What Do Non-Black Men Like About Black Women?

I grew up in a environment where it was taboo and Heaven forbid you dated someone from a different race, that being said my first couple encounters with AA females was mainly cause of the taboo of being with them. Now it's more of traits I prefer, I like the spunky ones, with nice set of twins, not to big , but the ones with the tear drop shape, that have good personalities. Since I've been in the hobby I have met some very beautiful ladies of all races , beautiful meaning inside out..

I grew up in a environment where it was taboo and Heaven forbid you dated someone from a different race, that being said my first couple encounters with AA females was mainly cause of the taboo of being with them. Now it's more of traits I prefer, I like the spunky ones, with nice set of twins, not to big , but the ones with the tear drop shape, that have good personalities. Since I've been in the hobby I have met some very beautiful ladies of all races , beautiful meaning inside out.. Originally Posted by face2muff

I've seen a lot of guys that say it was taboo for them and they've never had a chance to be with a black woman. It's more common than some people think

I hate to give DR an unhelpful answer, but to post a minority viewpoint...

I really have no special attraction to AA women at all. The AA (and mixed race) women I've been attracted to and been intimate with I've been attracted to because they have the basic qualities that I find attractive in any woman of any race/ethnicity: good looks (though if anyone here has seen the women I've dated outside the hobby they'll realize that's a somewhat low bar), educated to at least the HS grad or GED level (bonus points for some college to degree holder), well spoken (i.e., writes and speaks using correct, standard English), interesting conversationalist (bonus points for being a geek or at least geeky), and has with me that elusive quality we call "chemistry".

Just call me "Mr. Equal Opportunity".

Cheers,

bcg Originally Posted by bluffcityguy

I wish there were more gentlemen like yourself out there BCG. You are the epitome of a super wonderful gentleman.

I wish there were more gentlemen like yourself out there BCG. You are the epitome of a super wonderful gentleman.
Originally Posted by Gfe Juliette

You're too kind, Ms. J...

Love ya,

bcg (whose fanbase is small but passionate)

Danielle, I hate bringing up an old post, but you asked what non black men find attractive in black women. I thought about it , struggled with what to say, then and I gave you an honest answer back then, although it was hard to explain my attraction to them. But early this month I met the answer I was looking for. All you have to do is look at sweetblended80 https://eccie.net/providers.php?do=view&id=219560 who I had the privilege of spending time with in early march. She is the perfect example of why I am attractive to black women. She is beautiful, not just her body, but her face and features. She has an amazing smile and sweet personality. We became friends from our first text and I knew I adored her the minute she rolled her window down in the parking lot when I finally met her. She was such a pleasure to be with that our time together was one of the best, if not the best I have had in the hobby. The view while pleasuring her was amazing and the whole experience extraordinary. We have stayed friends since then as she is so easy to talk to and get along with.

What has all this have to do with your post? I have been in the hobby more years then I would like to admit. I have been a member of the Colorado's The Other board, TER, P411, ASPD and Eccie. I have seen girls of all nationalities, races, sizes and religions. But I have found over the years that my first date experiences with black women have always been similar as with her. Maybe not to the extreme as this was, as she is special, but similar. Some of the most amazing times I have had in the hobby (including with you) have been with black women and I have never had a bad experience with one. They are not only are pretty, but I find they have great first impression personalities and easy to get along with. I am attracted to all women but have a special attraction with black women. Sorry it took seeing this wonderful girl to fully be able to explain why I am attracted to them.

I’m glad you found someone that made you happy

Well I somehow missed this thread but it’s a topic I’m definitely a fan of. I had never experienced the joys of being able to be intimate with a black girl until I started the hobby a few years ago. Since that time, black girls have become my hands down favorite. Some obviously more than others but the top 3 providers on my list of favorites are all black girls. There’s just something about them that is hard to describe. They are definitely more sensual and passionate for the most part. Physically I’m obviously in love with the big booties and black girls are generally the best in that category. I also adore their lips and hips as well. Long flowing hair either natural or fake also turns me on. And of course their skin tone and feel, usually silky, soft and smooth. But perhaps more than their sensuality and appearance, it’s their natural pheromones and aroma that drives me crazy the most. As someone else stated earlier, it’s nothing bad or unpleasant at all, instead it is the most arousing and intoxicating aroma I’ve ever encountered in a sexual experience. I’m attracted to that scent like nothing else and sorry but white girls just don’t have it...
So to sum it up- I missed out most of my adult life on the best sexual encounters I’ve ever had but now that I know how special they are, it will always be black girls for me

This question was asked in a writing group of mine for character building purposes but it works here since this site is all about clients connecting with providers.

So non-black males, what do YOU find attractive in black women? There are no wrong answers, this is all curiosity. Originally Posted by Danielle Reid

I see AA ladies for the taint, and the pinck ... I am an equal opportunity fucktard.

