
Well you know what they say, nothing here is real. It couldn't possibly be. It's all fantasy. It's all in the mind
If we are all just handles on a hooker board and just nothing but a screen then I guess respect, posts, things we say really don't matter at all? Originally Posted by Eccie Addict
I would say that my board persona is who I am. I don't like behaving as somebody that I'm not, as it seems fake to me. Obviously, there are some aspects that are not "me". Being that "Destiny" is not who I really am, my born identity so to say, which in that aspect is indeed a persona. Originally Posted by Naughty DestinyDo you see how you totally contradicted yourself? It doesn't matter if it's being nice or being a bitch - it's a still ALL fake persona. No offense and I don't know you/don't have a reason to single you out but I'm using what you said as an example. It's all fake. I, for one, have to be someone else to do what I do as a provider. Not that I don't love my job but it's easier to do so. Here on eccie, totally different from who I am BCD with my clients AND most definitely different from who I am when I'm home with my family. That girl wouldn't be here.
Do you see how you totally contradicted yourself? It doesn't matter if it's being nice or being a bitch - it's a still ALL fake persona. No offense and I don't know you/don't have a reason to single you out but I'm using what you said as an example. It's all fake. Originally Posted by Naomi4uThank you for your opinion. It's appreciated. BUT I have to disagree. The board persona that I possess is the same persona that is going to open the door when I meet the client that has been reading my posts on the board, therefore making it not fake at all. "Destiny" is a persona backed by a REAL person...
London Rayne is a character plain and simple. I don't treat men I date in real life the same way I am with clients...it's not realistic. I can't "fake" true emotion or intimacy, but I can in fact fake many other things. I know when to keep my mouth shut in public, how to dress in every situation, etc. Just having common sense tells most people not to dress like a stripper in fk me pumps, when a married man is picking her up. It tells her showing her face all over the net while escorting in the same town she is a nurse in, is pretty damn stupid too. Or, that cursing all the time lacks ability to have a vocabulary filled with useful words.Finally a lady realistic view on providing, board persona, and real life!
Of course, I am not the same person I am here! Gimme a break. I freaking tithe, I volunteer at St. Jude, and I have never in my LIFE cheated on a partner. Everything I am in my personal life contradicts what I do as London Rayne. I don't bring home other women for the men I date, don't go out to bars without him, don't dress with my azz and boobs hanging out, and don't fly off the handle unless someone is literally in my face. It's a totally different person, but clients don't want to hear about that crap...as if. They don't want to hear about what church you go to, what problems you had at work or with your lover, etc. They pay for the fantasy, yet claim they want the real me. No they don't, because the very few times I got a bit too comfy and let some of my real life issues come through, it was done with.
They want the real you but they want that you to be perfect, always happy, never bloated, and in heels ready to fk...that's not reality, and it's certainly NOT the real me. Originally Posted by London Rayne
London Rayne is a character plain and simple. I don't treat men I date in real life the same way I am with clients...it's not realistic. I can't "fake" true emotion or intimacy, but I can in fact fake many other things. I know when to keep my mouth shut in public, how to dress in every situation, etc. Just having common sense tells most people not to dress like a stripper in fk me pumps, when a married man is picking her up. It tells her showing her face all over the net while escorting in the same town she is a nurse in, is pretty damn stupid too. Or, that cursing all the time lacks ability to have a vocabulary filled with useful words.
Of course, I am not the same person I am here! Gimme a break. I freaking tithe, I volunteer at St. Jude, and I have never in my LIFE cheated on a partner. Everything I am in my personal life contradicts what I do as London Rayne. I don't bring home other women for the men I date, don't go out to bars without him, don't dress with my azz and boobs hanging out, and don't fly off the handle unless someone is literally in my face. It's a totally different person, but clients don't want to hear about that crap...as if. They don't want to hear about what church you go to, what problems you had at work or with your lover, etc. They pay for the fantasy, yet claim they want the real me. No they don't, because the very few times I got a bit too comfy and let some of my real life issues come through, it was done with.
They want the real you but they want that you to be perfect, always happy, never bloated, and in heels ready to fk...that's not reality, and it's certainly NOT the real me. Originally Posted by London Rayne
Regardless, I think the way one conducts themselves on this board gives an impression of their character. Not saying it's entirely who they are, but little things account for a lot sometimes.You should meet some of the HDH girls I have, and watch them scarf down a Big Mac then pee in the parking lot lol. You would be surprised just how fake some people can be for impression's sake.
I think everyone has an alter ego of some sort. Originally Posted by Shayla