**Roll Call***

Im here as much as I can be

pickupkid still here causing trouble

I don't care who gets pissed at my comment. BUT, your post comes across as IF the men are suppose to step up and take care of you/other ladies IF something comes up in their life.

Wrong!

This hobby is about men seeing women they wish to enjoy downtime with w/o feeling obligated to financially help the women out at every turn in their life when things happen.
And no man is obligated to see a lady more than once if he doesn't want to. And thus seeing her once, he should be able to use her as a reference. (again w/o feeling obligated to do anything more for her) beyond taking care of her *date donation*.

Now let's turn the tables, Wet. You see a guy once, and he's in dire needs of help. Are YOU willing to step up and back him up and help him out? Because that's pretty much what your indicating to the men. To me that's selfish & greedy. Esp. the *you can't back us up but they still use you as a ref*

These men owe use women nothing beyond the date that takes place! Be thankful/grateful for those who do help because they can & will. W/o feeling obligated to do so.

That's my opinion as this is not the first time you've brought something of this nature up.



Now I'm going back to my 70 degree weather and a boat ride.

Hi,

I know a lot of people haven't seen me in a long time...and when the stuff hits the fan no on steps up (which is how I like it) but I want to know (after going through my list ahehhe. *wink*) who is still around....??????

Has the game changed so much that you can't back us up but still use us/me as references?

P.S. I will do an ISO in one week....just because I'm bored!

Sincerely,
Wet
Originally Posted by WetVelvetSAT

Tardy LMAO but still

I don't care who gets pissed at my comment. BUT, your post comes across as IF the men are suppose to step up and take care of you/other ladies IF something comes up in their life.

Wrong!

This hobby is about men seeing women they wish to enjoy downtime with w/o feeling obligated to financially help the women out at every turn in their life when things happen.
And no man is obligated to see a lady more than once if he doesn't want to. And thus seeing her once, he should be able to use her as a reference. (again w/o feeling obligated to do anything more for her) beyond taking care of her *date donation*.

Now let's turn the tables, Wet. You see a guy once, and he's in dire needs of help. Are YOU willing to step up and back him up and help him out? Because that's pretty much what your indicating to the men. To me that's selfish & greedy. Esp. the *you can't back us up but they still use you as a ref*

. Originally Posted by Wicked Milf

The very last line above: What YOU, WM, has just described and how you interpreted this/WV's post IS not at all what was meant.

You always seem to know how to turn everything around, put words into the mouths of others and tweak everything to your way of thinking or the way you want things to be. It is amazing how you are the first person (and the ONLY person) to constantly say you are not looking for trouble, a fight, drama, etc, etc- yet it just exudes from your very soul.

How dare YOU attack WV for something YOU THINK she meant- when in fact that IS NOT the way it is. You are DEFINATELY "something else" missy.

KKA

me me im here toooo! \(^u^)/

me me im here toooo! \(^u^)/ Originally Posted by korea1

You have been quiet for awhile.

Glad to see you still active.

Yeppers, I am something else. Thanks for letting me know that.

FYI, I didn't attack WV. I, missy, commented on what she put forth.
NOW, if what she put forth is NOT at all how it came across. (to me)
Then SHE, WV, is capable of indicating such.

Until then, do not attack my right to voice my opinion regarding what was put forth in her words and do not insult me nor state I'm turning things around, tweeking their posts or putting words into her mouth. Which is absolutely absurd for you to state such. As it is for you to attack someone because their opinion doesn't suit you.
I voice my opinion based on what's put forth to community. It's been a full day and I've yet to see the OP come back with a comment stating that her post was not meant as such. Until then, MY opinion stands as is! it's NOT the first time she's put forth the same thing about men using her as a ref. when they only seen her once. etc.

Have a great day!

The very last line above: What YOU, WM, has just described and how you interpreted this/WV's post IS not at all what was meant.

You always seem to know how to turn everything around, put words into the mouths of others and tweak everything to your way of thinking or the way you want things to be. It is amazing how you are the first person (and the ONLY person) to constantly say you are not looking for trouble, a fight, drama, etc, etc- yet it just exudes from your very soul.

How dare YOU attack WV for something YOU THINK she meant- when in fact that IS NOT the way it is. You are DEFINATELY "something else" missy.

KKA Originally Posted by KlassyKelliAnn

Here in spirit, always. Just on a serious summerlong drought of free time and disposable income. Keep posting pretty pics ladies, and interesting stories guys, and pass the lotion

wicked MILF wrote in part:
".....It's been a full day and I've yet to see the OP come back with a comment stating that her post was not meant as such....."

Some members only come onto the forums once a week or so!!...

Did you take a break? Originally Posted by **Karla**

Yes, I have been taking a break...aeheheh.....

I'm still kickn'...thank goodness! Velvet, you know the saying, "there's just too many women and so little time," but now, they have to add...so little funds. With hobby funds being tight...I think most of the hobbyists are being more *choosy* and selecting the newer ladies first...they're men, you can't blame them for that!!

It's always kinda been that way...but now, there's just so many new providers that some of the tried and true, longtime providers, are being skirted to the side. Not blaming anyone...it's just the nature of the beast. Hobbyists know we will always be here...we've been here (lol) for many years...and as sad as that reality is...that's just the way it is.

My advice is to reinvent your business...think of different ways to get their attention. Hope things get better for you hon! Originally Posted by Likinikki

Hi,

To be honest, my real concern was for the male members that had started trolling and for some of the ladies that have gotten in HOT water over the past few months by hanging in the streets, too.

