Provider Orgasms - how important are they?

As a guy I honestly want who I'm seeing to have as much fun as I do and I try to do all I can to make that happen. Am I the DATY master? No. Does my schlong stretch for a half mile? No. Am I a combination of the most interesting man in the world with Barry White's voice, Brad Pitts' looks, and a body straight out of Playgirl? Um... No. Do I wish all that were true? Hell yes and so do the ladies I've seen thus far.

What I have found, and realize this is still coming from a guys who is new to this, is that respect and genuineness go a long way. Usually if I treat her like a lady, make sure I'm presentable, and go with the flow good things happen... or at least seem to happen. Does she have to O? No. But if I know she had as much fun as I did and the smile is bigger when I'm leaving then when I got there it's been good for both of us.

Then again... the bigger smile might be from the fact I'm leaving... ugh... and just when I was feeling better about myself.

I got to say I get more pleasure giving her pleasure. But dont get me wrong when its my turn then its all about me.

OK Max, I confess. I have faked every orgasm with you...

Girls, Learn to fake it convincingly and you will have all the work a rate you want.

I have an orgasm everytime I see an envelope with my name on it... ah hah!

JUST KIDDING!!!

The more turned on you are, the closer I am to having an the big "O" as well.

XOXO,
Italiana Princess Originally Posted by ItalianaPrincess

me: ...placing envelope on lita's lap.

lita: so, is that a bunch a benjamins or are you just happy to see me??

:mf_lau ghbounce2:

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Then again... the bigger smile might be from the fact I'm leaving... ugh... and just when I was feeling better about myself. Originally Posted by pvthuntrr

glad you can laugh at yourself, assuming you are w/ that line.

I agree with Deanna on alot of points. Orgasms can be faked very easily. Sometimes when a lady says to stop DATY'ing her because she is sensitive, it could be just because you aren't really doing it right. I wish some guys would just feed off a woman's body movements. I have had guys down there that have no idea what they are doing. I first try to tell them what to do right, but if that doesn't work and I am moving away from you, it is because I don't want you to do it anymore. I love sex and I LOVE when I orgasm. I have had several sessions where I had multiples and loved it. I am not always so horny that I am going to orgasm in every appointment. I had a boyfriend for 6 years, do you think I had an orgasm every single time....hell no! There's nothing worse than an session when the guy is completely focused on making you reach an orgasm. That normally will just turn me off and I won't. I like when we just go with the flow and if it happens, it happens. If not, it's ok too. Women fake because they know if feeds a man's ego. They also fake because sometimes they have to or the guy will just keep on trying and trying. I honestly have faked before because the man was not going to stop DATY'ing me until I came. I don't like faking, but sometimes have felt like I had to. I know I just rambled alot but I am just typing everything as it comes to mind LOL. It all comes down to the mood I am in. I have to be really horny to orgasm. I have been in my room all alone and tried to masturbate to orgasm even when I wasn't that horny. (It helps me sleep good). If i'm not that horny, i'm not gonna orgasm no matter what I do.

+1,000,000

I prefer for the lady to "O". Better experience for both parties involved. Psychologically it pushes $$$ further out of the equation. Makes it a more GFE type experience. Good for the ego too.
And, its a major turn on to see a woman in the throes of ecstasy, even better if you're the one responsible for giving her that pleasure.
So yes, mui importante. Originally Posted by warlock

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I love sex and I LOVE when I orgasm. I have had several sessions where I had multiples and loved it. I am not always so horny that I am going to orgasm in every appointment. Originally Posted by mikahranae

congratulations to you - it's great to hear a woman say she enjoys the activities and resultings reactions!!

it's better than hearing a woman answer after being asked what she likes about sex "nothing, i'm just doing this so my son and i can move to florida."
[actual words from a provider in jersey city, new jersey many moons ago].

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I like when we just go with the flow and if it happens, it happens. If not, it's ok too. Originally Posted by mikahranae

fantastic - again, glad that you have gotten to the place where both are OK. focus on the sights, sounds, sensations of the journey as well as where the journey takes you.

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It all comes down to the mood I am in. I have to be really horny to orgasm. ... If i'm not that horny, i'm not gonna orgasm no matter what I do. Originally Posted by mikahranae

so, an aside. i posted a thread before about what it feels like for a woman when she's horny.
so, mikah, i'd appreciate knowing how another woman [you] feels when she's horny. thanks!!

Most providers fake O's for other guys. When they are with me, however, they all have multiple O's just giving me a BBBJ. I'm just that hot.

I always give an extra big tip when ladies multiple for me.

so, an aside. i posted a thread before about what it feels like for a woman when she's horny.
so, mikah, i'd appreciate knowing how another woman [you] feels when she's horny. thanks!! Originally Posted by pmdelites

When I am horny, I feel my pussy clenching up and tingling a bit. It's kind of hard to explain, but it is a great feeling. I have a story to tell. I was at the Choctaw casino the other week. I was on my way home from Chicago and decided to stop a little while. I really wasn't very horny when I got there. Well that changed pretty quick. I was sitting at the slot machine and crossed my legs. OMG a feeling like I have never experienced came over me. I just kept squeezing my legs together and it felt soooooo good. I swear I came at least 6 times. I was a little embarassed, thinking "does the lady beside me realize I am in the middle of an orgasm?" LOL. I got up and went to the car and was hoping it would keep on doing it all the way home. I think that was my lucky seat, cause it didn't happen at all the whole way home. I even tried to entice it a little, but to no avail.

Ok I just got horny thinking about my fun at the Casino. My appt is gonna be so much fun!

thx for the description. glad you had a wet, err, deliteful time at choctaw w/ yuourself!! ....." I swear I came at least 6 times. "

so, did you win at the slot machine??

wish i were your appt tonite :^)

Ugh no I lost...but the orgasms were worth it. I just got back from my appt and I had a wonderful, amazing time. Sorry, not trying to rub it in. LOL. Oh and it was a Houston guy, go figure. I just made a thread talking about some of those aholes in Houston coed.

Ugh no I lost...but the orgasms were worth it. I just got back from my appt and I had a wonderful, amazing time. Sorry, not trying to rub it in. LOL. Oh and it was a Houston guy, go figure. I just made a thread talking about some of those aholes in Houston coed. Originally Posted by mikahranae

sorry you didnt make any money at choctaw. only one time did i beat the odds at the slots - in puerto rico, won $75 on a 25 cent machine. my date walked up about that time and said "hey, sailor, wanna buy a girl a drink??" we went and had two screaming orgasms [the drink] then went and had two screaming orgasms [woke up the folks in the next room].

wrt the bolded sentence, that's ok, i rubbed one out thinking of you!