For the MEN: How do you choose....?

and here I thought someone was always in Dorthy's mouth ... Originally Posted by 5T3V3

I hate it when someone beats you to the punch WHILE you are typing you response

I hate it when someone beats you to the punch WHILE you are typing you response Originally Posted by 5T3V3

That's what happens when your a jackass

Seem to be getting off topic here.

Not off topic at all ...

Hmmm....

OP ... Can of worms here....

You opened it.

Few factors.

The title, I almost always ignore. It's a selling point that I don't need to look at. Men are physical creatures and since I'm not an exception, I always look at the appearance.**

I don't look for perfection nor do I want it. In fact, if I do spot some physical "flaws" on a woman, that actually ups the attraction for me. I skim over her profile next to see if I can get a brief on what the lady is about and to get a feel for her personality. If it reads too much like a dating ad, then I skip. If it sounds too much like a salesperson... I skip. If by reading I feel like I can vibe with her well, then I continue to investigate and deduce further.

I then check if she has a "no black guy" clause since, I'm a black guy and don't want my time wasted (hell honestly I like to spot this during my skimming sessions). It's a shame that some people are like that, but hey, I'm sure they have their reasons, no matter if I agree with them or not. I just pass. Way too many people in the world to try to entertain that anyway.


I then look at services offered (really helpful if she list them on her website so I know what to expect beforehand) and price. I don't go for the cheapest of the cheap, but I don't go for the overly expensive either. She may feel like she is work 10k but I don't, and that's fine.

After all of that, I look at distance and how far she is. If she has a location ( I prefer incall) I always want to get a sense of what area she is in.

Finally it's all about communication. Least of my worries, but need to know how to get in touch with her.

If everything checks out, I make contact with her and start her verification process.

I don't hobby much, but I really prefer long term commitments. Make things much easier.

1. I have a good rapport with the lady
2. Breaking the ice is already done and we know each other a little better.
3. She does what I like satisfies me and I'm "hopefully" am able to reciprocate. I like to learn a woman's body and quirks and use that knowledge to exploit orgasms.
4. There is already a set location and I know different routes to get there in case of traffic or I'm running late.
5. I know what to expect as far as fees and have established a proper routine that is executed upon meeting.
6. I'd really just rather be with a provider or two (as a backup) that I know well and can call upon if I'm in the mood.

Since relocating to Austin, the providers I've used before I'm not seeing anymore so I have to start over.

Anyhoo, way more than what you asked for but it's all out there anyway.


Notes:

** Physical appearance varies. In general, I prefer small breast to a nice booty, but that doesn't mean she has to have the biggest butt in the world. I have big hands and like something to grab on too. Bonus points if the booty is Angel Soft.

If a provider had no avatar or posts up until I first noticed her and her handle was " best bbbjnqns in houston " then I would click on her profile to see what else I could find out. A handle can certainly grab my attention but it won't continue to hold it if I can't find any additional info or don't like what I see if any pics are available.

Looks, menu, price. I have to find something attractive about her, she has to offer what I'm interested in, & it must be in my price range. Her performance dictates whether or not I'll return.

AGAIN....I have had a couple PM's that prefer not to post on here has also noticed that most really have not answered the actual question. But I do appreciate all comments.

QUESTION FOR THE POLL: When viewing the "Provider Ads" or "The Weekend Lineup"....all you see is 1. Title... 2. Handle... 3. How many views

You can't see photos, rates, menu....etc.
So either you click on every single ad or either the "title" or the providers "handle" grabs your attention for you too click on her ad to further explore.

...You can't see photos, rates, menu....etc.
So either you click on every single ad or either the "title" or the providers "handle" grabs your attention for you too click on her ad to further explore. Originally Posted by Cyndi Lyn

But in that case, haven't you already answered your own question? We either click them all or something catches our eye???

AGAIN....I have had a couple PM's that prefer not to post on here has also noticed that most really have not answered the actual question. But I do appreciate all comments.

