If you have/had an ATF, what made her/him that way?

I’ve been thinking about this since I posted it.

I agree about connections outside of BCD, making it feel natural. But if I’m really being honest, what made my ATF my all-time favorite is these:

1) Her attitude. Right from the start, nothing was rehearsed. Easy, natural conversation. Hell, the first time I saw her, she took the envelope from me, put it on the desk, and never opened it until after I left. She seemed to enjoy what she was doing.

2) Her body. I’m a leg, ankle, and foot guy - I have sort of a foot fetish. Physically, she has all I wanted - slender legs, pretty feet.

3) Her kisses are exquisite. They aren’t to placate you, they are to entice you. Gentle ones, deep ones, with that kind of passion that can’t be faked. The kind that can make your toes curl.

4) Her touch. Again, like kissing, her touches are to entice. Her foreplay is incredible - from touching, to kissing, words, looks.

5) Communication between appointments, and communication in general. This woman remembers everything. She remembers every little detail, and that makes future appointments all that much sweeter. She sings me happy birthday in a video. She sends messages to see how I’m doing. Not to ask for an appointment - just as friends would converse.

This and more made her, for a little while, the standard to which all others were measured, fairly or unfairly. Finally I asked myself why I was seeing others, when they never measured up. So I’ve seen her exclusively for 13 years now.

She’ll always be my ATF.

Agree with numbers 1,3,& 4. Never talked between appointments, but seemed as if we could pick up right where we left off in terms of conversation. Obviously the sex was outstanding or there never would have been enough visits to become an ATF.

When I see ATF, all I can think of are those bastards who keep trying to take away AR platform pistols

My ATF is long out of the hobby. She was the 3rd or 4th provider I ever saw. The reason she became my ATF is that she gave the best bbbj ever. Still to this day I cannot find anyone as good.

My ATF was my ATF more because we became friends and really enjoyed hanging out together. She travelled and often when she was just passing through we would get one of those charge my the hour places and fuck for only the cost of the room. We both talked a lot and really got to know each other pretty well. She retired but we keep up through email.