African Americans

I think people don't understand the difference between race and culture. Okay, lets accept that white is the standard. That is not a judgement but a statement of fact. There are many kinds of white men. Russian men have a bit of a PR problem when it comes to women but it is not an all encompassing perception. Imagine that it was. Imagine that for a hundred years that Russian men was cast as brutal villains in literature and movies. Imagine that the newspaper had reports daily of Russian men being arrested for crimes against women. So now would you call a woman a racist if she decided that she would prefer not to take the chance with Russian men or by extension, men would sound or act like Russian men.

As for the OP and his avatar, why would anyone want to compare themselves to a low life like a pimp is beyond me (how about Shaft instead). Yes, I said a pimp is a low life. Even lower than a lawyer. They are abusive enslavers of women and young boys. They deal in drugs and sometimes murder. If someone had a long time avatar of their hero, and their hero was a Nazi, would a woman want to take that chance? Originally Posted by JD Barleycorn

why are lawyers bad?
Lawyers don't make the rules, they just enforce the rules.
Congress/lawmakers, they make the rules.

I have not now, nor have I ever judged a man based on his color, size, or looks. I can be on occasion partial to older gentlemen simply because I have more in common with them.
. Originally Posted by JayceeRivers

well, that is just silly
If I'm on the plaza, I avoid bums. (there seems to be always stationed outside of the cheesecake factory)
I avoid bums because they smell bad and ask me for money.
Is that judging/stereotyping a person? yes.
is it ok to do?
yes
I went to the store 2x today, I got a cute cashier once, flirted her a bit, made her giggle.
Went later, got a fat cashier, no flirting,
O M G that was because they looked different!! I profiled one as "doable" and the other as "EWWWW"

but no else does that? Just me?

If someoe asked me if I ever judge someone based on color or looks, I'm going to say yes. But people do that everyday, to deny you do it is just silly,

The whole 'judging' people is a worldly thing.. that we ALL need to work on. My self included!!!.
Not seeing AA men has nothing to do with 'smart mangment' because they got roses too ( right??!! ) haha.
I am my own CEO so I choose not to see YOUNG boys. I try not to see any young boys. This is work to me. I enjoy my work.. but its still work and younger men want to me friends / hang out.. and they don't relize your donating to my TIME not actives.

It is your right and prerogative to judge. I would not avoid someone homeless or a "bum" if their scent offends me I would likely purchase them a room to shower. If they ask for help I tend to help them. Am I right and you wrong? no. It is simply my right and my prerogative to see the world the way I wish to see it.

I do not avoid black men, I in fact simply avoid rude, abrasive, or aggressive people as a whole. Generally I also avoid very dominant people as well. Personality conflicts. I am sure you understand.

When a man speaks French to me he becomes "doable" as you so keenly put it. When a man or woman speaks intelligently, articulately, thoughtfully they become "doable"

I am not saying I am mainstream or normal. I am not saying I am right. This is simply how I have always been and will always be.

I find you moderately offensive and a hint aggressive. Would you be at the top of my to do list? Not likely. I mean that as politely as one could take that. Simply put, our personalities would clash therefore I would find no pleasure in getting intimate with you.

Size only matters when it is so big one feels as if they are having a baby instead of enjoying an internal massage. Originally Posted by JayceeRivers

I am sorry I wont call you again

Jaycee,

Vous êtes une très belle et intelligente femme...

Jaycee,

Vous êtes une très belle et intelligente femme... Originally Posted by CaptainKaos

Flattery and in French. If I was capable I would be on my way to you right now.

#1 Jaycee just become my atf even though I've never seen her. LOVE that attitude

#2 The OP pics out an avatar of a black pimp and is surprised when a provider doesn't want to see him? Seriously???

Never said I was surprised. In fact, I've assumed the blame for the confusion. Oh well..

@ Jaycee

Amour de défauts est toujours aveugle, est toujours à la joie incliné. Lawless, ailes, et en milieu ouvert, et les pauses toutes les chaînes de tous les esprits.

Hey Captain,

Are you that fluent in France' or just good at Google Translate????

Never said I was surprised. In fact, I've assumed the blame for the confusion. Oh well..

@ Jaycee

Amour de défauts est toujours aveugle, est toujours à la joie incliné. Lawless, ailes, et en milieu ouvert, et les pauses toutes les chaînes de tous les esprits. Originally Posted by CaptainKaos

William Shakespeare in French. Darling you are welcome in my bed anytime.

Hey Captain,

Are you that fluent in France' or just good at Google Translate???? Originally Posted by riskyr

Am I fluent in France? I don't know, I've never been.

