Providers going to lunch, Starbucks or for a drink?

Tara, I like your style...BoneDaddy's BBQ and Babes Originally Posted by Zorro

My kind of guy. And don't forget the beer can chicken.

Note to self. Must see Tara Originally Posted by luiz7667

Note too self. See luiz7667

Tara, I agree love BoneDaddy's but, I have never gone to luch afterward. Sounds like fun.

Only done this once. Was a little early and offered to pick met something for breakfast. She said how bout i meet you for breakfast. Had never seen her before and i was a little paranoid about running into someone I knew. It was fun though. No worries as she showed up dressed completely casual. It was nice to get to know her a bit and i thought it enhanced the fun to take those clothes off a ahort while later rather than just show up at the door in next to nothing ready to go.

Just two normal people sharing an early morning breakfast.
Well, until...

At one point there was a little drop of gravy next to her mouth after her last big bite of biscuit. We both sort of chuckled and her eyes darted around to see if anyone was looking, then those eyes caught mine as she scooped up the little dollop of gravy with her tongue. She winked at me and smiled as she swallowed it.

dustyHands mentioned something that everyone w/ discretion concerns should really consider:
" i was a little paranoid about running into someone I knew."

if you plan on meeting a provider or a hobbyist in public, take care to do so where the probability of someone who knows you seeing you there is very Very VERY LOW! they might or might not come over and ask who your acquaintance is. if they do, i'd think you'd need a great story setup. if they dont, you better hope they wont go telling your family or friends.

be discreet when you meet!!!
or be prepared to catch shit when it hits the fan.


disclaimer - i have taken a few women out to dinner and lunch.
usually very far away from my house and in areas where none of my family/friends live/work.
the only time i took a woman to a close by location was at a bar that none of my family/friends would even consider going into [cos of the crowd, not the location].

Good advice here, PMD

At one point there was a little drop of gravy next to her mouth after her last big bite of biscuit. We both sort of chuckled and her eyes darted around to see if anyone was looking, then those eyes caught mine as she scooped up the little dollop of gravy with her tongue. She winked at me and smiled as she swallowed it. Originally Posted by DustyHands

I would have yelled, "CHECK PLEASE"

It's moments like this that you will always remember because it adds to the excitement and crescendos into the session

Have taken a couple of providers to lunch, breakfast. More often will bring food in to enjoy. A massage therapist stuck in her studio waiting for clients will often enjoy having something to snack on, and time permitting, will visit with you while you snack together.

Remember one time I was meeting a lady around lunchtime. Called her for her order, ended up getting lunch for her and her two roommates as well as the hobbyist who was working on her garden that day. Turned into a very enjoyable afternoon after lunch.

Fruit trays work out nicely.

I am with PMD, better have a good story if you run into anyone you know.

I have gone too lots of lunches with my clients. One of our favorite lunch spots is Bone Daddys. I think it's because we both like too check out the sceneray. Originally Posted by Tara Evans

Have you and a client looked at one of the employees and realized you two both were looking at the same person?

One popular semi-HDH lost $500 (at least). After many great reviews & some sexy chat exchanges I had her on my must see list.

Then after discovering we live near each other I said if she ever got bored we could hang out at Starbucks. Her response: "my time is worth too much to have coffee with you"....

I'm so glad there are 500+ on Dallas P411. Originally Posted by mtabsw

I'm not surprised. An escort whose opinions I respect highly (but certainly don't always agree) has a similar opinion. Time spent with a client is always billable.

Personally, I will never think twice taking someone out for a meal. I just won't pay her to be fed. :-p

PYRAMIDER*SWEETIE THIS IS A BETTER TIME THAN ANY IVE ALWAYS LIKED

YOUR AVATAR IT MAKES ME SMILE ALONG WITH THAT SENSE OF HUMOR THAT

YOU HAVE TAINT NOTHING WRONG WITH LUNCH OR DINNER WITH A HOT MATURE

BABE,,,WHY NOT BREAKFAST AFTER AN OVERNIGHT OF ADULT FUN???? Originally Posted by StacyShade*

You would not be able to have full use of your legs after a night with me. You would not be walking straight ... just weaving thru the ihop/Denny's.

Tara, I agree love BoneDaddy's but, I have never gone to luch afterward. Sounds like fun. Originally Posted by TexasJay

Lots of fun

Maybe one day....C'est la vie

Have you and a client looked at one of the employees and realized you two both were looking at the same person?



I'm not surprised. An escort whose opinions I respect highly (but certainly don't always agree) has a similar opinion. Time spent with a client is always billable.

Personally, I will never think twice taking someone out for a meal. I just won't pay her to be fed. :-p Originally Posted by S-Man

Not yet But sounds like it good be fun

One popular semi-HDH lost $500 (at least). After many great reviews & some sexy chat exchanges I had her on my must see list.

Then after discovering we live near each other I said if she ever got bored we could hang out at Starbucks.
Her response: "my time is worth too much to have coffee with you".... Originally Posted by mtabsw

I'm not surprised. An escort whose opinions I respect highly (but certainly don't always agree) has a similar opinion.
Time spent with a client is always billable.

Personally, I will never think twice taking someone out for a meal. I just won't pay her to be fed. :-p Originally Posted by S-Man

while i understand and can accept a provider's decision about her time and her fees,
to me it wasnt what she communicated but what & how she said it that showed off her true colors/feelings about her time. [as paraphrased/recollected by mtabsw]

she could have said it more politely...
"that would be nice/fun/great. i do have a separate fee for my time spent out and about."
or she could have suggested another place to meet.


i dont know about you guys who [in real life] bill your clients for your professional services, but when i go out to lunch or dinner w/ my clients, i dont bill for that. it's just getting together and enjoying each other, learning about each other, and building a better relationships so that they will want to extend the statement of work or create a new one.

I do this only with my WELL KNOWN clients, however I do still find it uncomfortable, because I dont want to be introduced to their friends and for some reason this happens, Im like "why is he doing this hes married!" and Salma is not my name....so it can get hairy and the lines can get blurred...