then of course you have a number of Ladies who carter to there "whatever" and it is hard to get into see them. Originally Posted by tramp76137Hey hey now, don't drag me into this!!
True_Whatever: providing levity where desperately needed!
TR is in the vast minority and is not looking for that emotional fill the people that see me usually do. He is a very good example of different strokes for different folks.
I say that because of TR post. You won't catch everyone in your net, and that's not necessarily a bad thing. Originally Posted by LovingKayla
Customer: Someone who buys goods or services.Behind closed doors, I just assumed providers referred to us as, "tricks" "johns" and one I heard from a dancer for frequenters of the same strip club, "furniture".... I never really thought of having a preference on what to be called, but if I get one, I want it to be "Greatest Fucking Man to Ever Have Been Born, With the best cock ever" guy or something along those lines, I'm not too picky, lol!
Client:One who is under the care, guidance, and protection of an expert in a particular field.
I over heard a conversation between 2 providers and they both were referring to their guys as customers. The discussion was about how they didn't get a very good repeat "customer" rate. I've learned to NOT throw my hat in a ring I wasn't dragged to so I'll give my thoughts on it here and open the floor for debate.
In any business, you had better be an expert or you will get washed away. Being an expert in this field means you have great empathy for the plight of a horny, rejected at home, man. If you don't take care for your guy, that puts you in a huge lake of "normal" providers that go out of business pretty quickly (they won't be your guy for long.)
More often than not he will ask you what you think or know about X provider. If you can offer him true guidance on who he sees, what do you think that does for brand loyalty? You will be building a solid relationship with your client and he will grow to trust you.
Protecting your client can be as simple as talking to the provider that's asking for a ref and say something like " I really like this client, please treat him well. He's Alot of fun." girls think about it, when you get a glowing ref you are automatically in that receptive state and EAGER to visit with the new client. He gets a better session simply because you sent out that little note of "he's a good one. Treat him like you would your favorite client."
The debate question is: Would you rather have customers or clients? Or: Would you rather be a customer or a client?
Either is fine but I'm curious about your thinking on either one. Some people might rather being a customer instead. There wouldn't be near as much personal connect which could be appealing to a certain type of guy. Originally Posted by LovingKayla
This question is splitting hairs and IMO is nothing more than an AD. It's telling everyone how you are better than the majority of providers and will take better care of them. It has also become a thread where others can tell you how wonderful, smart, caring you are. Blah, Blah, Blah...This site is about hookers and johns and dressing it up with "titles" is silly. Originally Posted by Budman
Kayla,
Your original post was made to look like you were mentoring other providers and offering guidance on how they should treat their customers. IMO your true target audience was the customer, client, john, whatever. You say that a client is "under the care, guidance, and protection of an expert in a particular field." What a stretch. This threAD is no different than the multitude of other threADs that pose a question not to get an answer but to get their name out there and recieve adulation from admirers. It's like asking why men like BJ's or do guys really prefer BBBJ over CBJ. Other ridiculous threads that pop up on a regular basis are; ... Originally Posted by Budman
Lana,budman, it seems obvious :^) that either a) you are reading a hell of a lot into her post or b) you know exactly what goes on in her mind and why she posts what she posts. to state it is an AD, that she posted it cos she wants adulation, etc. seems to be stretching it a bit far.
I'm not trying to catch any flies. Just pointing out the obvious. Originally Posted by Budman
I like that post. That's what it's all about for me.I like most people in my younger days worked in fast food and full service restaurants, and at one of the full service places we were taught to refer to the people who walked in with money and walked out full as guests, as in guest in our home, to serve them not just bring their food or be order takers.
I want to be a client. Customers stand in line at fast food restaurants but clients make reservations and are escorted to their favorite table with their favorite server.
Not meaning to compare this to food service, maybe it's because it is lunchtime.
You know what I mean. I like your philosophy. Originally Posted by TheWanderer
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~~ BudMan sounds like you need to get laid more often, just pointing out the obvious! ... No where in this thread have I seen the key elements of an AD, location, hours, services, rates / specials or even a descrption of looks, just a breif description of attitude and what others thought of levels of service. Perhaps you should invest in a fleshlight? Originally Posted by FishGuy13