problems so far. Just my view on this.

Why everyone makes it so complicated. Her body her rules. What's so hard to understand? My feeble, unintellectual mind can't grasp it.

Someone please explain it to my low IQ brain...do it in simple words, because I think I must be really stupid.

Why everyone makes it so complicated. Her body her rules. What's so hard to understand? My feeble, unintellectual mind can't grasp it.

Someone please explain it to my low IQ brain...do it in simple words, because I think I must be really stupid. Originally Posted by Luke Skywalker

Luke, The force is strong with you. That is why you understand so easily.

Wow thank you!!! I'm new to the website but not new to escorting. Worked in cities all over the US and have gotten in trouble many many times doing calls. Nothing to brag about but im just saying, hello... this shit is illegal!!! Why does everyone feel so comfortable talking about details of the services they are receiving or providing???? It's not going to be cute when you are talking to an undercover about a "menu". Smh.

Wow thank you!!! I'm new to the website but not new to escorting. Worked in cities all over the US and have gotten in trouble many many times doing calls. Nothing to brag about but im just saying, hello... this shit is illegal!!! Why does everyone feel so comfortable talking about details of the services they are receiving or providing???? It's not going to be cute when you are talking to an undercover about a "menu". Smh. Originally Posted by Alexarose09

Welcome to the site. Thanks for your input... Stick to your guns and everything will be alright... Good luck out there.

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I'm sorry, but your arguement compares apples to oranges. For starters, in order for your scenario to hold up, and you would have to have a reputation established in an open forum that includes a multitude of positive reviews posted by well-respected providers.

As for your recent grilling, decide on your own comfort level for sharing information and simply move on when your boundaries are crossed.



Or maybe looking for intellectual stimulation. Or any of the services listed in my original post. Regardless of what he's looking for, he'll be best served by checking my reviews, my ads or asking my reviewers about specifics. If he asks me about anything that may be considered illegal, he's already blown my screening.



I think there are as many possibilities as there are members, but most of the messages seem to come from the too-busy-to-keep-track-of-every-provider's-preferences demographic.

Unfortunately, I'm probably missing out on getting to know quite a few really amazing men just because no one told them that some comments and questions are inappropriate for introductions.

Hopefully this post will help some get on the right track.



Thanks for the consideration, but I think I'll let the current record stand.



I want to NEVER see anyone who asks me to participate in illegal activities. Not ever.



To be asked such thoughtless questions after screening would be even worse than on initial contact. At least if you ask up front I only lose the time it takes to read the message, not all of the time it takes to properly screen a potential playmate.



An absolutely perfect answer! I couldn't explain it better myself.



Rate and activity are NOT mutual. Understanding the difference may improve your post-to-review ratio, though, so you may want to consult with your dictionary and/or criminal code in your state.

As for some ladies being ymmv and some being liars, select from ladies with enough reviews to support that she is on the up-and-up. If that's not good enough, PM the reviewer(s) and ask them about your concerns. No one on the boards is going to cover for a chick who isn't serving what she's selling.



Thank you so much for the support, Gluteman. Would you mind if someone (established on the boards) reads one of your reviews of time with me and followed up with question or two about our visit? Originally Posted by Caitie Mae

Tell em Catie Mae lmao!!!! love a lady that tell it like it is

I'm team Catie Mae

Caitie's policy is probably one of the most transparent and well written policies on this site. I was able to communicate with her effortlessly after I took the time to read and understand. Although we haven't met as of yet due to conflicting schedules, I have had no problems so far. Just my view on this. Originally Posted by DarkeyKong

+ a million DK

It is rather gracious of you Caitie to offer this public service of explaining your non-responses in Co-Ed. I feel no ways about ignoring and moving on. A time or two, I may feel a little bad if the inquirer is a newbie. But I have even less sympathy when it's a seasoned hobbyist, as they should know better.

There's also the added time wasting aspect on top of the concerns around legality and etiquette. And there is also the reality that some dudes get off on attempting to pilfer providers' time by fishing for "free erotica." I've found that one "Do you XXXXX??" question usually leads to another, and then another, and so on. I'd much prefer to meet with a gent who has some investment in his intellectual capacities and reading comprehension skills.

...Regardless of what he's looking for, he'll be best served by checking my reviews, my ads or asking my reviewers about specifics. If he asks me about anything that may be considered illegal, he's already blown my screening. Originally Posted by Caitie Mae

Guys, keep it simple.

If you want to see someone......read about them. Follow their rules. If you dont like their rules, to bad for you and go see someone else.
Originally Posted by Invisible1

I have to agree with this.

Most providers are good with their do and do not policies. But, if a hobbyist wants to know about something not listed, there is nothing wrong with asking the provider about a certain activity or type of session desired, after all, it may be the provider's body, but it is the hobbyist's money. If it offends her, then that is too bad, she should have had it listed on her profile, signature line or whatever. If a hobbyist asked a provider to do what is on her don't do list, he needs to be put on blast until he learns how to read.

It is also a given to not ask about illegal activities before the hobbyist is screened.

I love getting PMs and emails from hobbyists I've never met before and I open them with eager enthusiasm, excited about responding to them even before I read the message.

Unfortunately, I don't always get a chance to respond to a hobbyist's initial contact because his message implies that he would like for me to participate in illegal activities with him. Anyone who has read my website or my showcase should know that I send all such inquiries to the circular file unanswered, regardless of how eager I am to meet.

Lately, over the past 2-3 months, inquiries like I'm talking about have become the norm and I feel it should be addressed in an open forum, to explain the cold shoulder so many have received from me. To that end, I have resurrected a post I made long, long ago, on a board far, far away, in hopes that... well.....



So, there you have it. Any questions?

~sweetness~ Originally Posted by Caitie Mae

You have been on my TDL with reservation: you confirmed my reservation.