I haven't spoken with you in awhile since my trip down to RGV and if anyone was/is following the drama, then you will know exactly what this thread was really about!

I'm doing good and at one time I did think of "reinventing" myself but thought heck I run my biz on being honest and trustworthy so to have 5 ids doesn't suit me! Thanks for your post, I can relate to exactly what you were saying....***communication***

Still here Wet! Travelling alot with work and now just had some minor knee surgery that will put me on the shelf for a few days. On P411 now...hopefully that will help with some of the screening too! Originally Posted by tim_29m

Hi,

oh wow, I hope your knee is feeling a lot better....I have worried about you, too...all the drama earlier in Japan.....I'm glad you home and resting!

Do any providers take silver bullion??? Originally Posted by DavidT

Hi, What is "silver bullion?"

I don't care who gets pissed at my comment. BUT, your post comes across as IF the men are suppose to step up and take care of you/other ladies IF something comes up in their life.

Well, Well, Well.....Have you ever seen me post or beg for anything from any of member here or any other board for that matter (like your "workers" do)?

Wrong!

This hobby is about men seeing women they wish to enjoy downtime with w/o feeling obligated to financially help the women out at every turn in their life when things happen.
And no man is obligated to see a lady more tA

These men owe use women nothing beyond the date that takes place! Be thankful/grateful for those who do help because they can & will. W/o feeling obligated to do so.

That's my opinion as this is not the first time you've brought something of this nature up.

oh really, I think you have me confused with the girls you turn out and teach!

Now I'm going back to my 70 degree weather and a boat ride. Originally Posted by Wicked Milf

The very last line above: What YOU, WM, has just described and how you interpreted this/WV's post IS not at all what was meant.

You always seem to know how to turn everything around, put words into the mouths of others and tweak everything to your way of thinking or the way you want things to be. It is amazing how you are the first person (and the ONLY person) to constantly say you are not looking for trouble, a fight, drama, etc, etc- yet it just exudes from your very soul.

How dare YOU attack WV for something YOU THINK she meant- when in fact that IS NOT the way it is. You are DEFINATELY "something else" missy.

KKA Originally Posted by KlassyKelliAnn

Thanks!

Yeppers, I am something else. Thanks for letting me know that.

FYI, I didn't attack WV. I, missy, commented on what she put forth.
NOW, if what she put forth is NOT at all how it came across. (to me)
Then SHE, WV, is capable of indicating such.

Until then, do not attack my right to voice my opinion regarding what was put forth in her words and do not insult me nor state I'm turning things around, tweeking their posts or putting words into her mouth. Which is absolutely absurd for you to state such. As it is for you to attack someone because their opinion doesn't suit you.
I voice my opinion based on what's put forth to community. It's been a full day and I've yet to see the OP come back with a comment stating that her post was not meant as such. Until then, MY opinion stands as is! it's NOT the first time she's put forth the same thing about men using her as a ref. when they only seen her once. etc.

Have a great day! Originally Posted by Wicked Milf

[quote=dennisrn;1483128]Some members only come onto the forums once a week or so!!...[/quote]

Thank everyone for playing along...you guys know I always try to post a thread that everyone can say something for fun to brighten someone's day. For those of you thought I was begging, I'm so sorry you took my written words that way........

Wicked....you really need to stay out of mine...me and you have had our long drawn out 'post' they usually get shut down because you like to start 'shit' and I am one that don't mind going back and forth with you!

Remember this, you need to stay in your little world of using new girls and then taking their clients! This post has nothing to do what you suggested but I'm glad it hit a nerve in you...btw, why do you post in my threads, anyway? You're a provider that doesn't work this city and by your post you can tell you don't keep current on any subject that effects this biz here in SA....madam....

As for as referencing topic, to me it becomes a security risk for me when gentlemen I haven't see in two or three years use me as a reference. Reason one, they could be giving my id to undercover, reason two, they could have gotten popped in one of the many stings that has been going in this city for the past few month.

We discussed this before when things weren't so HOT in this city and the guys stated their opinion and it fits perfectly to what you said....."These men owe use women nothing beyond the date that takes place."

Over the past few years and all the drama coming from these boards, I wanted to see who was still hanging around to make this place a happier hobbin community even it's to post a joke or brighten anothers person day by just saying hi.....it's not all about the benji's with me (well okay when the rent is due aheheh)!

Oh yeah, most of my past friends know that I encourage them to see other ladies....REMEMBER THAT!

Sincerely,
Wet

I'm present and accounted for. Thanks for letting me know about your "roll call", Wet. I was talking with a friend from Oklahoma, TheHorseTrainer who told me that the SA people are awesome. I'm so glad Wet took me under her wing.

Holy smokes!! A simple post sure seems to have turned into more than what I think was intended.....

Anyway, hi Wet. I'm still around, but not very active. The old white dog in my avatar, that you met once upon a time, has passed on though, at the ripe old doggie age of 14 1/2. I sure miss him... :-(

Holy smokes!! A simple post sure seems to have turned into more than what I think was intended.....
Originally Posted by Whitedog

Exactly!!!!! Because some people just LOVE to be vigilantes and start shit for no reason other than to enhance their own underhanded or obvious (yet oblivious to themselves) agendas. As usual. Nothing has changed, nor will it anytime soon.

Wet Velvet, you rock.

KKA
XOXO

Im still here babe! Let me know if you need anything!
MUAH