What is GFE?

Can we FINALLY put this in a "sticky" or something. . . Originally Posted by dentonseek

It would be helpful since so many new folks seem to be confused about this. I was just was reading a thread on here about a provider that listed GFE on her ad/profile, but engaged in upselling if you wanted DATY and BBBJ and there was no kissing.

To me even charging more for GFE is problematic, much less making the various menu items a la carte since most experienced hobbyists are in agreement are integral to the definition of GFE.

Putting a sticky on this would help when things go awry becuase you can direct the young lady (and any of her White Knights or Joans that defend her behavior) to read the sticky.

If you want to offer the no frills session, isn't that what that half-hour "slam-bam special" rate is for?

Thanks for the kind words. Ironically, a couple of my faves are not gfe and that is okay with me. However, I find it important to define GFE so when I do want that "Girlfriend Experience", the lady I am preparing to see are on the same page when it comes to expectations.

GFE is universal on the review boards. Forget what your pimps or your fellow SW's or studio mates told you it meant.

It is very simple:
DFK
BBBJ
DATY
MSOG
MPCFS
and THE ILLUSION OF PASSION (Pretend you like me and are enjoying it).

* no upselling.
* if our hands are clean and the fingernails clean and trimmed, nothing wrong with a little fingering either, unless you are menstruating in which case you should not be offering F/S anyway. (I can feel the sponge or instead cups - it is long enough.)
* yes, I am going to suck on your tits, too.


What is not on the GFE all inclusive menu:
Greek
We understand that not everyone likes ass play.
BBFS
Only share this with your Fiance' or Wife



Another way to put it is:
For one hour, let me do all the shit that a good girlfriend would let her boyfriend do and make me happy.




It's not rocket science. It is not even bottle rocket science!


If you still do not understand it, I give free lessons. Originally Posted by cpi3000

ARE WE CLEAR?

+1 for the wise words of the almighty cpi

Morgan

GFE to me

Give and receive
Dress for the occasion and location
Engage in conversation
Be willing to take control or relinquish

Simply

All him to have the full experience of spending time with you, not just the completion.

Funny and True:

When I first started looking at escorts on Eros when Eros.com first went up, I saw ads where girls claimed they were GFE and thought it meant "Good for Everything". Got burned twice and then was show ASPD. From there I tumbled down the rabbit hole where fantasy and reality are interspersed. What a ride!