so how would one handle a no connnection apt?

so heres a question for everyone.. if you were givin a bj for 30 minutes and there is no kind of reaction from jr and he doesnt make a sound nor seem a bit interested should that 30 minutes of time been compensated for what was done.. it could have been an off day for one of them or maybe he has something wrong with him and he chose not to tell you because really its not your business unless he wanted to share it with you, how would you handle that? lay there and be mechanical even with him showing 0 interest?

im curious to see more feedback because this has been pretty interesting with all different kinds of anwsers. Originally Posted by OLindsay

I bet the poor guy was crying inside while trying to be strong outside.
You are beautiful and whatever you chose to do in this situation, oh. By the grace of god there go I.

Poor monger.

I guess I'm an odd ball,were not in this business to make connections with people (this is not a dating site) if it happens that's great, if not you still give them a good time. The guys not coming to make a connection most of the time although most my guys I have meet I have had some type of connection with since there repeaters there coming because you do something they like or your very attractive and they have the opportunity. If they come to you with the notion that they're spending an hour with you and make that time for you when they could have chose someone else I think its only fair you give them that time...
If a guy came to me and I didn't touch him and said on my part I wanted him to leave why should he pay shit, he did his part, he passed screening, he showed up, and hes paid the fee, not his issue if you don't like him... I wouldn't pay anything, but like I said I guess I am odd cause I would never tell a client that did nothing wrong I am sorry I don't feel anything for you you have to leave and pay me for the time. Again this isn't a dating site this is a hooker board, some people tend to forget that.

I know that donations are for your time and companionship, but the guy who you did not connect with is there to have sex with you. You certainly don't have to have sex with anyone you don't want to. If you don't want to FS with him, you should give him all his $ back. JMHO Originally Posted by Mizzou82

You're there for one reason. She's beautiful and the type of young woman you've always wanted to fuck. You've paid the fee and she verified it by holding it up to the light to verify the Benjamins are real. She strips while you do. Small talk is meaningless but a necessity to get things started. You're shy at first but she takes the lead. You're doing it but she's not there even though she goes through the motions. Now and then she makes eye contact but her body isn't responding to yours. You want to ask, "are you bored?" but know that would only make her even more listless. All you can do is enjoy the view as though you're watching a porno, but without her participation it's not the same. You get your hour but not your climax. You leave and wonder what just happened, having just paid an extra forty bucks for GFE that had little to do with a girlfriend. She was real but her actions were those of a blow-up doll from the adult bookstore. You vow to never go back but a few months later she's the only one who answers the phone and you think it will be different this time, better this time, but in reality once she's checked your paper for authenticity her participation is colder than the first time. Shame on me for thinking otherwise.

Well it shouldnt be like that, the point of GFE is you make the illision that its a real girlfriend experience, doesnt matter if she doesnt feel a connection, then she fakes it, she still looks in your face while sucking your cock and gives lil moans, she still tells you to fuck her harder and makes you believe that shes into it, someone that doesnt is a lazy hooker and doesnt know her role...
Theres guys that I have met that on a day just out and a bout I wouldnt give a second look or chance, but in my job I make everyone feel the same, I make sure I provide quality service as promised and most time I find them very attractive in there own way by the end of the session weather they were the shit at eating pussy, fucked me awesomely, made me laugh, how they adored me. I feel good when someone picks me over so many other beautiful girls. FYI- again this isnt a dating site, this is not a connection site this is a hooker board, and hopefully you meet friends while at it. But thats it, nothing else.

Lindsey, I can't imagine anyone could withstand cumming after being in your mouth for 30 mins., LOL, but if that's a policy you want to adopt, I would hope that you at least make it known in your ads and on your website, so guys can factor that into their decision whether to visit you.

OK, first of all, the no connection thing that you are describing Lindsay sounds like a feeble attempt to cut the date in half and be able to schedule more appointments. Your job is to make that gentleman feel as comfortable as possible. If his lil man part is shy and slinky-like, then focus on kissing his neck and nibbling on his ears, rubbing his thighs softly, hell!- give him a fbsm with some erotic oils...don't focus on his slippery slinky not cooperating. It doesn't mean it doesn't feel good to him. As a professional, your job is to make him forget about his problems and for you to nonchalantly focus on his weaknesses. NOT give up and say-"sorry guy, we have no connection, here is half of your money back. Soft pecker does not = NO connection. Besides you are indirectly teling us it's all about the money and that you can decide at any time there is no connection and you reserve the right to end the session early. BOO BISH!

