Guys & incriminating Questions

DallasRain's Avatar
I understand where youre coming from summer...the guys that i dont answer alot of info/incriminating answers to are the unverified or newbie gents...or new clients to me

i understand the guys pount of view too
but theres enough reputable gals around that you have no worries on what their playtimes encompass

I enjoy the flirting,teasing and sharing thoughts on whats gonna happen in playtimes....but with my regular clients or with very legitimate verifible new clients
Cherokeechief's Avatar
Dallas that's kinda where I was gonna head.

I do understand where some of the guys are coming from.

They hate to pay out the nose and not know the activities that are acceptable.
Hot Summer's Avatar
I understand where youre coming from summer...the guys that i dont answer alot of info/incriminating answers to are the unverified or newbie gents...or new clients to me

I enjoy the flirting,teasing and sharing thoughts on whats gonna happen in playtimes....but with my regular clients or with very legitimate verifible new clients Originally Posted by DallasRain
Thats exactly right and thank you Dallas.
I figured you would understand being we are on the same side of the coin.
I understand where youre coming from summer...the guys that i dont answer alot of info/incriminating answers to are the unverified or newbie gents...or new clients to me

i understand the guys pount of view too
but theres enough reputable gals around that you have no worries on what their playtimes encompass

I enjoy the flirting,teasing and sharing thoughts on whats gonna happen in playtimes....but with my regular clients or with very legitimate verifible new clients Originally Posted by DallasRain
This part is SO true, I only have a couple people I see more often, but the ability to be more open leading up to the appt is a major perk. I just told a friend a bar to meet me at so I could get that “taking her back to my place vibe” along with an outfit request… It’s taken YEARS to find a few I click with like this though.

When it’s a new person it’s sooooo difficult, I’ve been disappointed so many ways whether it’s services offered or pics that aren’t accurate/up to date at all (from girls most all would label reputable). That being said, I research a ton, let them screen me, and occasionally I’ll ask for permission to ask a “detailed question” after I am positive they’re legit.
Hot Summer's Avatar
I just hope the take away from this thread is understandable.
If you can't get a response or a lady ghosts you after you've asked her incriminating questions.
Now you know why .
ofcourse I'm not talking about consensual conversations between people who already know each other.
I'm referring to first contact with a professional.
Anyone asking me about Happy endings is automatically blocked.
Playing safe is what this thread is about.
Cherokeechief's Avatar
I just hope the take away from this thread is understandable.
If you can't get a response or a lady ghosts you after you've asked her incriminating questions.
Now you know why .
ofcourse I'm not talking about consensual conversations between people who already know each other.
I'm referring to first contact with a professional.
Anyone asking me about Happy endings is automatically blocked.
Playing safe is what this thread is about. Originally Posted by Hot Summer
Yes Summer I do agree. If your dealing with a professional with research you can almost always find reviews to answer these questions.
With Pro's you will need to do research before you act.

If you're a STG's guy and that's all then good luck to you because your more quality Ladies are reviewed and verified.
Hot Summer's Avatar
Thanks chief I'm glad it's being understood by someone.
I appreciate your input.
I'm not one to sugar coat things,
So this can be a tough crowd sometimes LOL
Best of luck to those who don't understand.
Because it goes both ways with LE ..
I definitely wouldn't agree to a S*X ACT via
TEXT MESSAGE IF I WAS I GUY EITHER
Cherokeechief's Avatar
Thanks chief I'm glad it's being understood by someone.
I appreciate your input.
I'm not one to sugar coat things,
So this can be a tough crowd sometimes LOL
Best of luck to those who don't understand.
Because it goes both ways with LE ..
I definitely wouldn't agree to a S*X ACT via
TEXT MESSAGE IF I WAS I GUY EITHER Originally Posted by Hot Summer
I'd agree in a heartbeat.
Depending who's offering.
Rooter's Avatar
I know you guys all have your opinions.
But from this side I'm just trying to explain to you why these
Questions can and will get you ghosted & sometimes blocked even.
So Do what you want with the information I've provided.
My retired LE client keeps me in the loop
So I'm gonna keep staying safe & haven fun !!!
Xoxox
I hope this thread helps some of you fellas ! Originally Posted by Hot Summer
I just think it's awesome you have old uncle Leo on your side! Good thread, with lots of good points, and points of view. I guess the bottom line is we will keep doing what we do as long as it works. If we have problems, we may need to change. Understanding what we might be doing wrong can help us adapt.
Rooter's Avatar
I keep seeing,"stick to the reputable ladies on this board". That could be true, but how many are there?
I'm sure I could count them on the fingers of one hand. Hell that's next door to monogamy. If we were all monogamists we wouldn't be here in the first place. So my point is simply that if you are going to shop around you better know what you are getting into if you don't want to be taken advantage of. If someone does not want to be upfront with me then I simply say NEXT PLEASE. If that ruffles a few feathers I can live with it. Originally Posted by grayturner
This was kind of the elephant in the room on this whole thread to me, glad you said it. Or in my case, if you like livin on the edge a bit, "nonreputable ladies" have their own distinct acquired taste.
Brayzen's Avatar
Not that it makes any difference… But here’s my two cents.
My screening is pretty intense, not only for my safety, but I want to know a little about who I’m going to see. I do not entertain more than one a day, so I know my situation is a little different then some. I do you have many texts that ask some questions before screening. I do say, I hope you’ve done your research before you contacted me,
Or anyone else,
For both of our interests. That will tell you SOME of what you’re wanting to know, and we can discuss further after your screening.
I then send the screening criteria.
They either do it or don’t.
No harm no foul.
I do understand that the gentleman have questions and if I don’t do what they are looking for, I certainly don’t want them to come see me and be disappointed. I strive to go beyond what’s expected.
Everyone isn’t going to “click” and if someone starts out the convo with...
Do you do BB,
I simply say no, but I’m sure someone out there does.
Good luck in your search.