I see AA ladies for the taint, and the pinck ... I am an equal opportunity fucktard. Originally Posted by pyramider

Part of my taint is pink

And nice taint it is

Danielle, I hate bringing up an old post, but you asked what non black men find attractive in black women. I thought about it , struggled with what to say, then and I gave you an honest answer back then, although it was hard to explain my attraction to them. But early this month I met the answer I was looking for. All you have to do is look at sweetblended80 https://eccie.net/providers.php?do=view&id=219560 who I had the privilege of spending time with in early march. She is the perfect example of why I am attractive to black women. She is beautiful, not just her body, but her face and features. She has an amazing smile and sweet personality. We became friends from our first text and I knew I adored her the minute she rolled her window down in the parking lot when I finally met her. She was such a pleasure to be with that our time together was one of the best, if not the best I have had in the hobby. The view while pleasuring her was amazing and the whole experience extraordinary. We have stayed friends since then as she is so easy to talk to and get along with. Originally Posted by sas72032

Thank you , that means a lot from a good friend !! Every time you’re with me it’s ALL about you 🤗 unless you get that call I’m ..... lol

Danielle, I hate bringing up an old post, but you asked what non black men find attractive in black women. I thought about it , struggled with what to say, then and I gave you an honest answer back then, although it was hard to explain my attraction to them. But early this month I met the answer I was looking for. All you have to do is look at sweetblended80 https://eccie.net/providers.php?do=view&id=219560 who I had the privilege of spending time with in early march. She is the perfect example of why I am attractive to black women. She is beautiful, not just her body, but her face and features. She has an amazing smile and sweet personality. We became friends from our first text and I knew I adored her the minute she rolled her window down in the parking lot when I finally met her. She was such a pleasure to be with that our time together was one of the best, if not the best I have had in the hobby. The view while pleasuring her was amazing and the whole experience extraordinary. We have stayed friends since then as she is so easy to talk to and get along with.

What has all this have to do with your post? I have been in the hobby more years then I would like to admit. I have been a member of the Colorado's The Other board, TER, P411, ASPD and Eccie. I have seen girls of all nationalities, races, sizes and religions. But I have found over the years that my first date experiences with black women have always been similar as with her. Maybe not to the extreme as this was, as she is special, but similar. Some of the most amazing times I have had in the hobby (including with you) have been with black women and I have never had a bad experience with one. They are not only are pretty, but I find they have great first impression personalities and easy to get along with. I am attracted to all women but have a special attraction with black women. Sorry it took seeing this wonderful girl to fully be able to explain why I am attracted to them. Originally Posted by sas72032

sold!

So non-black males, what do YOU find attractive in black women?

Dani,

Yours is a very legitimate question ... that begs a bit of um, editing, from my pov:

So males, what do YOU find attractive in women of a different ethnicity than yours?

To which I did a bit of self assessment, aside from my known ginger favoritism and added that way after

-- intelligence (ability to conversate RW)
-- chemistry
-- companionship
-- communication

yes, I do also somewhere in the equation add in size, shape, age, ethnicity and skin quality, sparkle of eyeballs, smile, "habits - meaning smoker, non-smoker" and some very subtle or not so subtle other markers, including quality of TCB, BCD, rates, services, etc.

I do believe that in the hobby -- all other things being equal -- race should not be a major issue in the hobby although some folks seem to think it should be.

As a couple of folks discussed at the after party from last night's socials (been on going in San Antonio and Austin since 2003) regarding race, I think it might have been in 2005 that a gent on aspd asked me via pm if it was true that none of our socials welcomed black gents. In my reply, I asked where he had heard that and he said his ATF provider had told him. (She was white, and obviously he was not.)

I replied that social invite requirements were for at least two well-established provider vouches (and periodic provider re-vouches every 90 days or so following) and to the best of my knowledge back then we never asked a race question, nor a smoker, nor a disabled, nor a (fill in the blank) whatever person.

And indeed we have enjoyed the fellowship of persons of all races, ethnicity, religions, height, weight, age, full body, hardly any body, with all 4 limbs and missing a few limbs, too. Even several TS, TG and male escorts, too.

Perhaps it was because the early organizers had some extensive military background, or perhaps not, and San Antonio being "Military City" where people of all stripes are accepted at face value.

Who knows?

And if people make an issue of it, then those folks likely won't make it on the guest list.

Dani, and all y'all Arkansans, Razorbacks or not, come see us in San Antonio some time and (urgent tone) make sure y'all have some backup resources just in case disruption happens as it has happened in the past.

Happy Hobbying!

Disruption as in vice visiting one of your socials?

I think several have mentioned it, but it is worth repeating. I love a nice round backside.