Then you decide to up and bounce after initially starting this thread. Then you come back, yet again, asking us another stupid question and bounce again. If you need brushed up on how to connect with your clients during a limp bj or with communication skills, then work on that. But you have not chosen to participate in your own thread yet twice now, with 2 different questions. I think your screening, or lack there of, is what is driving you to ask these types of questions. You are smarter than that. So Fuckin What! he has a gummy worm that stays gummy the entire date, but if you focus on just making him feel good and appreciated (as he did just drop 200 bucks on you) then what other kind of connection is needed??? You job is to be a pleaser, a sales person, and a attentive friend who doesn't stress him out about his quick nut or his limp peter. And a moaning pornstar fuck face doesnt necessarily mean he is NOT enjoying it. My sd hasnt been able to get his slippery one-eye hard for years but i lick, nibble and play with that gummy cock and he feels plenty good. sexy murmurs, soft kisses and a sensual touch from me most certainly keeps him pleased. You are seriously hurting your image as a gfe provider by suggesting this new business tactic. NOT EVERY guy can turn his cock into a rock hard table leg! Focus on what you can do to please him. There is so much more to 'a connection' than keeping a hard cock in your mouth. Incorporate your other skills as a professional to keep this gentleman pleased. Do you know how shitty you have made a guy feel by giving up on his squishy gummy-like dick?? IMO, your thread, which you've had no participation in, has done you no justice as a professional hooker...

If you want to instill these new rules into your services offered, then by all means do that. But be clear in doing so. For someone that just got over being sick and had a client post an OLindsay fundraiser thread, this will certainly not add to that jar of donations..... If this is your new marketing strategy, then offer only bng's for hard cocks only. Because one post you are begging for clients to help with money donations and now you want to focus on only 30 min sessions for whatever reasons.... Makes no fuckin sense to me. I am not trying to just knock you or your marketing strategies, but please pay attention to what you are doing. Because this thread is getting more confusing and contradicting as you post more questions..... Of course, this is just another hookers' humble opinion.

Gem

so heres a question for everyone.. if you were givin a bj for 30 minutes and there is no kind of reaction from jr and he doesnt make a sound nor seem a bit interested should that 30 minutes of time been compensated for what was done.. it could have been an off day for one of them or maybe he has something wrong with him and he chose not to tell you because really its not your business unless he wanted to share it with you, how would you handle that? lay there and be mechanical even with him showing 0 interest?

im curious to see more feedback because this has been pretty interesting with all different kinds of anwsers. Originally Posted by OLindsay

Babe I think Jr is interested...but Jr is not strong enough

Its all mental...and some physical...
IMO I think having a discussion beforehand and some foreplay helps....kissing nibbling....dirty talk whatever
Now the guys who book and hr and cant get it up knowing this should consider more time.
I need at least hour and half....as I need time to do my best work

OK, first of all, the no connection thing that you are describing Lindsay sounds like a feeble attempt to cut the date in half and be able to schedule more appointments. Your job is to make that gentleman feel as comfortable as possible. If his lil man part is shy and slinky-like, then focus on kissing his neck and nibbling on his ears, rubbing his thighs softly, hell!- give him a fbsm with some erotic oils...don't focus on his slippery slinky not cooperating. It doesn't mean it doesn't feel good to him. As a professional, your job is to make him forget about his problems and for you to nonchalantly focus on his weaknesses. NOT give up and say-"sorry guy, we have no connection, here is half of your money back. Soft pecker does not = NO connection. Besides you are indirectly teling us it's all about the money and that you can decide at any time there is no connection and you reserve the right to end the session early. BOO BISH!