QUESTION FOR THE POLL: When viewing the "Provider Ads" or "The Weekend Lineup"....all you see is 1. Title... 2. Handle... 3. How many views

You can't see photos, rates, menu....etc.
So either you click on every single ad or either the "title" or the providers "handle" grabs your attention for you too click on her ad to further explore. Originally Posted by Cyndi Lyn

Click on "My Showcase" after looking at an avatar and then executing what I wrote above. Again, title/handle/views don't do it for me. All of the stuff that matters are revealed past that anyway.

Few factors.

The title, I almost always ignore. It's a selling point that I don't need to look at. Men are physical creatures and since I'm not an exception, I always look at the appearance.**

I don't look for perfection nor do I want it. In fact, if I do spot some physical "flaws" on a woman, that actually ups the attraction for me. I skim over her profile next to see if I can get a brief on what the lady is about and to get a feel for her personality. If it reads too much like a dating ad, then I skip. If it sounds too much like a salesperson... I skip. If by reading I feel like I can vibe with her well, then I continue to investigate and deduce further.

I then check if she has a "no black guy" clause since, I'm a black guy and don't want my time wasted (hell honestly I like to spot this during my skimming sessions). It's a shame that some people are like that, but hey, I'm sure they have their reasons, no matter if I agree with them or not. I just pass. Way too many people in the world to try to entertain that anyway.


I then look at services offered (really helpful if she list them on her website so I know what to expect beforehand) and price. I don't go for the cheapest of the cheap, but I don't go for the overly expensive either. She may feel like she is work 10k but I don't, and that's fine.

After all of that, I look at distance and how far she is. If she has a location ( I prefer incall) I always want to get a sense of what area she is in.

Finally it's all about communication. Least of my worries, but need to know how to get in touch with her.

If everything checks out, I make contact with her and start her verification process.

I don't hobby much, but I really prefer long term commitments. Make things much easier.

1. I have a good rapport with the lady
2. Breaking the ice is already done and we know each other a little better.
3. She does what I like satisfies me and I'm "hopefully" am able to reciprocate. I like to learn a woman's body and quirks and use that knowledge to exploit orgasms.
4. There is already a set location and I know different routes to get there in case of traffic or I'm running late.
5. I know what to expect as far as fees and have established a proper routine that is executed upon meeting.
6. I'd really just rather be with a provider or two (as a backup) that I know well and can call upon if I'm in the mood.

Since relocating to Austin, the providers I've used before I'm not seeing anymore so I have to start over.

Anyhoo, way more than what you asked for but it's all out there anyway.


Notes:

** Physical appearance varies. In general, I prefer small breast to a nice booty, but that doesn't mean she has to have the biggest butt in the world. I have big hands and like something to grab on too. Bonus points if the booty is Angel Soft. Originally Posted by Jon[s]

How is it a shame that thry dont see blck men? Is there a specific race you don't see? Everyone has a preference it's not shameful it is what it is... I Don't see asians is it a shame that I don't see them?

This question is to complicated for tards & proves a great point they CAN'T READ & FOLLOW DIRECTIONS

AGAIN....I have had a couple PM's that prefer not to post on here has also noticed that most really have not answered the actual question. But I do appreciate all comments.

QUESTION FOR THE POLL: When viewing the "Provider Ads" or "The Weekend Lineup"....all you see is 1. Title... 2. Handle... 3. How many views

You can't see photos, rates, menu....etc.
So either you click on every single ad or either the "title" or the providers "handle" grabs your attention for you too click on her ad to further explore. Originally Posted by Cyndi Lyn

This question is to complicated for tards & proves a great point they CAN'T READ & FOLLOW DIRECTIONS Originally Posted by Dorthy_Monroe

I am sorry, but I think both of you are having some trouble reading what a number of guts are saying:

Many of us don't really read the ads. We look at other places on the web for info about you. So for those of us in that category we don't open every ad, nor do we get attracted by the ad title, nor by your handle. Your original set of answers was not all-inclusive. That is very different from us not being able to read/understand your question. The question itself had a logical flaw.

The question itself had a logical flaw. Originally Posted by Old-T

I stated EXACTLY the question I wanted to find out. In the poll, I did add "other". So that I have learned that a lot of gentlemen will read through some of the threads at providers comments and kind of get a sense of their personality...right?

Thank you for all comments, again.