It is your right and prerogative to judge. I would not avoid someone homeless or a "bum" if their scent offends me I would likely purchase them a room to shower. If they ask for help I tend to help them. Am I right and you wrong? no. It is simply my right and my prerogative to see the world the way I wish to see it. . Originally Posted by JayceeRivers

No one was talking about the right to judge. I am not dancing around the fact it's something we all do everyday. I am not saying, it's something to change, as I mentioned already:

stereotyping/profiling are things we all do constantly.

I know someone who won't ever kill a spider she finds indoors, she likes to only kill black widows, since they are harmful to humans.
I kill every spider I see (inside),I see no reason to take any chance. So I squish and don't ID them.

People have to deal with some stereotype usually as we all get judged on our looks, sometimes its a postive stereotype, sometimes negative.
Such is life., Originally Posted by bigcockpussylicker

You would buy the guy a shower? I didnt realize you have helped out bums much before, now I feel silly as I have only picked up hitchhikers(cause its freezing these last few months) and helped 2 people get gas.. tell us about how you have helped homeless>?

I do not avoid black men, I in fact simply avoid rude, abrasive, or aggressive people as a whole. Generally I also avoid very dominant people as well. Personality conflicts. I am sure you understand. . Originally Posted by JayceeRivers

I don't understand, mostly because any women I've seen(ok, off BP) always tells me, "I'm very submissive, just do whatever you want" and she sprawls out on a bed. So every provider wants a dominant man.

That's why I have said that I don't want to pay to do a girl, I want to pay to have the girl do me. (which is why I like BJs, cause I don't have to work) My real life requires me to be dominant, Iam not going pay to be that with someone. IE I want to pay to be with someone who is dominante(they take the 1st steps, take off my clothes, etc)

When a man speaks French to me he becomes "doable" as you so keenly put it. When a man or woman speaks intelligently, articulately, thoughtfully they become "doable" , Originally Posted by JayceeRivers

Pointing out how men judge women isnt a keen insight. Id be interested in hearing about what turns you on, but Im not looking to date a girl here. Im sure you understand.

I am not saying I am mainstream or normal. I am not saying I am right. This is simply how I have always been and will always be. , Originally Posted by JayceeRivers

I dont see what you are saying that isnt mainstream? People who self-describe themselves as things, arent those things, or they wouldnt need to tell us what they are.
Not mainstream or an outlier would be someone telling everyone that we all judge/stereotype people and it's ok, Which is what I've done all thread. Judging people has what has allowed us to survive till now. Heck, I went beyond that by remarking how dumb it is to call people African, when they arent from Africa, they are BLACK Americans,
NOT AA

I find you moderately offensive and a hint aggressive. Would you be at the top of my to do list? Not likely. I mean that as politely as one could take that. Simply put, our personalities would clash therefore I would find no pleasure in getting intimate with you. Originally Posted by JayceeRivers

Huh?
am I supposed to care what you think of me?

I do get oh so tired of people going with the flow, as you have been doing, I havent found a single thing you've said to be original or realistic. No original thought, just a provider trying to get business. No that there's anything wrong with that, but let's not pretend you are doing anything else.

The bum, as you call him, is by cheesecake factory, Go buy him a shower, let us all know when you do that. k thx.

You dont want to get paid to have sex with me?
LOL ok? Did I get drunk and call/PM you?
What is this highschool and you randomly stop the smart guy in the hall and tell him, "NO, I dont want to go to Prom with you!"
I think you should wait till you get asked. Unless you want to stir up drama or have everyone think I did ask you....
I just call it the way Life actually is. I can't help how you feel about what I do or don't do, its too much effort to give a crap about what someone who is not in your life thinks of you, I"m sure you understand.

Jaycee,

Vous êtes une très belle et intelligente femme... Originally Posted by CaptainKaos

Google translate doesn't count.

Im posting this admittedly before I've read the whole thread. But I have to throw this question out. Im officially coming out as a black man(Well, mixed actually). And as such, I've net a LOT of black dudes in my life. So the question:


Are there really a plethora of negroes droppin 2 bills just to try an pimp a ho?


I just don't see that. I mean, I've seen nuckle heads use some women UP. Yes white women. But they always seemed to find them out and about or at clubs or the @:$" house. But I can't see approaching someone who has the self value to ask for 200 for her time, and offering to take all the stress I managing your money away. I may be naive, but I don't see that happening a whole lot.
Of course you can see who you want and I can bitch about it if I want, too. But I'm seriously curious about the basis of this stereotype.


Let's start a poll:
How many providers have actually had more than one black dude try to become your manger after being a paying client?