If you've got the rates up for this guy on your website, or especially where some ladies expect a full night's rest during an overnight and to go out for dinner, she's not going to appreciate it when she runs across Gimme_that. She will feel cheated. And if she puts up her rate for Gimme_that, she will scare the guy off who has to take meds that make him sleep, or generally can't be up all night.
I am not afraid to list my maximums, because I can under promise and over deliver. For the Gimme_that's of the world, where we'll have to order room service, and take water/wine/carb breaks every couple of hours, the damage for overnights on my website is the worst.
Originally Posted by Tiffani Jameson
I understand where you are coming from completely. But to me the dinner date is really a ymmv thing on my end.
What may affects whether I will want to go or not are the way she looks (my real life dating believablity factor, not so important BCD) when she arrives, the way she carries herself personality wise prior to us meeting via phone, her perferred duration of the overnight (I prefer 12 hours and most are doing 6 to 10.....I gotta shave off almost two hours for the dinner date), and the rate she posts.
Not all ladies are going to fit this criteria I seek and some don't prefer to be seen in public, but Id still like to experience BCD time with them. I consider a dinner date oppurtunity as gratuity, not a requirement for an overnight. The room decor is different as I do try to have a ladies favorite food or drinks availiable should she want them.
If her rates are fair and competetive with other ladies in the area and she fits the above categories I may definitely be open to a dinner date. In fact I would book more time to compensate for the 1 or 2 hours we are eating and such. It would seem rate wise she apppreciates multihour booking more so. But if her rates in addition to the dinner date and room preparation (food and drinks) exceeds a certain level with me it put her in a higher rate bracket. Which will make me think to maybe bypass her all together and maybe see someone maybe a tad out of my preferred range.....who wasn't overly concerned about "going out" in the first place. Her initial hourly rates and price incentives for mor time are a factor as well in my decision making.
Example:
1. If I see one lady with rate of 1200 and one with rates of 1600 or more. If the first lady requires a dinner date, or we go on one and share drinks that cool and excellent. But by the time we do all that stuff coupled with my outcall hotel rates.....the total cost of the night mirrors that of the more expensive provider.
2. And if the 1600 dollars provider tells me she would prefer we not go out, I consider it more so a better deal because I book latenight appointments anyway. 9pm or later.
Dinner date are cool when I want to take advantage of them. But for me they also have negative too.
Dinner date cons:
1. She doesn't eat much if any of the food. Or she gets a to go plate and doesn't even take it with her when she leaves. Seems more of a time waster for the large block of time to me than anything.
2. She can't really eat comfortably and "loosen her bel.....gartier" so to speak so she eat only a little so she isn't gasey, bloated, etc. Besides she is still expected to perform later right?
3. Most don't prefer to have sex prior to going out. I guess its a hair and makeup thing.....Id rather have sex before going out depending on if the time I booked is early enough. If she pleases me and can maintain good conversation and dialogue.....I'm smitten with her at that point, and the dinner date is merely added incentive. I usually build more of an appetite after sex anyway....(make me a samich). The anticipation is too great when she arrives and I hate waiting lol. I already have all the energy and proteins Ill require.
4. She still in fantasy mode, and not as real as the session....which by performance standards is way harder to fake....
She can't and won't try to be overly opinionated and if the conversation flows she won't share as much stuff about herself or her interest. It seems to much like a one sided conversation where I'm usually more extrovert to influence dialogue. The ladies seem more comfortable in question mode until a current event or pop culture reference ensues.
