NBA policy only affect me if she's fine as fuck. Then I will try to still test the waters. Usually the reason is maturity and tact and personalism why black ladies don't see other black men when a pimp is not involved. They are more used to our tendencies and can read people well. I won't beg a chick.....or plead my case as to why I'm a "safe black" to see in my Bryant Gumble voice. But I will talk to them long enough to be curious to ask why. Usually the black ladies will let you vent briefly too. Then I thank them for their honesty and consideration and tell them I regret we won't have the chance to meet. I bid them farewell....hang up......then they usually call or text back.
With the white ladies it sorta feels different. Like I feel like the hobby client form of Martin Luther king........singing kumbaya and hummiing negro spirituals holding hands trying to make a way for my people.....
Sorta makes me feel like the house negro.....with special house priveleges. So I don't like this route mostly. Most white ladies with an NBA policy as sticklers for it.
Ok I'm bullshitting a little here. But if she's fine.....Ima at least try. Lol