SA is not a viable option for those with a SO, family, full time professional job / career, and a pretty busy life. I mean I made few situations work, but even back in the day it took a time investment. Once Covid came along and other factors including those mentioned here, SA is just not viable.
Originally Posted by Noodles
I am single, never been married, and I don't have kids. And I am more "privacy" and "outing" conscious in that I don't send SA girls/women my selfie-face pics. This "cuts in half" all my options and action there and particularly with the "newbie" and "civilian" and "I'm not a hooker!" girls/women of SA....
There are still plenty of orthodox (or are they unorthodox?)
providers and "knows what it's all about" players on SA, and many of them have done business with so many guys that they don't care what a guy looks like. Variable levels of "civilian" and "choosey" (they like to pick and choose their suitors and clients) players on SA. Not like most ASPD and Indys providers who would see a guy BCD "sight unseen" just based on whether or not he had a good or average "reputation" (and vouches) within the hobby....
And then SA guys have to deal with the "Where Will You Bang This Girl?" factor. I don't trust even SA girls "living spaces"/ incall's (actually most ASPD and Indys providers were essentially trustworthy with their incalls) so I try to rent reasonable-priced HOtel's and that adds to the freight. I usually stick to no more than $300 for a session, and book two hours so they can more easily draw two loads from me, so with a reasonably priced HOtel room then I pay "what I would pay" ASPD and Indys girls for two hours of service....