I think p411 is your best bet I like it because it's easy to verify references fast
Originally Posted by KaitlynDior
I agree 100% - this has proven to be the main benefit I have seen from my p411 membership - glad to see that a lady sees it the same way. It is so much easier than sending references and waiting around to hear while the lady, in turn, waits around to hear from the ladies referenced.
Some ladies will check references anyway - p411 or no p411. They may or may not tell you and they may or may not really do it. For any security situation, not just here, I recommend mixing up the procedure from case to case - makes it harder for the bad guys to game the system