Things that piss you off (in the hobby)

No offense..but your either a dude just posting as a female hence you could never get provider status

or

you got some serious issues you need help with..

really DFK is expecting to much

really they just need to get off you

I honestly believe that you most likely have just become a glorified troll.. I doublt you are a female.. if you are.. wow.. you really have no clue

so i guess add that to the things that piss me off

providers without a fucking clue

and trolls.. trolls that don't have a fucking clue Originally Posted by DeAnna Luv
Darlin, Eccie is not the do all/say all of advertising on the internet. You think I'm a man? Fine, I couldn't care less if you think that. I've talked to a few men on here so whatever! I don't have a clue? That is a matter of opinion, not fact. The difference between me and you is I can be ultra honest. I'm not getting any bizness here nor is this my advertising realm. But I'm concerned about you. Not just for your opinion of how you feel towards me, but just the anger I've seen in your posts. It seems you are even angrier than me! It seems like you get angry over every little thing. I've read your posts in the past, you are one unhappy woman. So please don't be all uppedy to me. Your just as miserable it seems. I hate DFK because these men gross me out. But you wouldn't be able to tell from my performance. Why do you think I'm always bitching about clingy clients? If my clients knew how I felt do you think they would be all clingy towards me? God bless you. I hope you find some peace and happiness in your life. I'm trying to find some also. My one main problem is being stuck as an escort. I hate it, so your right I do have problems. Read my blog. It amazes me how open minded yet close minded people can be at the same time.

And I AM working on a career change. I just can't quit right now. How I live my life and my career goals are none of anyones business nor do I need to explain them, I will state I am working on a career change. I do not see how anyone can do this for more than 2 years. I've been an escort for 2 years and I'm going insane with grossness. Sorry just being honest. If you can't take the heat get out of the kitchen. Thanks for respecting my honesty :-) MUAH!
Troll, I would say not. Rather, she seems to have an awkward sense when operating in a new environment (i.e. the AR forums), to the point of being disrespectful out of ignorance on a few occasions.

Nor would I say she's a male. Definitely a female. I understand the 'DFK' and 'get off me' things (though they're against the best of the GFE tradition) in that to most providers this is just a job, and like all jobs it has its unpleasant aspects (which are different depending on the girl). But all providers put up with it because the money is worth it.

Isis just strikes me as a provider that's trying a peculiar way of staying under the radar. Originally Posted by Commander Salamander

WOW. Someone with a brain who has a clue! OMG.
...she seems to have an awkward sense...to the point of being disrespectful out of ignorance... Originally Posted by Commander Salamander
Bitter is more like it.

...just the anger I've seen in your posts. It seems you are even angrier than me! It seems like you get angry over every little thing... Originally Posted by incognito isis
I think stupidity makes DeAnna angry. You'll have to excuse her; She means well.

...I do not see how anyone can do this for more than 2 years. I've been an escort for 2 years and I'm going insane with grossness... Originally Posted by incognito isis
How sad for you, really. I've been an escort for at least 2 years & I absolutely love it. I can't imagine doing anything else! If I hated it, I would certainly find something else to do. (And actually DO it, versus just whining about it to the world, while hiding behind a mask of unaccountability.)

Money is great, but my own happiness is far more important to me.

...If you can't take the heat get out of the kitchen... Originally Posted by incognito isis
Sometimes, the very best advice we can take is our own.
What pisses me off is that some brain dead politicians make person to person interaction illegal. Where do they get the right to screw us and then charge us if we screw each other for a $
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What pisses me off is that some brain dead politicians make person to person interaction illegal. Where do they get the right to screw us and then charge us if we screw each other for a $ Originally Posted by Scruffy55
Lol you are so right .....
Oh and Isis this must be your. Love thread , bet you could post in here for days lol!!!
....Oh and Isis this must be your. Love thread , bet you could post in here for days lol!!! Originally Posted by Sweet N Little
it's one thing to occasionally pissed off, but it's an entirely different matter to wake up everyday with your panties in a permanent knot. I hope Isis isn't as open with her clients as she is here. She'd go broke!
it's one thing to occasionally pissed off, but it's an entirely different matter to wake up everyday with your panties in a permanent knot. I hope Isis isn't as open with her clients as she is here. She'd go broke! Originally Posted by arklookn4lovn
Honesty of I.I( initials perhaps suggestive of attitude) most certainly refreshing. However, it incites posting in thread in which humble writer did not mean to post. There are few things in HobbyLand that irritate Mr.Chan, but woman who take my money and make me feel like trash is one of them. If it is not what you wish to do, WalMart no doubt has most attractive smock awaiting you. Perhaps trailblazing lady have new wrinkle on GFE. Suggest calling it, "Just Like Your Wife." Desire to leave hobby is doubtless aided by today's posting. It is doubted that anything in advertising suits you. Best wishes.
Mr. Chan say avoid shit storm or honorable mod really get pissed.

Back on topic, without the personal stuff. No names, remember?

Huck
Mr. Chan say avoid shit storm or honorable mod really get pissed.

Back on topic, without the personal stuff. No names, remember?

