Carmen

Your speculation of Carmen's personal life may be the reason she doesn't reply back to you. From experience, people don't like for you to get into their business. Just saying. So much for discretion....

Your speculation of Carmen's personal life may be the reason she doesn't reply back to you. From experience, people don't like for you to get into their business. Just saying. So much for discretion.... Originally Posted by cluefinder

Yes, show some discretion... says the guy who was banned for outing my face, real name & number on the post below just 8 months ago. You're a mess, dude.

http://www.eccie.net/showpost.php?p=...&postcount=316

If Carmen herself wanted to be discreet, y'all wouldn't even know about who's in her personal life to begin with.

Your speculation of Carmen's personal life may be the reason she doesn't reply back to you. From experience, people don't like for you to get into their business. Just saying. So much for discretion.... Originally Posted by cluefinder

As if you would know ANYTHING about "discretion". Shall we all be reminded why you were banned in the first place? BTW welcome back.

Besides the "speculation" probably has Carmen paranoid which is why she's not responding. But please continue

Holy cow! The OP has closed the topic already. Is there really a need to attack each other on this thread?

Holy cow! The OP has closed the topic already. Is there really a need to attack each other on this thread? Originally Posted by Pool_man57

No one needs a need to do anything. Won't change a damn thing. Welcome to the party, sweetcheeks.

If the op wanted this topic closed he would've went to the mods to close it...it's still open. Welcome to the internet.

Holy cow! The OP has closed the topic already. Is there really a need to attack each other on this thread? Originally Posted by Pool_man57

No attack here… Just calling out a hypocrite who's attacking others for the very same behavior he's guilty of.

Good one on you Ginger. I can tell you are still upset with me but it's not because I accidentally outed you by posting a link that led to you.

I've noticed you are still following me around on the boards. I don't want trouble with you so get off my nuts.

You came up with an idea that we could date when you came across my profile on POF. Wasn't my idea because you invited me to come stay at your house on a weekend. You even planned a Halloween party to go together. You my dear ginger are mad at me because you feel I batrayed you by seeing someone else and posting a review of another provider prior to our get together.

Look....I consider Carmen to be a great friend. I'm not looking to date her or anybody but I do like to have a "friends" with benefits arraignment. She is sweet hearted. We don't talk about any of her clients or anyone that she sees professionally. I do know about her personal family but that's between her and I. By yours and bd admittion in prior post. You talk to clients about other girls and about clients too.
What you are doing is wrong by talking bad about Carmen. Ole boy was just asking about why he could not reach her and you and your minion started bashing her with rumors. If you were my friend I would stand up for you....and I have before.

Good one on you Ginger. I can tell you are still upset with me but it's not because I accidentally outed you by posting a link that led to you.

I've noticed you are still following me around on the boards. I don't want trouble with you so get off my nuts.

You came up with an idea that we could date when you came across my profile on POF. Wasn't my idea because you invited me to come stay at your house on a weekend. You even planned a Halloween party to go together. You my dear ginger are mad at me because you feel I batrayed you by seeing someone else and posting a review of another provider prior to our get together.

Look....I consider Carmen to be a great friend. I'm not looking to date her or anybody but I do like to have a "friends" with benefits arraignment. She is sweet hearted. We don't talk about any of her clients or anyone that she sees professionally. I do know about her personal family but that's between her and I. By yours and bd admittion in prior post. You talk to clients about other girls and about clients too.
What you are doing is wrong by talking bad about Carmen. Ole boy was just asking about why he could not reach her and you and your minion started bashing her with rumors. If you were my friend I would stand up for you....and I have before. Originally Posted by cluefinder

You're ridiculous. You didn't post a link, you posted a screenshot of a text that had my face picture on it, my real name, and my unadvertised real-life number.

And nice try flipping that scenario… You suggested that we date. I told you that it was strictly professional between us. Your ass-hurt was probably a big part of what led you to out me in the first place.

I never stated any rumors about Carmen. Simply stated the fact that she's not known for being extremely reliable, but is reportedly fun and cute once you get there. Nothing wrong with that. It was a compliment.

Of course dear....I did post a txt msg that was of you talking about DReid and a link that lead to you. And yes that txt had your "unadvertised" number on it because you wanted more. If I were just a client then how would I get your"unadvertised" number. You should go back and read those txt. It's pretty clear you were the motivator was.

At the time I accidentally posted your private number. You and your possee were bashing another provider on the boards. She is also a nice girl only she isn't as quiet as Carmen is. I asked you as a friend to stop harassing her and you got mad because I would not side with you. You and your school girls need to stop harassing the sweet cute providers like Carmen. She doesn't even post on the boards.

Of course dear....I did post a txt msg that was of you talking about DReid and a link that lead to you. And yes that txt had your "unadvertised" number on it because you wanted more. If I were just a client then how would I get your"unadvertised" number. You should go back and read those txt. It's pretty clear you were the motivator was.

At the time I accidentally posted your private number. You and your possee were bashing another provider on the boards. She is also a nice girl only she isn't as quiet as Carmen is. I asked you as a friend to stop harassing her and you got mad because I would not side with you. You and your school girls need to stop harassing the sweet cute providers like Carmen. She doesn't even post on the boards. Originally Posted by cluefinder

When a provider's number is unadvertised and you post it without her permission, that is outing. Regardless of whether it's her hobby number, her personal number, or in your case, your inability to know the difference between the two… Your intentions were clear.

As I stated, my post about Carmen was an honest compliment, letting the OP know, in case he wanted to keep putting the effort forth to meet her. Nothing I posted could be considered harassment in any way.

Obviously, you have been sitting around for months waiting for your account to be reinstated after your ban so you could continue your agenda with me... harassment. Which by the way, has absolutely nothing to do with the topic of this thread.

Obviously, you have been sitting around for months waiting for your account to be reinstated after your ban so you could continue your agenda with me... harassment. Which by the way, has absolutely nothing to do with the topic of this thread.

I don't know either one of you but I read through the posts and your statement is inaccurate. He does not appear to address you at all originally and his post had nothing to do with you. You were the one to attack him because of some history you have together.

I don't know either one of you but I read through the posts and your statement is inaccurate. He does not appear to address you at all originally and his post had nothing to do with you. You were the one to attack him because of some history you have together. Originally Posted by Pool_man57

Calling him out for his lack of discretion after he attacked the previous poster for lack of discretion has nothing to do with his warped perception of our history. He's the one that took it there.

Who gives a fuck yall to needs toget a room and make up. Yall are actin like a marry couple and as far as outin people ginger has no room to talk she will out you in a new york minute. And about carmen who gives a fuck!

I'm going to very strongly suggest that everyone involved move away from this topic pronto. Clue and Ginger, if you two continue to bring your personal issues to Eccie, I will continue to enforce our rules here.
Specifically;

#31 - Often times in the hobby arena, members may display a tendency towards bringing their conflicts with other members to the board. This will be strongly discouraged and swift effort will be made to put it to rest. Additionally, staff will make every effort to stay uninvolved in conflicts and disputes between members off the board except in such cases where the board becomes directly affected.

Consider this your strong discouragement. And your next posts on this thread will determine where we go from here. I eagerly await those posts.

Personally I can't see Ginger ever dating anyone. She's having too much fun and makes too much money to give up this Hobby. And I really can't see too many men wanting to date a hooker. I've been with ginger she admits she's a hooker. And she's professional and discreet. I also know her name she gladly told me that when we were together and that was her choice but I would never give out her real name or her real phone number or anybody's real name or real phone number that's a provider. That's just stupid and any client that does so and post things like that should realize the repercussions in this community would probably not want providers to be able to see that guy again