Perfume: usually best not to wear any, as the fragrance can be detected in the man's clothing by those who may not need to know what he has been enjoying.
Clothing: Depends on the location of the date. If at the man's home, the ladies dress should be street casual or business like, if neighbors may notice. Of course, anything very sexy or even nothing at all could be underneath. If going to an outcall at a motel, dress should not attract undue attention, but may be more revealing than at a house. For incall, I like to see the lady in lingerie. Actually, I find a many forms of dress very sexy. Does anyone remember when it was popular for the girls to wear overalls with the legs cut nearly to the crotch and a tube top? Jeans and a pull on top are nice. It can be exciting to watch jeans being peeled off with no panties underneath. I am especially partial to short skirts. Loose dresses like sun dresses are nice to pull up to expose a panty/bra combo. The new micro bikini swimwear could make for some exciting sensations. I like the stripper look, also. Teddies are fun. I like for the lady to surprise me with what she has on or doesn't have on. I don't find the plain white briefs all that exciting; lower cut are nice. Any color that is attractive on you is fine. They can be lacy, fishnet, or with ruffles. There are really endless attractive, sexy outfits that can be worn underneath whatever street clothes that suit the situation. Lingerie and swimsuit sites are full of good ideas. Check out the black cocktail dress at http://wickedweasel.com/en/ww_model_galleries/2303 While there check out all the sexy models!!
And don't undress too quickly. It is very exciting to take off just one piece at a time in an alluring manner. It can be very exciting to undress each other.
Always be clean (am sure you always are BD) with well kept hair. Not much makeup. You girls are really a lot prettier than you think you are without makeup!!!!
A genuine smile and a pleasant, friendly attitude are the biggest turn ons. A physically gorgeous girl is not exciting, when she acts like she would rather be somewhere else. Let yourself enjoy the date and it will be super for both parties.
Dimmers on the lights, bottle of wine chilled or glasses waiting, low music does not matter the genre, loose and comfortable easy-breezy top, I used to love the flower-child blouses, no jeans, strapless sundress does it for me, no panties unless it is a thong, man's undershirt and boxers are good too but like to find a thong underneath, bare feet with painted nails, hair still wet from the shower, very light fragrance if any, not for SO, but for my allergies, (this is why I usually don't see smokers) I do like lotions and oils, but it is expensive to find them fragrance free, sit facing for the intro conversation, standing for a dance and kissing and a few more sips of wine, let me explore with my hands and eyes, maybe even from behind. keep the conversation going in the shower, and be ready to warm me up, dry me off and get comfortable on the bed (or sybian). I like to cover and dive into that pussy first, but very slowly, then clean up and get into a great 69 leading to another dive in cg or acg....well I guess I have gone too far again...back to clothes...color makes the match for me, hair color, eye color, skin tone and lingerie color should coordinate and compliment, not clash...
I like her to look sweet, classy, and natural... the girl next door type of look. Well fitting jeans and tight tee shirt is hot. I also love a flirty sundress or short casual skirt. I also love the look of nothing but the mens dress shirt and some cotton panties..... what guy doesn't like that look?
As for the other stuff like hair and nails... don't care, surprise me. As long as they are well-kept, neat, and clean I'm happy.
What about the trench coat that hits just below the knees with nothing on under and heels to top it off? I always liked that look...
Originally Posted by BabyDallas
Oh yeah I like that too! But, stop now... you're making parts of me start to wake up and pay close attention to this thread.
BabyD, I wish I'd seen this post earlier. The fact that you ask this question shows that you care about these things. Nice!
What I definitely enjoy is walking into a clean, cozzy environment. It doesn't have to be 5 star, but it definitely has to be clean. No mess anywhere and no cigarette butts or smoke lingering in the room.
As for the girl, I like seeing a girl who's freshly showered that her hair is still damp and it smells fresh. As for her make up, nothing caked on. Either natural or just a little on, the kind that serves to enhance her natural look and not to conceal anything.
As for the look of her, I definitely enjoy the look of a girl who's dressed in a skirt with a white blouse and black heels. The kind of look she'd dress as if she was going to an important job interview.
Personally, I always make sure to look my best when going out to meet a girl. I am always freshly showered and dress professionally, except for the tie part and coat.
Now, as for the smell, I'd like for her to smell sweetly so that when we hug and kiss at the door, her scent lingers on my clothes hours after I've seen her.