Personallity and the phone....

Yep it absolutely does!

I must talk on on the phone before we meet
to hare a voice and know the person is some what a gentleman on the phone tells a lot about you and how we may get along for the hr or longer
and you can tell from speaking to me if i'm right for you
any one who calls and Say's whats baby ( gets a hang up )
when I hear that tell's me your not for me lol Originally Posted by LustyBustyGina38FF

My only issue with talking on the phone is, my voice doesnt match with peoples sterotypes. I speak to a lady on the phone...then when we meet, she is.surprised because as I am told "youre black?!, you sounded white on the phone" I do not even respond anymore, just smile.and say are we ok.....

My only issue with talking on the phone is, my voice doesnt match with peoples sterotypes. I speak to a lady on the phone...then when we meet, she is.surprised because as I am told "youre black?!, you sounded white on the phone" I do not even respond anymore, just smile.and say are we ok..... Originally Posted by plove35

Pro tip: Always let them know you're AA beforehand as a courtesy.

Absolutely - online personna has a lot to do with whether I initiate contact or not. Does she smile in her pics? Does she avoid online drama ? Does she represents herself well? Do I think we will laugh when together?

There are many options in the hobby for both, and I prefer to enjoy all the company of the ladies I choose to see.

Phone call a good fall back if unsure on either side, I just don't talk on the phone much at all. It has saved me in the past....if I'm waking you up with an "on the way" call at noon, I'm probably done and won't be contacting you again. Just my $.02