I broke out my online dictionary for this one!

if it is a posted or advertised rate it is not an upsell, it is a menu item with an additional fee. If it is a charge that is unknown to you from her ad, reviews, discussions with you, or website and sprung on you during the session, it is an upsell. IMO
if it is a posted or advertised rate it is not an upsell, it is a menu item with an additional fee. If it is a charge that is unknown to you from her ad, reviews, discussions with you, or website and sprung on you during the session, it is an upsell. IMO Originally Posted by Mizzou82
Very Much agreed.

And I do have outcall fees unless its for a multi hour, and thats because I keep up with my car, I do oil changes tune ups and all and I travel and since I am scared of flying I drive everywhere, in the summer times I drive to austin tx sometimes 2 times a month from iowa (errrr, 15 hours) So it helps with keeping my car in good condition so I can continue to travel and do outcalls for people, very rarely do I use it for gas lol most of the time I put my outcall fees in to my auto account so I dont have to worry, and usually if I have seen a guy a few times I wont charge them anymore for an outcall fee, thats the perks of staying a loyal customer and friend
I know I have never had anyone pay for my room lol thats a little far fetched and a lil pathetic but I guess everyone runs into hard times....

Back to topic, I am sorry but I would ask before hand if theres anything they dont do with out an extra charge, if they get pissy then more then likely they do and you just fucked up there plan...
Again research isnt just a girls need, boys make sure you do yours, any ad ons should be in Ad, sometimes girls take the power of pussy to the extreme, they seem to forget that in this hobby/provider world pussys a dime a dozen.
good topic...

I notice quite a bit on a couple of these boards that upselling is too often assigned by a john after an appointment starts and finding out he has to pay more for something he 'thought' came in the rate. Perfect example is the fbsm reviews where you read that the provider asked for an additional $20 for topless, etc. Unless she advertised it was topless for the rate advertised this is not upselling. And if you do your homework, MOST of the time this is avoidable.

Upselling in my humble opinion is when you arrive and someone says:

1. I'm sorry, I changed my rate since we last met and I forgot to tell you. Ironically, it never goes down in cost.

2. I know it used to be 40$ for that service but now its 80$

3. My favorite: That was a typo in the ad and I don't know how to change it. Thta's my 30 minute rate. And my 6'6" friend who's hiding in the closet for 'support' will vouch for me.

crazy gig this hobby