Then you decide to up and bounce after initially starting this thread. Then you come back, yet again, asking us another stupid question and bounce again. If you need brushed up on how to connect with your clients during a limp bj or with communication skills, then work on that. But you have not chosen to participate in your own thread yet twice now, with 2 different questions. I think your screening, or lack there of, is what is driving you to ask these types of questions. You are smarter than that. So Fuckin What! he has a gummy worm that stays gummy the entire date, but if you focus on just making him feel good and appreciated (as he did just drop 200 bucks on you) then what other kind of connection is needed??? You job is to be a pleaser, a sales person, and a attentive friend who doesn't stress him out about his quick nut or his limp peter. And a moaning pornstar fuck face doesnt necessarily mean he is NOT enjoying it. My sd hasnt been able to get his slippery one-eye hard for years but i lick, nibble and play with that gummy cock and he feels plenty good. sexy murmurs, soft kisses and a sensual touch from me most certainly keeps him pleased. You are seriously hurting your image as a gfe provider by suggesting this new business tactic. NOT EVERY guy can turn his cock into a rock hard table leg! Focus on what you can do to please him. There is so much more to 'a connection' than keeping a hard cock in your mouth. Incorporate your other skills as a professional to keep this gentleman pleased. Do you know how shitty you have made a guy feel by giving up on his squishy gummy-like dick?? IMO, your thread, which you've had no participation in, has done you no justice as a professional hooker...

If you want to instill these new rules into your services offered, then by all means do that. But be clear in doing so. For someone that just got over being sick and had a client post an OLindsay fundraiser thread, this will certainly not add to that jar of donations..... If this is your new marketing strategy, then offer only bng's for hard cocks only. Because one post you are begging for clients to help with money donations and now you want to focus on only 30 min sessions for whatever reasons.... Makes no fuckin sense to me. I am not trying to just knock you or your marketing strategies, but please pay attention to what you are doing. Because this thread is getting more confusing and contradicting as you post more questions..... Of course, this is just another hookers' humble opinion.

Gem Originally Posted by Gemma34

who the fuck are you?>
what happened in your life to make you turn out this way?

I wanna know so I can see if I can train other females to be this way

Holy fuckin shit, I think every guy is going to be PMing you now to set up an appointment
and I'm sure no one here no longer thinks of you as just "another hooker"
Im gonna save this to remember who I want to see!

No. Sorry if it offended you. I have removed it. I've been told and seen that this isn't a newbie friendly board and is mainly used to argue and fight with no humor. Not talking about you JR, just in general , unless I was on here from closer to the beginning of this board. I will stop posting as much or at all. I probably won't have to worry about that since this comment is off topic so I will probably get banned.

To everybody, I'm sorry if I have offended anybody. And for anyone who thinks I am someone else, ask the people I have reviewed. Originally Posted by skbinks

You have over 120 posts in a little over a month. Maybe you should relax and "let the board come to you" Participation is great and this board can sure use some new blood. Post less and read more until you learn the ropes. Just a suggestion

Post less and read more until you learn the ropes. Just a suggestion Originally Posted by Mizzou82

Dang Truman....

I couldn't agree more.....hint...hint...

Dang Truman....

I couldn't agree more.....hint...hint...

Originally Posted by malwoody

Or post less and review more. No hint needed

Or post less and review more. No hint needed Originally Posted by Mizzou82

Yeah I tried that some years ago and I wrote an honest informational review about a popular provider and was roundly attacked by her WKs.. When I read your WK remarks, it's like DEJA VU. I prefer my own private connections and extended encounters and as far as I know reviews are not required to be a member here. Hang in there Grasshopper, you might figure it out.

so heres a question for everyone.. if you were givin a bj for 30 minutes and there is no kind of reaction from jr and he doesnt make a sound nor seem a bit interested should that 30 minutes of time been compensated for what was done.. it could have been an off day for one of them or maybe he has something wrong with him and he chose not to tell you because really its not your business unless he wanted to share it with you, how would you handle that? lay there and be mechanical even with him showing 0 interest?

im curious to see more feedback because this has been pretty interesting with all different kinds of anwsers. Originally Posted by OLindsay

is this along the lines of
-maid service comes to your house, cleans windows by spreading around geese/grim on the window into new postions
vacuums using a non-working vacuum
makes beds by tossing unclean bedspread/sheets/comforter into a pile

or is it more like going to a restaurant and being served underdone/overdone steak and cold string beans?

hey you got service! you dont like it? tough shit! least pay something!!

Lol! I just reread this and seen my many typos! I hope ya'll understood what I meant, I totally suck at trying to post shit while on my phone.

Lol! I just reread this and seen my many typos! I hope ya'll understood what I meant, I totally suck at trying to post shit while on my phone. Originally Posted by Gemma34

yeah, the brain isnt made to multitask