A thread about hobbyists not reading our info...

This is a wide boulevard with many lanes that goes both ways. It is what it is.

A guy asking personal questions or for services info is either an idiot or has a hidden agenda. In either event, you are wise to have made the decision not to see him.

I know a number of ladies have told me they receive numerous inquiries from guys where they are touring the week AFTER they left that city. The dates were clearly in the ad. Some guys just don't read....

I'm sorry Marla, what did you say? I wasn't paying attention.

Marla I like this thread, seems a few gents are giving you a hard time.

Well pretty lady don't fret.

Soon there will be a thread about how ladies don't read the gents P411 profile. How he was so disappointed, that he likes to drink coke and prefers bbbj verse cbj. How said provider completely skipped over the part where it said he likes to kiss, and she didn't kiss, but wait said provider didn't even view his p411 profile anyway.........

Its a two way street gentlemen. We provide the info, just read it, slims down the questions. Same for us, we read your p411, and ect.... that way we don't have alot of questions for you.

Lisa, perfectly stated as always

Soon there will be a thread about how ladies don't read the gents P411 profile. How he was so disappointed, that he likes to drink coke and prefers bbbj verse cbj. How said provider completely skipped over the part where it said he likes to kiss, and she didn't kiss, but wait said provider didn't even view his p411 profile anyway.........

Its a two way street gentlemen. We provide the info, just read it, slims down the questions. Same for us, we read your p411, and ect.... that way we don't have alot of questions for you. Originally Posted by lisa.lisa0302

When I contacted a provider, I always mentioned at least some of what was in my p411 profile, let her know I had a p411 profile and let her know that if she wanted to know anything before agreeing to see me, she was free to ask.

Research is a hobbyist best friend and P411 is a great tool. I try and make my initial contact through it and have had 100% success so far. I need all the leg up I can get on making it a fun visit so I read ALL I can on a lady I plan on seeing. Goal is to make her feel special and glad I came to see her. Women deserve to be treated nice wether you are paying them up front or on the back end. You pay either way so no need to be a dufus, period.

CoHorn, I would say Ima bend you over my knee and SPANK YOUR A$$, but you would like that too much! I will have to charge extra for that

Lisa thank you so much for your words of encouragement and enlightenment.

And yes a lot of us ladies read the P411 profile. A lot of the guys leave them blank, completely blank...but a lot of the guys fill them out. I have seen them filled out to a "T" before exactly how the gentleman wants his session to go, and I of course followed it (as long as it was menu items). I can remember one session in particular where the hobbyist, who was absolutely sweet as pie by the way, had a lot of specific things that are considered fetish. I provided exactly what he had in his profile and we had a rockin' good time! Of course it was not something he would want to write a review about, but he certainly got his hour's worth and we both had so much fun.

I also like to make sure about perfumes, lotions, etc. Some hobbyists will put it their P411 profile that their SO is super sensitive to any different cosmetic smells and request no lotion, body spray, or even face powder to be worn during the session. I love that they think to spell it out in detail, and then in their initial contact they will say, "please read my profile thoroughly before we go any further." WHAT AN ABSOLUTE TIME SAVER!

Definitely a two way street! And I am not too worried about getting a hard time for starting this thread...because I definitely know how to give a man a hard, um, time .

Men are visual. Too many sexy pics and we become distracted. The distraction is not our fault.

Well this is a good answer.......

Men are visual. Too many sexy pics and we become distracted. The distraction is not our fault. Originally Posted by pyramider