Lilly..i didn't get deep into that like i should have..but thats also an excellent point..
Its almost scary the ease with which providers can get verified which if they are following the known method to do so fine.. but then as was said..to almost seemingly get to "stay one for life".. is disturbing and brings down the "verified" process..
It puts an uneasy feeling in your gut when not only can almost anyone get verified off of known and unknown hobbyiest vouches..they then no matter what..what happens to them, with them etc..get to stay verified and have access to private areas..get to be passed off as "safe" etc.
I'm sorry.. when a name change occurs.. the person doing so should have to be reviewed 2 times and have 2 different hobbyiest other than those that reviews vouch for her.. thats 4 people doing so.. but that would atleast help in making sure she is "safe" still. If the argument is made that she wouldn't be privy to the girls info areas.. if she truly is safe..has friends that feel she is.. they will help keep her safe..