THE BUDDY SYSTEM.

I think she was asking about buddies as in 2 girls, not a girl and her pimp/bf/hubby/driver/anyone with a penis who you don't charge when you get into bed with... But I may be wrong.
well if it has a penis, itll beat someones ass that messes with someone that the penis cares about. females will console and be there but that is about all that most will do sweetheart.
true friends like the one i have in lilith paramour on the other hand i know would do all three lol.

in this industry...either way...be very careful whom you tell anything to because some will stab you in the back for whatever their personal gain may be.
i know from years experience and im sure others can speak.
make sure you trust the person with your life is the most important factor in the buddy system game
well if it has a penis, itll beat someones ass that messes with someone that the penis cares about. Originally Posted by elegantbelinda
Well said Bel, Very well said! and no doubt Lilith is a true sweetie, I know her to be one of the fairest and most honest Indies this business has ever known.
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F.F. = F*ucking funny.

I am a non stop picture reaction post today.. Sorry to all but this ish is funny.

Originally Posted by TabooTanner
you are a wise and beautiful woman , baby !!

i even use the buddy system, especially when seeing someone new. and i've been the other side of the buddy system for both ladies and gents, as well as "the close enough to help" buddy as well.

we all have to keep each other safe !!! Originally Posted by PAPA JOE
I think that's smart! Men should use it to (when they have someone they can trust). Hell, tell your friend or even fav provider the "who, what, when" about your meeting. That way someone knows when to expect that you're free so they can check on ya. I like it!
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I am a non stop picture reaction post today.. Sorry to all but this ish is funny.

Originally Posted by TabooTanner
I don't see how the ass talk belongs in the thread, so how about we keep it on track?

At the same time, that pic is damn funny!
Jasmine you just need to check out the mirror if you're in the mood to see a nice ass. Originally Posted by CWS91
Lol! That makes me think. Sexy Coffee (total cutie with a booty) nd I were having a conversation about nice booties the other day.

I said: "You know, it kinda sucks having a nice ass. In that, everyone gets to see/admire it all day anyday and you have to break your neck to try and catch a glimpse."

Burst of laughter filled the room.

P.S. She is a buddy so this post constitutes as on topic
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Ya'll sound like services 101..lol. Dont the guys get pissed that ya have somebody calling when your not out?? I mean thats usually one of the grumbles..oh again it could be the money?? extra time costs extra..period.. xxoo annie
^No compendre mi amiga^

I really want to know what your saying so I can respond.
shes saying dont the clients get upset when ur answering ur phone during the session that they paid good money for and it wasnt to hear you telling ur "buddy" that all is well. Annies just trying to be hip in her lingo for the younger crowd,lol, damnit give her some slack at least shes trying!



We have used the same system for ages, one text paid safe hour, another done gone. if we dont get the text we try to contact, if we cant contact we send a personel manager into the room, ask a few of these fellas ,lol they have been caught with their pants down a cpl times cuz their girl forgot to text or ran over more than 15mins without saying extended,lol. For our newbies or a first time verified client we have them text a third time 10 mins after the session starts, yes its most likely annoying to the client, but our concern is the safety of our girls, so a 15 seconds text isnt going to hurt that bad.
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most clients will understand and appreciate the safety coverage!
most clients will understand and appreciate the safety coverage! Originally Posted by DallasRain

I was about to say that it has never bothered me. I want the lady to feel completely safe and stay safe. It only takes a few minutes.
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shes saying dont the clients get upset when ur answering ur phone during the session that they paid good money for and it wasnt to hear you telling ur "buddy" that all is well. Annies just trying to be hip in her lingo for the younger crowd,lol, damnit give her some slack at least shes trying!



We have used the same system for ages, one text paid safe hour, another done gone. if we dont get the text we try to contact, if we cant contact we send a personel manager into the room, ask a few of these fellas ,lol they have been caught with their pants down a cpl times cuz their girl forgot to text or ran over more than 15mins without saying extended,lol. For our newbies or a first time verified client we have them text a third time 10 mins after the session starts, yes its most likely annoying to the client, but our concern is the safety of our girls, so a 15 seconds text isnt going to hurt that bad. Originally Posted by thegfegirls
Makes total sense to me. If a girl decides to allow a session to run over the scheduled time, then I can't imagine a guy having a problem with the girl taking 30 seconds to grab her phone & send a text message saying everything is cool. And if he does have a problem with it, then he can just get dressed and end the session!

I don't have any issues with a girl texting or having a very short phone call to let her agency/manager/friend know the session is beginning or has ended. I agree with the other posters that safety is priority number one. Well, maybe tied with having fun!
I get it now. Thanks for clarifying, and thank you for your opinions; they really help shape what is acceptable/the norm.....

OMG is my old age making me more accepting of uniformity?

How about we call it synchronicity.... there I feel better.
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If i can help n anyway just pm me thats what alot of my girlfriends do n i can also help u verify clients i see alot of wonderful people but if ur ever in doubt bout something go with ur gut feeling it never is wrong