Gangbang??

I have been in a few GBs during my swinging days. For about 6 years I hosted (old swinger ID name)'s Annual Birthday Bang for my birthday. One day I will share what I did for my 50th B-day but not now.

I share all this because I want to comment from the side of experience that Babee's system is excellent!!! That best one I have ever seen! Well thought out and planned with enough flexibility.

Ladies, if you want to do you first or if you have done them before but it was a bit chaotic.... Babee has it down pat!! USE her suggestions!

Great job, Babee!!

Smooch!

Lea

Thanks Lea. we still need to do a BIG one on the coast, don't we?

Protect your clients as strongly as you protect yourself and you can't go wrong.

*edit: BIG ones. Clients have to have met at least one of the girls and set up a separate site for it rather than run through one girl's or every girl's site(s). Yes, I have a GB site, no it's not public. Payment in full I'd do no less than 24 hours ahead of time. No collecting the 'day of" - too stressful.*

for those have been in one before what is it like, do all the guys where condoms and take turns or do they cum on the lady? all the ones i've seen in porn videos have the cum flying everywhere but i would think its different in real life?

Babee it sounds like you really got your shit together on this. Maybe I can meat the criteria to get an invite to one of your bangs?!!

Ive heard the biggest complain and i imagine so especially in the hobby.... is getting the guys to commit.

I had a Houston lady ask me if i knew people but i wasnt even sure who would even commit based on experiences that have been shared.

Babee, you need to make an instructional video from start to finish.

Getting guys to commit can be tricky. Some guys are exhibitionists and love showing off, others are voyeurs and love watching. Others are just shy about playing in front of other guys for the obvious reasons. The best is to get guys with a very healthy ego regarding their sexuality and who are both exhibitionists and voyeurs. They will show up for sure. Of course a lot depends on who the gal or gals are so the gals need to be hotttttt and not just willing to GB for a buck. There is nothing special about a GB if the gal or gals arent hotttt in my experienced opinion.

for those have been in one before what is it like, do all the guys where condoms and take turns or do they cum on the lady? all the ones i've seen in porn videos have the cum flying everywhere but i would think its different in real life? Originally Posted by larry696

Hate to tell ya, but porn is the Pixar of sex, sweetie. Yeah it looks good but things just dont work that way in RL.

My post said "bags of condoms thrown about" and they are not there for decor sweetie. Thats why no unknowns and no more than 5 without a minder or security. Let's face it, I have to have a high level of trust in each of the bangers and firmly believe that some kind of "pack mentality" will not take over. Its actually a precarious position for a provider and for participants (dont know each other, not friends, no loyalty to each other) and is why my bangs are invite only. Chances are I may be a little more distracted than when 1on1 and I have to trust that everybody is playing by the rules.

As to COwhatever - thats the ladies' choice.

Babee it sounds like you really got your shit together on this. Maybe I can meat the criteria to get an invite to one of your bangs?!! Originally Posted by Good one

Not up to me. Times running short. I'm on my "Everywhere I wanted to go before I retire" tour.

Ive heard the biggest complain and i imagine so especially in the hobby.... is getting the guys to commit.

I had a Houston lady ask me if i knew people but i wasnt even sure who would even commit based on experiences that have been shared. Originally Posted by mojojo213

Might take a provider a couple of years to get a good group of bangers together. The "OH! I want in on that" and then silence/cant make it when its time to pull the trigger happens a lot.

So would this be to guys you have seen only before only?
I may go out on a limb and set one up just to see the results.

Where you based out of? I May be able to help you with it.

Hubby, I'll have to ask Dee about you! Last year? we had the beginnings of a BIG bang going on the coast and it fell through. So so sad. me, Dallas, Belinda, April, Lea, Lillith, Tess and a few others. Would still love to do that.

Chocie, there's always nerves the first time. Most of my clients learn to trust me (whether they fear me or not). I harp on safety and discretion and it usually takes meeting me once for people to figure out that I really mean that. Yeah there has to be that exhibitionist in someone, but you have to trust that I won't put you in a bad place. Put your mind in a place of "Nobody knows me, Who cares?". And yes, you do have to be comfortable in your own skin.

Mojo? What?

Babee gb's hobby wise is usually for guys you've seen before I imagine? I would think you run a bigger ncns risk with newbies.

Ok gotcha.

I dunno @ the newbies. I wouldn't do a bang with someone I wasn't "intimately acquainted with". Everyone on my bang list I have seen multiple times - let me clarify that. You don't get an invite if you have seen me one time. (has happened, but rare)

From my perspective, too much can go too wrong too fast. It's gang bang not gang rape (though I have done a few of those too). I was in one where a guy had to be pulled away, restrained, beat down and thrown out. Needless to say - we all had to scatter as well. More than once, either me, other participants or security has had to intercede: try to slip the cover off, not sharing, too rough etc. Smaller (but important) stuff.

If its me and 5, I have to feel like all 5 will play nicely and if push comes to shove that 3 of the 5 will. (if no security) Thats primary over NCNS or anything else. I have to have a very good idea of the personalities involved, thats my job. 5 people I dont know in a bang - hell no. Disaster.

5 guys who know each other & me alone? Disaster. The only time I have a driver/security is a train type date. And my guiy is the biggest scariest best armed in the place.

Believe it or not, the smaller bangs are more intimidating to the guys than the big ones. If you get NCNS find another lady or two, hire some security, add more invites and it'll happen.

Babee..I will vouch for Badhusband...hes awesomely HOT in bed!!!

Times running short. I'm on my "Everywhere I wanted to go before I retire" tour. Originally Posted by babee

babee... I see November may be my month to go "Everywhere I want to go and everywhere I want you to go before YOU retire" opertunity.

Keep Kansas on the list babee!

A gang bang, sounds hot!! How about a reverse gang bang?