Huck Originally Posted by urhuckleberry
A thousand pardons.
Things that piss me off in the hobby

People that for some reason think I am miserable because I crack on stupid comments..

quite the contrary.. I rarely do this..but here goes

I wake up every morning next to my husband of almost 15yrs (16yrs in the relationship) yes at 33yrs old.. I hear my 4 kids playing in the house, watching tv, the oldest making something to eat perhaps. I look outside at my 5 dogs running and playing, my pool gleaming in the sun, my front yard with its manicured lawn etc.. and I realize

life is alright.. pussy paid for some of this..the fact my husband (yes we are swingers) wakes up and goes to work everyday paid for most of it.. I have no reason to be miserable.. I married my best friend,, my high school sweetheart.. we experience everything together, his job allows us to spend much of the day together if he so desires that. We have traveled the U.S, take multiple vacations a year.. yep.. I don't really "have" to be here.. but I love it.. its a huge turn on and a kink factor and lets face facts..the fucking money ain't bad either..the money allows to have ALOT of extras yes.. but stuff we could also easily do without if I decided to quit tomorrow..

I have no reason to be miserable.. my board persona and even much of real life does revolve around calling BULLSHIT when i feel its presence.. I am brash, I am up front.. but I love to fuck and give it up to horny guys and getting paid for it makes it that much more taboo

so no.. not miserable.. just one more thing in the hobby that pisses me off.. people trying to label me as something because either they are..or they can't handle the fucking truth when its in their face

hobby is fun..yes there is crap that goes on that pisses people off.. we all have it..makes the job a little more irritating.. and I have FUCKED alot of guys in my years.. but never once left thinking that guy made me sick..I have never had a guy I wouldn't see again.. never an experience that was just unpleasant.. its all fun.. it all has its kink factor..

the things that piss me off are more on the business end.. the endless calls, the time wasters, the fucked up POV's by some on the boards..stuff like that
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What pisses me off is when you find someone who you click with and then they disappear. I understand why it happens, they quit, move to another city etc, but it still sucks. It's happened 3 times over the years, but at least a few others let me know when they were moving.
Bitter is more like it.



I think stupidity makes DeAnna angry. You'll have to excuse her; She means well.



How sad for you, really. I've been an escort for at least 2 years & I absolutely love it. I can't imagine doing anything else! If I hated it, I would certainly find something else to do. (And actually DO it, versus just whining about it to the world, while hiding behind a mask of unaccountability.)

Money is great, but my own happiness is far more important to me.



Sometimes, the very best advice we can take is our own. Originally Posted by Ginger Doll
GingerDoll, contrary to what you think...I actually AM doing something to get out of this business. Things take time, but believe you me, I am doing things to get out! In the meantime, I can bitch ALL I want about my job. Why? Because I can. You seem so incredibly hell bent on people not being able to express themselves. I've seen it before. Some lady you don't like gets scammed and you tell her to get over it. How insensitive! Let people express themselves!! You wanna stay nuetral? Fine. But how dare you tell violated people to just "get over it." Talk about a threAD.

You are so repressed. Try being a little more progressive in your thinking. I understand this is your place of advertisement and you must advertise and agree with the men because they are your bread and butter. You are so transparent. If you love your job great! I tell my clients that also :-) If you love your job so much, then why not meet these men for free? No, you love money. There is nothing wrong with loving money we all need it. But don't sugar coat your true intentions. Again, you are so transparent. I know you will come back with some typical lame response about loving your job and not wanting drama blah blah blah. Bread and butter. Bread and butter. It's not good to photoshop pictures BTW.


As far as bitter purple nail polish lady, you can sugar coat your bitterness all you want under your excuse of intolerability to stupidity. If I was as bitter and angry as you, I'd be sayin gthe same thing. If I am so stupid, then why respond to me? My comments make you angry because they hit the nail on the head. They are truthful. If you truely thought I was stupid you would simply laugh at me. Your one bitter woman. But regardless, I hope you are happy and I am wrong. I mean you have 4 kids and a husband.

On topic: I'm sure the clients hate bitter ladies who sugar coat everything. Also, I was talking to a man the other day about how the older providers photo shop their pics and lie about their age. The providers think this is OK. But the clients know the provider is lying.
I get pissed off when mods are forced to do their jobs

it pisses me off when mods have to lock otherwise good and fun threads

I hope the thread gets left open and it stays on track

I get pissed off that there is a point and ban system on this board and sometimes i feel like utilizing it against myself!
I get pissed off when mods are forced to do their jobs

it pisses me off when mods have to lock otherwise good and fun threads

I hope the thread gets left open and it stays on track

I get pissed off that there is a point and ban system on this board and sometimes i feel like utilizing it against myself! Originally Posted by DeAnna Luv
Haha. Are you finally gonna put yourself on ignore?
Why the hell is a provider from Philly even posting on this thread anyway? We're all adults here (I hope) and we all can make choices for ourselves. If a provider hates their job...quit. If a hobbyist falls in love..quit...

If you spend your life blaming others (current relationships) for your situation u will never be free from your past.