The Terms "MILF" vs "Cougar"

Excellent thread! To me, it is really gender specific. Milf is a male term for the older woman you would love to have relations with. A cougar is descriptive of a woman who desires relations with a younger male. I guess it depends on the gender and age of the responsive party as to what you are. Me- I am OFS (Old Fart Syndrome). Not very popular, but harmless!

MILF = mom
Cougar = age

edit: They describe two different things. You can be a mom and not a cougar, you can be a cougar and not a mom. You can also be both. At least, that's how I look at it. A cougar isn't a cougar to everyone, either. If you're older than her or close to her age, she isn't a cougar to you. Originally Posted by FunInDFW

And don't forget

MILF = mom
GILF = grandmother

Cougar = age (40 to 49)
Panther = age (must be 50+)

If she is 40+ and a mom = MILF/COUGAR and so on...

I crack up at the 20 something year old chicks who put "gilf" in their P411 profiles. I always understood it to mean granny. I guess they think it means "girl."