.....Has she really outed board members? If so, why hasn't she been banned?
She is well known for outing board members so I think anything she does to defend herself, which is normally an act of aggression, is going to get reactions....... Originally Posted by RandB fan
I agreed with her OP. Kind of along the lines of what they don't know about a provider's pregnancy status won't hurt them. It's really no ones business to tell other peoples personal business. It's commonly a big no-no to announce someones pregnancy before they do.
I just find it ironic she is the kind of person who outs people she has slept with in real life and talks about her pregnancy on her blog (which we know about b/c she told us to read it), but doesn't want anyone to talk about it here. I was shocked when she posted about her deep regret for airing a girlfriend's (someone she stated she respected and liked very much) dirty laundry. She displays these indiscretions as if it is some kind of uncontrollable revenge.
I can excuse peoples unacceptable behavior and can find something likable in the most disliked; but I can not, under any circumstance, deny sight of a huge red flag when people abuse ones confidence in them. For example, when a client starts telling me "Oh yeah I've seen provider X, she lives.......", I stop them right there. I don't need to know, even the cross streets of, where another provider lives. I sure as hell make it a point to tell them to never disclose my location. I also make it a point to never see that guy again after I move. I know a client would never want me to say "oh yeah he lives in such-in-such subdivision, or oh yeah his wife is pregnant with baby #3". It's no ones business.
If someone told my business (especially about the hobby) I would surely do the same to them. It's just one of those things that gets my blood boiling. So much so that I don't know if the situation would stay contained to simply avoiding the person. Honestly (and this is the nicest I could say this), they might want to avoid me .
I wonder why she hasn't replied since her initial post.
Seems like a guilty conscious to me.