Deal Breakers

It's My Time: No, honey, it's not. The hobbyist pays for the time and it's his. Can you set boundaries? Yes. But you better post them pretty clearly. But for that hour, you better believe you belong to the hobbiest. Again, make your boundaries clear, watch your business plummet. The customer may not always be right, but in this business, he is mostly right. Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

Wow .. this is bad. I agree with Charles. It is always about the client. His money.. His time.

I also have a problem with being asked for specials. It says on my site in big bold letter "do not ask about specials/do not try to negotiate my donation" and a few will still email and ask .. heh

I also have a problem with being asked for specials. It says on my site in big bold letter "do not ask about specials/do not try to negotiate my donation" and a few will still email and ask .. heh Originally Posted by Naomi4u

Good for you Naomi!!!

A deal breaker for me would be the following ...
.asking about "special's"
.expecting time (lots of time) without donation required
.MSOG within an HR, extend your time if you want this.GFE include's cuddling,passion and besos not just boom boom
.my time my boundaries ,respect and be respected.
.hygiene,clean is never an "option"
Those are my deal breaker's when seeing this <-- provider

Happy New Years!
Safire Sweet Originally Posted by safire_sweet

Another example of it's her time and I'm a one and done unless you pay for more. Well it's her body and she can do what she wants with it. I just think alot of hobbiest will not see her because of this.

If you don't mind me asking, what would be TCB? Originally Posted by Ansley

According to the dictionary of acronyms "Payment is made to provider, e.g. She wanted to take care of business first".

Dealbreakers for me are no reviews by established members(I am cautious), cleanliness, CBJ is a real turn off, no kissing, unfriendliness, fake boobs that look like balloons.

A provider that doesn't know what her own ad says. I just had this happen tonight!!

^ LOL.

Wow .. this is bad. I agree with Charles. It is always about the client. His money.. His time.

I also have a problem with being asked for specials. It says on my site in big bold letter "do not ask about specials/do not try to negotiate my donation" and a few will still email and ask .. heh Originally Posted by Naomi4u

Naomi, is it wrong to ask about multi-hour discounts if nothing is mentioned in the ad? I am new to the hobby, and I go by the one hour price, if it is higher than I am prepared to pay, I don't try to haggle, but many girls do offer unadvertised multi-hour discounts. It would seem that unless a girl is booked solid every day the multi-hour would be a more relaxed way to make more money. Everybody is stressed in todays economy, so the girls can make extra money that she may not have made and the whole operation can be a lot more relaxed. I am a 2 hour type guy and sometimes the 1 hr rate X 2 is more than I can bear. In that case we do one hour and the girl misses out on the profit and I miss out on the more relaxed pleasure.

Naomi, is it wrong to ask about multi-hour discounts if nothing is mentioned in the ad? I am new to the hobby, and I go by the one hour price, if it is higher than I am prepared to pay, I don't try to haggle, but many girls do offer unadvertised multi-hour discounts. It would seem that unless a girl is booked solid every day the multi-hour would be a more relaxed way to make more money. Everybody is stressed in todays economy, so the girls can make extra money that she may not have made and the whole operation can be a lot more relaxed. I am a 2 hour type guy and sometimes the 1 hr rate X 2 is more than I can bear. In that case we do one hour and the girl misses out on the profit and I miss out on the more relaxed pleasure. Originally Posted by FlectiNonFrangi

Flect,

Is it wrong? No. However, some ladies might take offense being that you're a new client. I offer prebooking specials and that's it. If he makes it clear to me that he has some financial difficulty I will offer my prebooking special whether he prebooks or not. My prebooking specials are always posted on my website. I also offer specials to those that have served in the military and men with disabilities. When it comes to my regulars I offer huge discounts on multi-hour dates. Most ladies will offer discounts to their regulars (It seems to be common practice). Flect, It doesn't hurt to ask. Be reasonable and I'm sure you won't get turned down.

My prebooking specials are always posted on my website. Originally Posted by Naomi4u

I looked for a website for you, and was unable to find one.

It's not listed in your profile here.

I tried P411, and I couldn't find you there.

I couldn't find you on e.com.

The only place I could find an ad for you was on BP, and that was a couple months old.

So, if you do have a website, you might want to provide a link to it someplace. Most ladies who maintain one, put it in their signature.

My number one deal breaker is being on time. I have "windows of opportunity" to indulge this hobby. If we agree on a specific time to start the session, I expect it to start then. I have found that most providers are on time (or close enough) most of the time. I understand that a customer may run over time, and there may be really good reasons to delay a session for 30 minutes or an hour - and I am OK with that once in a while. But if a provider is consistently late by more than an hour, or even multiple hours, it is a real problem.

Another deal breaker for me is not allowing me to smoke. I like to smoke cigarettes before, after, or even during the session. I always ask when scheduling a session. I realize that a provider may not want me to smoke at her in call. I also realize that my desire to smoke can be a deal breaker for providers. Just let me know ahead of time!

According to the dictionary of acronyms "Payment is made to provider, e.g. She wanted to take care of business first".

Dealbreakers for me are no reviews by established members(I am cautious), cleanliness, CBJ is a real turn off, no kissing, unfriendliness, fake boobs that look like balloons. Originally Posted by FlectiNonFrangi

You pretty much hit it for me too - except I have no particular problem with CBJ if she can get it covered without killing the mood.

I looked for a website for you, and was unable to find one.

It's not listed in your profile here.

I tried P411, and I couldn't find you there.

I couldn't find you on e.com.

The only place I could find an ad for you was on BP, and that was a couple months old.

So, if you do have a website, you might want to provide a link to it someplace. Most ladies who maintain one, put it in their signature. Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

There is a reason for all that. I'll just say my privacy, safety means way more to me. As you can see I even removed my showcase from the site. I PM'd you about the issue i was having.. remember? I pretty much did what I said I was going to do. Wait.... no.... Are you trying to date me??? *gasp* LOL!

P.S I do have a website and I am on p411 The ladies have access to my new site but not the guys of eccie for good reason. Pm sent Charles.

Another deal breaker for me is not allowing me to smoke. I like to smoke cigarettes before, after, or even during the session. I always ask when scheduling a session. I realize that a provider may not want me to smoke at her in call. I also realize that my desire to smoke can be a deal breaker for providers. Just let me know ahead of time! Originally Posted by Planosearcher

Yes this will be a deal breaker for most providers. I have been to clients' homes and left with my dress smelling like cigarette smoke NOT because they smoked during the appointment but because their homes smelled like cigarettes.. lol. I wasn't too happy but didn't complain too much about it either.

Yes this will be a deal breaker for most providers. I have been to clients' homes and left with my dress smelling like cigarette smoke NOT because they smoked during the appointment but because their homes smelled like cigarettes.. lol. I wasn't too happy but didn't complain too much about it either. Originally Posted by Naomi4u

The smoking seems to be a huge issue, unfortunately i smoke but do everything in my power to diminish the smell but as Naomi states it is extremly hard to totallly get rid of it, even if you smoke outside the smell stays with you. I spend probably as much on covering up the smell as i do on ciggs themselves.

Hmmm. Interesting thread.

I try to respect the ladies wishes in her provided activities... I don't try to charm a lady in doing something she doesn't want to...

For me, NO DFK, NO DATY, NO BBBJ = NO CALL. So I guess those are deal-breakers.

Huck