Im sure that atleast one post was directed at me.. and I have no doubt the backchannels are full of people that say avoid me, don't listen to me etc etc..
those people are generally
#1 people that don't like HONEST, BLUNT opinions.. I don't sugar coat it, whats even worse is when some agree with me..
#2. providers that are use to having their hands held and asses wiped constantly.. I don't, won't do any of that..since I don't need it done myself..those that do, need to get a LIFE outside the hobby, a strong support group of NON hobbyiest and providers that help keep you grounded, sane, confident and act as people you can just talk to.. those people will keep you from having to run to a HOBBY board and look for WK'S and other providers that need to have their asses wiped and kissed
I agree however.. don't listen to me.. some are right.. the only thing that matters is what the clients think and what the provider thinks.. unfortunately this whole thread was started because a CLIENT based on review DID have a problem..and an opinion that differed from the providers point of view..the client was NOT happy with his session..thus this thread.. therefore.. yes..it only matters what the clients think and the provider thinks..and unfortunately the provider thought she was offering services that was top notch and the client obviously thought otherwise.. and since the client pays the fees..his opinion matters a hell of alot more than the providers on the subject of SESSION EXPERIENCE being up to par..that was only 1 guys opinion..but apparently it had a profound effect on the provider to warrant such a thread.
I agree..many should not listen to me.. if you want smoke blown up your ass and we all make believe that the p4p world is some complex intellectually filled business that requires a doctorate degree in ho-nomics just to make it thru..then no..don't listen to me.. cuz thats total and complete bullshit..
its p4p.. offer services that command the rate you seek, show up, be consistent, create a niche, create a persona that attracts the clients you desire..take your lumps as they come in this business and most of all stay grounded..realize that the money that is made in this world most paying clients are working 40 long hrs a week to make.. girls are making it often in just a few hours a week.. don't be greedy, be empathetic with the clients.. relate to them..realize that they are seeing girls in p4p to escape and to experience something different.. whether erotic, porn starish, sensual or just something exciting.. they are spending hard earned money to not see their opinions dismissed, to not put up with housewife drama.. and most of all..to not have to defend themselves from the weak minded fragile ego that can be providers at time..
despite my on board persona..any guy that has met me can tell you.. my personal life never came to a date, any post i made on this board..is not discussed.. I don't discuss other providers, I don't discuss reviews.. I didn't run to the boards to bitch..frankly I never had a reason too.. its suppose to be about me and that guy..not any other crap.. . never had a bad review..countless boards, countless reviews..not 1..never a reason to complain
some are right..please don't listen to me.. however..since 2002/2003 i have seen countless girls that just knew i was wrong..that just knew i was such a bitch..that just knew I was a complete ass..ya..those girls..they came and went..flashes in the pan..most leave with some tirade about how its everyone else..in the end..they never had the self esteem and confidence it takes to make it in the business..they wanted easy money..and it is easy money.. however..you gotta bring it every night
- guest071811-3
- 04-08-2011, 11:24 PM
- Guest032112
- 04-09-2011, 09:32 AM
. . . .its p4p.. offer services that command the rate you seek, show up, be consistent, create a niche, create a persona that attracts the clients you desire..take your lumps as they come in this business and most of all stay grounded..realize that the money that is made in this world most paying clients are working 40 long hrs a week to make.. girls are making it often in just a few hours a week.. don't be greedy, be empathetic with the clients.. relate to them..realize that they are seeing girls in p4p to escape and to experience something different.. whether erotic, porn starish, sensual or just something exciting.. they are spending hard earned money to not see their opinions dismissed, to not put up with housewife drama.. and most of all..to not have to defend themselves from the weak minded fragile ego that can be providers at time.. Originally Posted by DeAnna LuvAbsolutely right, again, DeAnna. It's not rocket science. Like any other business, it's market driven.
If some of you providers who are new to the scene don't understand why some of the local, really active horn-dawgs haven't called don't repeat, its because you're not offering what they are seeking at a price the market will bear. (sorry for the economic speak) Simply put, provide a full menu, be good at it and get paid for it.
. . . some are right..please don't listen to me.. however..since 2002/2003 i have seen countless girls that just knew i was wrong..that just knew i was such a bitch..that just knew I was a complete ass..ya..those girls..they came and went..flashes in the pan..most leave with some tirade about how its everyone else..in the end..they never had the self esteem and confidence it takes to make it in the business..they wanted easy money..and it is easy money.. however..you gotta bring it every night Originally Posted by DeAnna LuvIt's not rocket science. Provide what the market demands and thrive or don't listen to clients and take advice of those who are successful and be a "flash in the pan".
Damn, DeAnna. Now that the government didn't shut down, I'm on the phone with the National Weather Service trying to find the forecast for Hell!
- summerpleasures
- 04-09-2011, 11:46 AM
thank u all so much
- ali*cat
- 04-09-2011, 01:15 PM
LMAO! I'm STILL here!
- ali*cat
- 04-09-2011, 01:19 PM
Doing better then ever.
- summerpleasures
- 04-09-2011, 03:49 PM
Am I know about the "fake o". From a concerned client that read what he had yo say about me,..
- BabyDallass
- 04-09-2011, 04:50 PM
QUOTE OF THE DAY:
You were born an original. Don't die a copy. ~John Mason
You were born an original. Don't die a copy. ~John Mason
- Guest032112
- 04-09-2011, 04:51 PM
- guest071811-3
- 04-09-2011, 11:20 PM
Am I know about the "fake o". From a concerned client that read what he had yo say about me,.. Originally Posted by summerpleasures
very very nice.. so some "concerned" client revealed private details about the review? lmao
wow..i don't think i have ever seen it actually admitted!!
so their is a WK lap dog among us!! who knew!
who told you? wait.. don't tell me.. probably best to let the mods know in private
- Ginger Doll
- 04-10-2011, 04:10 AM
very very nice.. so some "concerned" client revealed private details about the review? lmaoWow. That is a first.
wow..i don't think i have ever seen it actually admitted!!
so their is a WK lap dog among us!! who knew!
who told you? wait.. don't tell me.. probably best to let the mods know in private
I think we're all aware that this sort of thing goes on, if we're honest with ourselves.
But most of the offending parties are bright enough to realize that they shouldn't openly & publicly flaunt it when they violate the board rules!
- Flyboy182
- 04-12-2011, 06:23 PM
Like you said Ginger...'most'. That's obviously not all.