I don't really have any advice for you either.
For me, fluids have been an age/maturity thing. For instance, when I was younger, I may have had more of an issue with my own and anyone else's coming too close to me. I remember I had a bf when I was 18 who would love to kiss me after he had just gone down and it would freak me out way too much.
I had another bf who wanted to snowball and loved it, but that also freaked me out at the time.
Now, not at all. It is totally hot to me to kiss someone after they have just been down on me, and vice versa. I also have a bit of a cum fetish in my personal life, in terms of enjoying to be cum on, etc etc.
So, I don't know if it will be the same for you. Maybe try and understand the cause of what turns you off; what about it specifically does, and you will start to understand how to overcome the issue.
Good luck.Originally Posted by Victoria of Houston
Real men watch Sex and the City Originally Posted by SweetDulceNo they don't
The idea of snowballing or squirting is gross to me. But, for me, kissing after a swallow or a rinse and spit is just a thanks for the intimacy she just shared with you. Same with kissing after a good DATY session.
If you're that phobic about fluids, wrap yourself in plastic before each session and don't kiss.
The Ladies I see are all freshly showered with minty, clean breath. If yours aren't, then you are seeing the wrong ones. Originally Posted by Oralist
Nope. The idea of drinking piss is about as enticing as munching on a turd. No thanks, I'll leave that part to others. Originally Posted by OralistSo, what do you do then, if you have a squirter? You're going down and it just happens? Do you freak out? Run away to the bathroom to wash your mouth? I'm super curious, lols.